Amhappy: Wonders they say shall never end.
A colleague of mine told me his story yesterday.
He dated this girl for 7yrs,starting from senior sec school. During his service year they had a serious quarrel and broke up. Both families were involved.Cause of quarrel, the lady's fam accused him of being the reason while their daughter was not serious in sch,he is already through with school and serving,She dropped out (was doing her HND). This guy walked away.

2yrs later girl reappeared and pleaded for them to start over again. He gave in since he still loves her and also got an affirmative from his mum. His mum loves this babe and wanted her as a Daughter in law

September last year(like 2months later) the girl visited him,said she got admission in a nursing sch and need like N200,000 for school fees,accommodation etc. My colleague just came back from offshore and is loaded,he spits it.

A month later he got a call that the lady's bride price has been paid. He calls her and she denies then suddenly out of reach. He call tire. He later got a lot of calls from his cousins at villa to confirm her traditional and wedding.

Months later the girl called and said she's sorry but needed the cash for her traditional marriage.

The guy wanted to ask for repay but didn't so as not to go against his mum's advice.

Personally i think he should collect his money back. What's ur take?

Teebest82: Tell your friend to take heart,a lady also duped me of 1500naira last week wednesday and i'v gotten over it......

El Guapo: Shout-out to the Maga of the year -- OBAGO!

coogar:

the truth is - the N200k might mean nothing to the boy. the OP is crying more than the bereaved!

I sure thought of that, but man if the story is something to go by then we've got a Classified A ninny around

greatgod2012: I do not and will never support what the lady did to the guy, infact, its very bad and should not be encouraged at all.


However, i want to look at it from another angle. I see some "what ifs" in this relationship.


What if it was the guy who first scammed this lady in one way or the other before, i meant before their first separation and the lady has been looking for a way to revenge?


What if it was the guy who first broke this lady's heart in a very hard way and the lady thinks this is the best way for her to pay him back in his coin?
Many what ifs...............


Since we are not able to hear from the lady's mouth her reason for her action and also we dont know what really transpired between the two of them, i think its better to tread carefully when judging the lady.


Once again, i do not support her action, but its only God who sees what is hidden.

May God help us all.

life_style: After God, I fear women...