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Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by eluquenson(m): 7:56am On Oct 25, 2013
I listened to a program on Love, Relationship and Marriage on Saturday, and a man mentioned that his in-laws would not let him have his wife until he had done a 'proper' white wedding. This piqued my interest. If we claim to be traditional people, proudly African, why do we put marriages on hold or feel its incomplete when we haven't walked down the aisle?

Whats your opinion??

Re: Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by toyorsiii(f): 7:59am On Oct 25, 2013
no mind us jere...na copy copy dey worry us
Re: Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by uboma(m): 8:16am On Oct 25, 2013
Its almost every woman's dream to flaunt in her white wedding gown/dress.
Re: Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by lirusehn(m): 8:25am On Oct 25, 2013
Thread closed temporarily. *off 2 conffesion box*

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Re: Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by Nobody: 9:54am On Oct 25, 2013
It is just a competition thing. If they won't allow u do what u want to marry their daughter, dump the babe or do what they want and kick their assses after the wedding.
Re: Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by eluquenson(m): 9:56am On Oct 25, 2013
tpacalipse: It is just a competition thing. If they won't allow u do what u want to marry their daughter, dump the babe or do what they want and kick their assses after the wedding.
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Re: Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by chineloSA(f): 10:10am On Oct 25, 2013
One of the non negotiable requirements that I wanted from a future husband was that we share the same religion and same religious views.
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So going for church wedding is
1) a foundation for our marriage. ( through marriage counselling, intergrating our differences etc )
2) foundation where we will raise our kids
3) foundation for our marriage vows
4) foundation for our family beliefs.



ABOVE ALL MAKING GOD OUR FOUNDATION


So skipping what is suppose to be the foundation for our whole marriage would not make sense to me undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Why Are We So Particular About The Church/white Wedding by Agybabe(f): 10:20am On Oct 25, 2013
because God's signature is needed and it's the woman's pride

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