coogar:

not good....i'm currently a refugee - UK storm took my roof off. can i come & chill with you for 3 weeks?

Afam4eva: It's very normal for men. People keep saying men cheat but they don't know to what degree. I thought the whole cheating by men was exxagerated until i started hanging out with men without their wives and their flirtatious disposition was off the hook. It's funny that some women think their husbands are not like other men just because they've never caught them. Based on my experience, i can say that the men who don't cheat are in the minority.

baby_123:

Only Jesus succeeded in raising the dead. What is dead is dead. Viagra may work for a while, but see the side effects:

Indigestion Less Severe
Visible Water Retention Less Severe
Temporary Redness of Face and Neck Less Severe
Head Pain Less Severe
Nosebleed Less Severe

It gets worse, see link
http://www.webmd.com/drugs/mono-297-SILDENAFIL+-+ORAL.aspx?drugid=7417&drugname=viagra+oral&pagenumber=6

In essence, dont start what you cant finish with your wife. She is managing you, and you are cheating. When nature takes it course, na then jungle go mature for you. You go hear am in words, actions and everything else. Stay faithful, enjoy and appreciate what you have. Life is a lot less complicated that way

armyofone: awww, oh come on in!!
I have green and black tea and some spicy fish pepper soup for you.

carujmonella: @OP, it's not normal for ANY gender to cheat. Cheating is bad and should be condemned. All these "men are polygamous in nature" is pure crap. A man or woman that values his or her partner won't cheat her.



I have problem with your 98% deduction. How did you come about your fallacy?. Which research did you or anybody carry out and came to the conclusion that 98% men cheat?. And about your number 2, in as much as cheating is bad, you can't say the fault of her hubby cheating is not her's. It can be her of fault. Some ladies push their hubbies into cheating though not all the times but it doesn't justifying the men cheating nor the women cheating though

coogar:

thanks....
what are the house rules?

Royal Roy:
King of GIF is back!! Nice

coogar:

thanks....
what are the house rules?

armyofone: You are welcome.
Rule 1-3
Do not snoop around my room
Must be able to cook spicy snail stew.
No drinking alomo bitter (whatever that is) in the house

baby_123: baby_123:

Only Jesus succeeded in raising the dead. What is dead is dead. Viagra may work for a while, but see the side effects:

Indigestion Less Severe
Visible Water Retention Less Severe
Temporary Redness of Face and Neck Less Severe
Head Pain Less Severe
Nosebleed Less Severe

It gets worse, see link
http://www.webmd.com/drugs/mono-297-SILDENAFIL+-+ORAL.aspx?drugid=7417&drugname=viagra+oral&pagenumber=6

In essence, dont start what you cant finish with your wife. She is managing you, and you are cheating. When nature takes it course, na then jungle go mature for you. You go hear am in words, actions and everything else. Stay faithful, enjoy and appreciate what you have. Life is a lot less complicated that way

baby_123: Thanks Royal Roy. But all my opponents have abandoned the debate. You took too long.

Sagamite:

Gaddamn it!

And people have been telling me all this while to find Jesus, I have not listened.

A mistress must be Jesus then.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=34RHhA3Dy3c

*Saga wails*

Jesus, here I come.

I give my life to you.

baby_123:
You are desperate to have posted that video. SMH!!!

When you turn 45, i will see what you have to say. That is if frustration has not put you in hiding.

solidhomes: Please I need to know if I am living in a fool's world. I've been told severally not to bother myself about a cheating husband because it is very normal men to cheat, but I never seem to be able to bear it when I find out my hubby has been having an extra-marital affair. I have tried to talk myself out of feeling very bad but it has never worked for me. Is expecting total faithfulness from one's hubby too much to ask for? And if it is, I need to know practical ways to get over the feeling of hurt and betrayal. Or better, tips to lock up every feeling inside of me and just relate with him like a roommate whom I just owe some duties.

dabriggs: Buhahaha...what will I not read on Nairaland. People who know nothing abut human psychology dropping solutions.."Do this...if it doesnt work then do that.."
Just pray you meet a guy who has been wired not to see the beauty in another woman with the desire to conquer her and have her. Some of the men who do not cheat could also be that they haven't seen the oppurtunity or temptation strong enough.There are some environments you keep a man and he wont cheat.Same go for women.
I as much as you would love to ignore it men have a desire tohave sex,procreate,feel good about their bad boy status and test it if it still works,grew up in a society where their uncles, elder brothers, fathers, kinsmen had more than one partner and bragged about it like a conquest.
Cheating has also become more common for women today.They are catching on. They are bolder and breaking free from religio-cultural norms that used to keep them bound and restricted in the past.Norms that made men Aplha and women Beta.
The only thing you can do like a few wise people have said is to let him know how it hurts and affects you including the risk it posses; STIs, unwanted pregnancies, even more expenses in keeping more than one woman(bills), and family stress and strain etc. It is no guarantee that it would even work.However it is better to appeal to his logic. If you appeal to pity or get arrogant with nagging and tantrums you will be wasting your time.
ONLY A CHEATING PARTNER CAN CHANGE THEMSELVES.But it must take strong reasons and justifications with clear benefits of fidelity compared to cheating.

dabriggs: Buhahaha...what will I not read on Nairaland. People who know nothing abut human psychology dropping solutions.."Do this...if it doesnt work then do that.."
Just pray you meet a guy who has been wired not to see the beauty in another woman with the desire to conquer her and have her. Some of the men who do not cheat could also be that they haven't seen the oppurtunity or temptation strong enough.There are some environments you keep a man and he wont cheat.Same go for women.
I as much as you would love to ignore it men have a desire tohave sex,procreate,feel good about their bad boy status and test it if it still works,grew up in a society where their uncles, elder brothers, fathers, kinsmen had more than one partner and bragged about it like a conquest.
Cheating has also become more common for women today.They are catching on. They are bolder and breaking free from religio-cultural norms that used to keep them bound and restricted in the past.Norms that made men Aplha and women Beta.
The only thing you can do like a few wise people have said is to let him know how it hurts and affects you including the risk it posses; STIs, unwanted pregnancies, even more expenses in keeping more than one woman(bills), and family stress and strain etc. It is no guarantee that it would even work.However it is better to appeal to his logic. If you appeal to pity or get arrogant with nagging and tantrums you will be wasting your time.
ONLY A CHEATING PARTNER CAN CHANGE THEMSELVES. But it must take strong reasons and justifications with clear benefits of fidelity compared to cheating.

Queenyprinxex: I trust my G. Hezz not d cheating type.

Amaaskia: SMH at some comments here. They're even proud to be cheating! Booo!

Cheating isn't normal. If he cheats, measure his worth, work it out (if he's still worth it-kids/marriage) or dump him.
Cheating automatically makes him not worth it anyway.
Once I find out, that's the end.

naijaborn001: If ur wife canot give goo head, then its kinda kool to cheat with UNILAG babes. DEm can sabi give good head!