Swiftboy: Ok here is a point to think about...biologically a man is wired to think about se.x almost all the time.For a woman,its only once in a while.A man have over a year to wait for his wife to be ready for intimacy which may mean an easy avenue for the man to be tempted off.For a woman,child bearing is a barrier so she cant go about dating around.Women,if you're serious about keeping your man...you must keep your loins moistened almost all the time to keep your man! Do him such that he would not have the energy to burn on another woman.or better still castrate him after Child-birth!

"you must keep your loins moistened almost all the time to keep your man! Do him such that he would not have the energy to burn on another woman.or better still castrate him after Child-birth!" This part got me laughing.

Ozioma49: Wait o!..come to think of it the men that do cheat do they cheat with animalsisn't it the same married women that do commit the act with them....just thinking out loud

mr let me shock u!!.most men that cheat does it with young single girls and not married ones!!!

wabbyland: how to treat a cheating man

here in ak,i know some men who complain that their wife dnt wash their cloths.this is no joke,some women dnt wash their husband's cloth,is this also normal?if it is normal 4 them,then its normal 4 men to cheat.many little tinz would make a man cheat on his wife.

dnacrystal: I know a man who has never had an extra affair.

u be satelite?

Kanwulia: 4. This is the part that kills me!

One question for you.
WAS YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL TO YOU WHEN YOU WERE DATING? Were YOU totally MONOGAMOUS AND FAITHFUL

OH! You became 'born-agains' after eating the 'forbidden-fruit' huhn?

You both took 'vows' right? When you took those vows, did you REALLLLLLY believe in them? MOST MEN WERE ALREADY CHEATS WHEN THEIR WIVES JUMPED IN WITH THE HELP OF A PREGNANCY-TRAP, PASTORS OR BABALAWOS to claim the gigolo or P.I.M.P as A WINNNG TROPHY!

The men NEVER CARED FOR THEIR AZZZZES IN THE FIRST PLACE!

So why cry when the men are still what THEY WERE when the women DESPERATELY jumped in wide eyes WIDE OPEN?


Finally!
YES! You are asking too much for 100% faithfulness OR commitment from YOUR HUSBAND!!! You are NOT THAT SPECIAL, because OBVIOUSLY, you have NEVER EARNED IT AND NEVER WILL!!!

Tough darling! What DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER A MAN besides opening your hot legs and breeding like a GUINEA-PIG?

Any MANGABEE-MONKEY can do JUST that dear!

WHAT ARE YOU? If you claim to be a wife, START BY EARNING YOUR SELF-RESPECT FIRST!

DID A WOMAN HURT U OR U R JUST BEING ANTI-WOMAN...COS U SOUND HARSH..THOUGH GOT SOME POINTS..

Kanwulia: 1. Cheating is VERY NORMAL FOR ALL MEN!!! If they do not cheat with their bodies, THEY SLEEP ONLINE AND SUPER-CHEAT WITH THEIR MINDS!!!!

The "craftiest" ones aka EMOTIONAL-SCAMMERS will even give you ALL USER-IDs and PASSWORDS so they can be jeeerrrking-off behind your moo-moo azzzze while face-booking with others with YOUR WOR-WOR happy face with "GORILLA-TEETH" and all on their profile pages!

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew!!!!

Well said,

FOLYKAZE: Oyinbo is forcing homosexual and divorce right on us.

It time we promote polygamus marriage to them.

Woman.....this is our culture and identity....never say never when your man bring in another chick.

Are you ok?

ileobatojo:

In other words, they are too dumb to figure out the bolded themselves.

1000 likes

Probably, yes. Too much blood downstairs, so something must be missing upstairs

Swiftboy: Ok here is a point to think about...biologically a man is wired to think about se.x almost all the time.For a woman,its only once in a while.A man have over a year to wait for his wife to be ready for intimacy which may mean an easy avenue for the man to be tempted off.For a woman,child bearing is a barrier so she cant go about dating around.Women,if you're serious about keeping your man...you must keep your loins moistened almost all the time to keep your man! Do him such that he would not have the energy to burn on another woman.or better still castrate him after Child-birth!

Do you know how often once in a while is before you come up with this kind of advice?

chinziaski:

Lolz, den you go ur way and date another cheating guy. Stop forming badtest girl ever liveth, because if you continue with this mindset, you will walk away from 5marriages.

Ama just made mi laugh, measure his worth when he had already measured urs with 6girls he is cheating with... Poof

Typical answer from a Nigerian man, pushing the fear button of a woman
So what if she marries 5 times? It's fun

Monogamy or whatever you call it I'm starting to think it aint for everybody, most of us just rush into it anyway you know what I'm saying, you aint rushing for love and I aint up here to judge so let's neglect the what if's and make it do what it does
- folarin

Some men think with their d**k not their head, that's why they cheat.

It will be a fallacy of hasty generalizations to say all men cheat on their wives. But somebody has said in her response that 98% percent of them does cheat. There are no stringent moral rules in our society to curb such activities. Having said that, you need a man that fear God because it is the only thing that can prevent a man from grazing out. Also religion is a factor that instill moral in some.
As it is you have to take heart and pray very hard for his salvation

vivianc:

1. Cheating is not normal and can never be normal. But we live in a world where nothing is normal anymore.
98% of men cheat! That's the raw truth! It doesn't matter how perfect life seems on nairaland or how perfect everybody seems here, but take a walk around your relevant environment and see for yourself. That guy somewhere you think doesn't cheat hasn't been caught, yet!

.

Interesting and right observation....

Something dey smell...

chinziaski:

Lolz, den you go ur way and date another cheating guy. Stop forming badtest girl ever liveth, because if you continue with this mindset, you will walk away from 5marriages.

Ama just made mi laugh, measure his worth when he had already measured urs with 6girls he is cheating with... Poof

Whatever. Mtchewww!

pro01: By the way, this goes to men. The more faithful you are to one woman (wife or girlfriend), the more likely you are to be cheated on, believe it or not. I can probably explain the dynamic behind that, but I'd leave that for another day. Suffice it to say, however, that faithful men are essentially predictable men. Unfortunately, almost every woman is wired to dishonour predictable men.

No-nonsense husbands who refresh themselves with periodic trysts (while maintaining a strict leash on their wives) seldom suffer the indignity of being cuckolded.

hmmm.... freaky ish... has anyone seen TEMPTATIONS... u got something there,,,

lol.. obvious you are a statistician,... and truthfully so many good guys looking for wifey
but they are GOOOD guys and thus boring

so they are passed over

kpolli: Cheating is normal for men is the excuse every cheat gives when he is caught....

Cheating is not normal, not upto 50% of men cheat but due to the fact that most women won't settle with the good ones.... They have to share the few bad ones while the good ones stay single....

It would surprise you how many husbands stay faithful

Always remember, good news is never spread..... You never hear that guy has been faithful for 50yrs, you always hear that guy cheated the day after he got married.

ƐƦƖ~~ΑβƊξƖ:
Monogamy or whatever you call it I'm starting to think it aint for everybody, most of us just rush into it anyway you know what I'm saying, you aint rushing for love and I aint up here to judge so let's neglect the what if's and make it do what it does

Plagiarism


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9XGmE20-tY

(Love this song)

Kanwulia: 4. This is the part that kills me!

One question for you.
WAS YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL TO YOU WHEN YOU WERE DATING? Were YOU totally MONOGAMOUS AND FAITHFUL

OH! You became 'born-agains' after eating the 'forbidden-fruit' huhn?

You both took 'vows' right? When you took those vows, did you REALLLLLLY believe in them? MOST MEN WERE ALREADY CHEATS WHEN THEIR WIVES JUMPED IN WITH THE HELP OF A PREGNANCY-TRAP, PASTORS OR BABALAWOS to claim the gigolo or P.I.M.P as A WINNNG TROPHY!

The men NEVER CARED FOR THEIR AZZZZES IN THE FIRST PLACE!

So why cry when the men are still what THEY WERE when the women DESPERATELY jumped in wide eyes WIDE OPEN?


Finally!
YES! You are asking too much for 100% faithfulness OR commitment from YOUR HUSBAND!!! You are NOT THAT SPECIAL, because OBVIOUSLY, you have NEVER EARNED IT AND NEVER WILL!!!

Tough darling! What DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER A MAN besides opening your hot legs and breeding like a GUINEA-PIG?

Any MANGABEE-MONKEY can do JUST that dear!

WHAT ARE YOU? If you claim to be a wife, START BY EARNING YOUR SELF-RESPECT FIRST!

hehehehe you wicked o

Okija_juju: When men cheat, who do they cheat with?

d a m n, this is d e e p

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Is bad

Kanwulia: 2. Men are not built to be MONOGAMOUS.

Oga pls talk about what you know only! The God that created man, made ONE wife for him! He said 'I will make A suitable companion for him, He didn't make MANY suitable companions!

You better change that warped mentality of yours, it will only lead to your doom! Your life anyways and your choice, but don't carry on decieving others.

Okija_juju: When men cheat, who do they cheat with?

W-O-R-D !!!!!

kanwulia has said it all in his no.2 analysis.men are monogamous&physical being,women are emotional being(front page.).i think women cheats more than men just that they are more secretive&coded.that im very sure of.most men cheat openly thats why most people think they cheat more than the women folks.

kanwulia has said it all in his no.2 analysis.men are monogamous&physical being,women are emotional being(front page.).i think women cheats more than men just that they are more secretive&coded.that im very sure of.most men cheat openly thats why most people think they cheat more than the women folks.but that is not to say cheating is right,man or woman.it can be very painful.what is bad is bad.period.

vivianc: Errm, I'm hardly qualified to advise you o, cos i'm not married, so I have no idea how it feels for your husband to cheat on you.

I'm just gonna answer your few questions:

1. Cheating is not normal and can never be normal. But we live in a world where nothing is normal anymore.
98% of men cheat! That's the raw truth! It doesn't matter how perfect life seems on nairaland or how perfect everybody seems here, but take a walk around your relevant environment and see for yourself. That guy somewhere you think doesn't cheat hasn't been caught, yet!

2. No, asking for a total faithfulness is not asking for too much. It is not your fault that your hubby cheats, it is his fault!

There are no specific ways to deal with unfaithfulness. However you choose to deal with it hurts so bad!

Women are wired differently! So how are you wired? How strong are you emotionally to swallow that your loving husband cheats? You mustn't deal with this if you don't want to.

So I say you have 2 options; work it out or walk out.

Good luck ma'am.

Not entirely true. A man will ALWAYS find reasons to "cheat" and some of those reasons will be women and in some cases - the woman in his life. She might just be the reason why.

Iykemmanuel:
keep deceiving ur self

is it a crime to trust my CHEATING-BLOODED bf, Huh? :p *set to fight*

mayten30: hmm nice decision though,and u don't need to cover ur face!!don't be shy darling daddy is here with u

love u like kilode.

mayten30: joke?do i look like basket mouth the comedian? well anyways am serious we are getting married very soon,just tell me the date then we are good to go!!!

*changes countenance 2 sad one* how will i b d one 2 choose d date now?

mayten30: are u on whatsapp?

u dnt even knw if sum1 u about gettin married to is on watsap or not? *faints*

its not mens fault that they need to have sex with several women. Kindly read

http://phenomena.nationalgeographic.com/2013/10/07/why-a-little-mammal-has-so-much-sex-that-it-disintegrates/