==> Now i was listening to a Radio Love programme sometime ago and this is the conversation that ensued between the OAP and caller who happens to be a lady.

N:B: OAP means "On Air Personality."

OAP: "Hello!, you're welcome to "The Love Talk," what's your name and where are you calling from?"
LADY: "My name is Anonymous, I'm calling from Benin." she said with a faint tone.

(please be audible so we can hear you clearly)

LADY: "can you hear me now?"
OAP: "Yes! So where in Benin are you calling from?" He asked.
LADY: "It's confidential, don't worry about that."
OAP: "owkkk.... What's on your mind?" He said slightly irritated.
LADY: "I have a little problem like that sha.."
OAP: "Go on, I'm listening." By this time i' am sure he was concentrating with rapt attention.
LADY: "My guy is stingy. I don't really know whether to call him my boyfriend or my ex-" She added.
OAP: "why did you say he's stingy?" He inquired.
LADY: "I usually ask him for money but he doesn't give me" she said bodly.
OAP: "for how long have you been dating this guy?"
LADY: "hmmmm, About four years now."
OAP: "you mean since this four years he hasn't given you money!"
LADY: "Actually he used to give me money before but recently he stopped." I don't really know what's wrong with him, she added.
OAP: " ...and did you ask him why?"
LADY: "Yes i did, he said he doesn't have money."
OAP: "How much are we talking about here?" He inquired.
LADY: "Just 30 thousand."
OAP: "Just 30 THOUSAND?" He said stressing the thousand.
LADY: "Yes, naw...."
OAP: "so tell me, what did you need the money for?"
LADY: "I told him my phone was stolen so i needed a new one instead he gave me his Nokia touchlight phone saying he would give me the money when he has but i rejected the phone." How can a big girl be using that kind of phone, she included.
OAP: "so which phone are you using to call us now?"
LADY: "I have another phone"
OAP: "ehmm... It could be he doesn't really have they money, you know.."
LADY: "He has it! I know he has the money, he's just being stingy." she cuts in.
OAP: "when last did you bought him anything?" he asked obviously eager to know, myself inclusive.
LADY: "Actually i can't remember but i GIVE HIM SEX whenever he asked."
OAP: "you see, that's where the problem lies, you're not suppose to demand extravagantly from your boyfriend just because you Givve him Sexxx, Ok! By doing so you're no different from the p'rostitute on the street." Did he forced you to have sex with him? Did you not enjoy the sex also?

(she ignored the questions)

LADY: "So is it now wrong for me to demand money from my boyfriend?" He's my boyfried naw, so he's suppose to take care of my responsibilities, yet again she added.
OAP: "well it's not wrong though, but you should know that he's a human being like you who also has families depending on him, if you need money to buy a phone go get a job or ask your father. Men don't respect ladies who are liabilities to them, if you want a man to respect you then be an independent woman.

(she became silent obviously touched by his words)

OAP: "Hello! Are you there?" He inquired.
LADY: "Yes, i' am"
OAP: "so is there a future in this relationship, asin, are you guys planning to get married?"
LADY: "Not really! I had already broken up with him since last month"
OAP: "Really!" He asked suprised.
LADY: "Yeah!"
OAP: "so what is now the main reason you called?"
LADY: "I called because ever since i left him, i'have not been able to find another guy like him"
OAP: "well one month is not too much, the problem is not with the guys, the problem is with you. You need to change your mindset towards guys and Money, because when you keep doing so you might not find a guy who truly loves you. Aren't you ashamed when you continuously demand money from a guy?
LADY: (she hung up)

(OAP and co-presenter bursted into uncontrolable laughter)

OAP: "I knew she was going to hung up, jeez! That girl needs deliverance.


WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THIS LADY?!

op my name-sake, you really tried in detailing the conversation,

clemz85: op my name-sake, you really tried in detailing the conversation,

yes boss, just thought i should share it with you guys because that girl character no get part2

They're all the same.. They think money grows on trees.. MtchEEEEeeew never contented with what they have.

Hehehehe laugh wan kill me.

So na sex be payment for money abi? What of the guy energy, abi na she dey fucck am.SHM

Naija girls never change-not all sha, but the beautiful ones are yet to be born

^^ True talk! Guys are always at the receiving end to suffer from these money mongers.

The guy self Bleep up,he has been using money to stabilize the relationship all this while,some naija girls no dey shame at all.

@"She hungs up".

Funny typical naija gil

Ogadinma

The OAP sounds like Chaz B. Well I wonder why our ladies behave the way they do. The trend is now disturbing. These ladies never focus on how to make the relationship a better one but on what material things to take out of the relationship. Please can our mothers truly advise our sisters that sex is not a commodity and is expected to be enjoyed by two people. Can they add value into the lives of these girls.

The girl sounds like the girlfriend of this here nairalander

www.nairaland.com/1501254/girl-friend-3yrs-left-me

@boss13

I totally agree with you. By the way, i listen to Chaz B show almost everyday but it's not him. The OAP also works with Rhythm fm, i decided not to mention his name for security reasons.

Nice one op, front page material.