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|Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Nov 14, 2013|
pickabeau1:Come o, where did u get all these kpomo and fish u r adding to d main dish from?
Chai! U guys can twist story very well o!
I don tire to d argue with u.
I give up.
|Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by pickabeau1: 4:37pm On Nov 14, 2013|
pomo and fish... yumm
|Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by kambili999(f): 5:08pm On Nov 14, 2013|
|Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by tpia5: 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2013|
if there is no codicil from the family saying they have to bear the family surname in order to inherit property, changing their name shouldnt prevent them from doing so, as long as they are recognised by the family as being the man's heirs.
like i also pointed out, this is not the type of matter to just be thrown around nairaland anyhow, thats why i asked if there are no responsible elders to consult in their vicinity.
thirdly, there is no need to panic as i mentioned before. The man could be trying to look out for the best interest of the children, in his own way.
fourthly, the kids already know they are step siblings with possibly more coming. Regardless if they change their name or not, if conflict will occur it still will. Most families do have those, doesnt matter if they're step or not.
|Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by tpia5: 5:13pm On Nov 14, 2013|
Changing their names means losing their identity completely. What stake do they hv in their late father's name again if the only binding thing is forcefully removed?
most family issues in nigeria are usually about property and who inherits what, i assume your concern is also along those lines?
as per losing their identity, if the father himself had changed their names before he died, would they still be considered as having lost their identity? Its a matter of perspective.
how many people in nigeria have never changed names at some point in time?
as per the question posed by the op, no she does not have to change the names of her kids.
but, since the op also introduced the issue of her husband requesting she change their names, then they might as well just pick an entirely new one.
|Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by pickabeau1: 5:47pm On Nov 14, 2013|
nice insight tpia..
|Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by AreaFada2: 8:37pm On Sep 14, 2020|
Though an old post but an eye opener to men.
If you die, the woman doing Lovie Lovie today can consider wiping out or compounding your name of and from your children if another man she meets is rich enough and wants her to.
Let's pray to God for long life so we can raise our kids and enjoy our kids till old age.
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