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Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Roda94(f): 3:19pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
It's sad but it does happen. The average man is intimidated. The question here is 'successful and financially independent women' so for now let's assume their attitude is fine and they're not arrogant. Some men would STILL be intimidated and that i down to their own silly ego. A woman will do everything and be submissive and supportive but an insecure guy will still poke holes and find issues with her. When it all comes down to it you should just be secure in yourself as a man because when you are you can never be intimidated by anyone be it man or woman. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
As long as she still stays humble despite how wealthy or successful she is then we are good to go,and even if she lifts her ego so much,I won't feel bad but what I will do is to hustle tight and become a better man,i feel is when a man is in-secure that he gets angry that is wife or gf is more successful than him 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by 3nairalandcom: 4:46pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
Omo na dey kind woman I long dey search for.any girl?please call dis number kash! |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Idowuogbo(f): 6:31pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
3@nairaland.com:Who release dis one 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
sauer: So you read Satre and de Beauvoir in school? Did you study philosophy? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by patienz(f): 8:05pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
Raymondenyi:Hey dude! U are filled with so much hate & bitterness! U honestly need HELP! See a psychologist! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by patienz(f): 8:09pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons:May your brain be blessed! Lol ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons:May your brain be blessed! Lol |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
De Beauvoir:No i didn't study philosophy. I studied something miles different. Philosophy just wouldn't leave me alone. Even now. And u? U study or studied philosophy? And are you one of them independent ladies in question? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
sauer: In which of your school's courses were Satre and Beauvoir mentioned? I didn't study philosophy, I was asking you if you did because the two people you mentioned were philosophers. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by NobleG1(m): 11:09pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
Because those kind of Nigerian women are likely to disrespect their husbands who earn less cash than them. But in civilized countries this is not the case. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by mitchyy(f): 6:25am On Nov 17, 2013 |
nbright: Are you proud?. If I am it'll be easy to tell from my posts |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 9:38am On Nov 17, 2013 |
De Beauvoir:They were mentioned in none. I never studied anything related to philosophy in school. I learnt about these philosophers while reading other subjects out of interest. Perhaps you understand; I was never one to stick to classroom topics. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 17, 2013 |
DailyNews: Excellent point. This is why I am often disgusted by Nigerian ladies who make a song and dance of their so-called financial independence. More often than not, most of them got there by sleeping with this or that oga,.even though they would deny it to the end. We know them and see them everyday in professional and business circles. Examples abound everywhere. . .from Nollywood to business to banking and other corporate sectors. Most of them get jobs/promotions/contracts/etc by virtue of their carnal affairs with 'ogas', and then turn around to do shakara for other men and claim to be 'independent' women. Like I remarked in another thread, Naija women's idea of independence is to be dependent on some men in order to appear 'independent' to others. Grand deceit. A truly self-made woman is quite rare in this country, believe it or not. Parasitic clowns like Folorunsho Alakija are the examples they look up to. Can you compare that leech (who became a Forbes-certified billionaire by sucking IBB's presidential cöck) to truly self-made madams like Oprah Winfrey or Meg Whitman? Jokers. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 11:09am On Nov 17, 2013 |
sauer: That's good. So what did you think about their existentialist philosophies? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
Pryme-st*rr:;( what a touching speech #nt sarcasm#. whatever floats your boat |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
tobezekiel: still nt all women. and the ones that do.. ermm, I wont totally blame them. whn a woman is financially independent and too soft she might or will be taken for granted by male opportunist.whn a man is financially independent and too soft he might or will be taken for granted by female opportunist. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
De Beauvoir:Wow! Was enthralled by it. I would say these still form some of my core beliefs. In any case, i was probably already brooding existentialist thoughts before i came across these guys. Read numerous Dostoevsky then as well. I think these philosophies somehow serve as basis for today's western living. They may have been unusual then cos they were radical. Today, your regular Joe in the western world probably leads an existentialist life. Am not so sure of Nigerians; we are still kinda tied to religion's apron strings, so not much changes. Maybe when we free ourselves of religious fetters we could become more rational about life. And just to add, I would particularly like to see more Nigerian women become a feminist of the de Beauvoir type, and not of the Hillary Clinton or Sheryl Sandberg type. And what do you think about their philosophies? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Chomzy19(f): 5:42pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
Just Reading thru dis Post, It is obvious that most men behind their bravado facade lies very Insecure beings wit Egos more fragile than EGG... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by troy20(m): 6:19pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
Chomzy19: Just Reading thru dis Post, It is obvious that most men behind their bravado facade lies very Insecure beings wit Egos more fragile than EGG...yea men are insecure too in our own way 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nduxzy: 6:37pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
I have an idea of where you are coming from, believe me I want you to live life to the fullest but am afraid you are just HALF and you need another HALF to live to the fullest! You might have been jilted and hurt BADLY in time past,FORGIVE,START ALL OVER AND LOVE AGAIN! SHALOM! kulyie: sorry,i already have a baby through artificial insemination which i am already nursing and will obviously continue from where i stopped.being a grandma is still a very lonnnnnngggg lonnnnggg time,who says i wont live life to the fullest.thats why i am at home on maternity leave and can nairaland because good enough someone is helping out with my baby |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
sauer: What I think? I agree with a lot of their ideas, I think it is the most fulfilling philosophy humans can live by because it lets people shape themselves into what they want to be and allows them understand and achieve their unlimited potentials. I think existentialism would only work in a society where there there is a functional system for maintaining law and order and keeping people from harming others so I don't believe Nigeria is ready for existentialism. sauer: And just to add, I would particularly like to see more Nigerian women become a feminist of the de Beauvoir type, and not of the Hillary Clinton or Sheryl Sandberg typeFirst of all, it's good to know you support feminism. Secondly, why don't you like the Clinton/Sandberg feminism? Why de Beauvoir? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Jyde81: 7:44pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
I'm a man o but true talk.zm. tobezekiel: still nt all women. and the ones that do.. ermm, I wont totally blame them. whn a woman is financially independent and too soft she might or will be taken for granted by male opportunist. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
Jyde81: I'm a man o but true talk.zm.exactly |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
Nduxzy: I have an idea of where you are coming from, believe me I want you to live life to the fullest but am afraid you are just HALF and you need another HALF to live to the fullest! You might have been jilted and hurt BADLY in time past,FORGIVE,START ALL OVER AND LOVE AGAIN! SHALOM!ok |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:chaaiiiii idowu you dey fvk up.i don find you taya today since morning.you don miss another gbege.you still dey this dull/dead thread when one drama dey boil for family section.anyway the thing don end,but i call you and e pain me as you miss that thread.you wan try abuse nothing wey them o call the babe. Anyway the summary of the jist be say one smalee don get bele and before then we don advise her say make she face her books.she go dey lie give her mama so she go fo her boyfriend house,now she don get bele and the boy say make she go comot am or he go deny am fiercely say no be im give am bele.she don dey confused.but the matter don settle sha.e be like say the girl don go abort the thing comot 8-) |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Jyde81: 8:36pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
wasak:Hmmmm! Another perspective to the matter.......I understand the angle u are coming from... |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Jyde81: 8:46pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
kulyie: 1.Ego will never let meHonestly I doubt u meant all what u've just said. But if u meant it and U're still single, then there is trouble becauser honestly I don't think there is any male out there anywhere who would be able to put up with u.... |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
De Beauvoir:On the contrary, i think Nigeria is indeed ready for existentialism. Okay, i personally don't think one needs to be ready for thoughts that can change one's worldview. These philosophies are just there and anyone or any country can use them to their benefit. Though existentialism may cause one to define ones own values, nowhere does it put one above a country's laws. If anything, it should probably make one more aware of what is right and what is wrong. I think i had this discussion with some ladies here on NL sometime ago. Yea, am for feminism. What i find a bit deceitful is "womanism", or pretence to feminism, or whatever it is called. I don't know; can't put a thing to it. I just think it's incomplete. These women still believe wholeheartedly in marriage and have not completely divorced themselves from male worship. This, i think, is more or less american. I have always found the European concept of feminism more attractive. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
Jyde81: Honestly I doubt u meant all what u've just said. But if u meant it and U're still single, then there is trouble becauser honestly I don't think there is any male out there anywhere who would be able to put up with u....please this is a settled issue,i have said my own,thank you |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Jyde81: 9:38pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
dabossman: I think some of these financially successful ladies need to maybe change or broaden their circle of friends.Really true to a lot of extent |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Unluvable(f): 9:43pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me I like you 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
sauer:I understand where you're coming from but I was thinking, since the individual is the primary concern of existentialists, personal morality and ethics supersede social morality and popular ethics and existentialists agree there are no absolute moral laws. Infact, existentialism is very much about rejecting the commonly accepted notion of morality or the morality of the masses and following an existential system of laws would be to be inauthentic. So basically morality in this sense is a very subjective thing and what I would consider ethical to myself and others might actually bring them a great deal of harm. Let me be honest here, I am still trying to understand the complex nature of existential morality I know that individual responsibility and the need to preserve one's freedom and the freedom of others is greatly stressed in existentialism but then there is the issue of moral subjectivity to consider....... sauer: I think i had this discussion with some ladies here on NL sometime ago. Yea, am for feminism. What i find a bit deceitful is "womanism", or pretence to feminism, or whatever it is called. I don't know; can't put a thing to it. I just think it's incomplete. These women still believe wholeheartedly in marriage and have not completely divorced themselves from male worship. This, i think, is more or less american. I have always found the European concept of feminism more attractive.Nigerian women are placed under very great pressure to marry and bear children. A woman is prepared right from her childhood for a life of matrimony and child care, there is barely any other option available for them. The ones who have decided to stay single or unmarried are ridiculed and make to feel less than human (as you can see from the way one of them was treated on this thread) so many women just go with what is accepted as the norm for women mostly because they do not want to face the disrespect/shame that comes with a lifetime of spinsterhood. 1 Like |
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