jamesbridget13: success na success. Whether na business tycoon or whatever. U rather prefer a banker as a wife? I am a govt teacher n wish 2 venture into some good business in due time. That wont stop me from fulfilling my marital vows when i get married. Never!!!

Timcy2: A woman that has ascertain such status, is only looking 4 a man, because of his name.

Raymondenyi:
Will u shut up n don't write what u know nothing about;
D ladies that achieve such firm n re not mingled with disgusting attitudes! Don't tek timme @ all to get married... It is the once with attitude! Moreover over 98% of them got attitudes, so what do u expect... When stable, they quickly place people they believe re below them! Behave anyhow to them! N always will wanna shw class.. How do u expect such attitudinal being to get mmarried? ( Generally we all know ladies re very greedy n self-centered beings, little 1da, why 2 ladies can't leave in a room 2geda) then imagine d type dat is stable, wat will u expect..,

With d experiences I hv 4rm ladies; I could do things 2x for my male friends, before I consider doing it 1ce for a lady!!!

*wicked set of beings** mtcheeeeeeewww!!!

Amaaskia: They run because they're usually intimidated or cause they wanna be the financially successful person in the relationship.

However I believe this (whoever is more financially successful) shouldn't matter [s]as long as there's love and understanding in the relationship.[/s]


Some men are just chickens!

Ruq:

You need to chill a lil, you're woman, or are you still in your teens ? i taught you where engaged at one point ?

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

victorD3:


It has to do with the attitude that comes with a woman acchieving firm and success.

consultancy: It simply has to do with d pride,ego and carriage dat cums wit success n affluence..no man would want to b controlled by a woman who feels shes in charge cos shes made wealth

Ishsoph:

Yea, but the dude read this from her character and borrowed leg from Usain Bolt and bolted:

kulyie: you remind me of this song this deeper lifers usually sing in our former neighbourhood


I AM MARRIED TO JESUS ,SATAN LEAVE ME ALONE .........

Anyway,to each his own and for the records i am a boss in my own field and i am not wicked,i might be firm and a bit difficult,but i am objective,unemotional and unsentimental when it comes to sensitive decision making processes,so rule wickedness out.its a strong word

kulyie: really? so the longer a man's preek is,the bigger his money right? Try lati malo common sense e die die na

Nobody is talking about the size of anyones equipments here..



All I am saying is that;

1. Most powerful women actually do have an ant up their asses.. They are just too darn arrogant. MOST!! Not ALL..
2. Most of the guys that run away from these sort of women are not Mature guys.. They are mostly jokers.
3. These women can smell bullshiit from a Mile off.. They dont suffer fools. They are always on the look out for Moochers hence the arrogance most times.

4. The men who can actually match up to the expectations of such women are almost never available. They are either married or engaged.



The answer to the OP's post is; Boys run away from such women, Men are limited in supply..

E.M.Ezzy:
I think it has to do with a wee bit of personal ego...most men think that if thier wife is rich or earn more than 'em is synonimous to kicking thier testicles IMHO.

tm-tech:

U get ma point partly.......just so you know, teachers make good wives ,I fink dats becos of their discipline....so as a succesful teacher/business woman is far better than a business tycoon

lynpetra: Damn it,some men are confused beings.They agitate for self -dependent women only to run away when they are successful.IMO,such men are less than cowards.



@op,sweety how have you been??Don't worry I wud be a wealthy and submissive wifey.The only problem is if you buy me d latest Toyota ride,I wud retaliate by buying you the latest Range Rover??

ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons:

1. They're confident, which can sometimes be interpreted as arrogance.
2. They have their own money and can buy their own things, support themselves, etc.
3. They can make a man feel inferior or inadequate, due to reasons given in point 2.

Men, particularly African men, are raised thinking that they are to be the provider; sole more than likely. Gender stereotyping is still rampant. A woman is to cook and clean; a man is to work. A woman who can do what a man can do renders a man useless.

A lot of men have egos, even if they won't admit it in front of women. In all honesty, however, there are some independent women out there who behave like they have both an egg and sperm. I, personally, think men should be more open to independent women as they've got a lot to offer. They're fierce, bold, and can be your rock in tough times. Meanwhile, independent women should be the go-getters that they are and still be womanly. Make a man feel like the man he is; you don't have to do all and be all because you're successful. No one likes a woman with an attitude, regardless of her wealth, fame, beauty, or whichever assets she may have.

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

CFCfan: It has to do with the ego (not money). Men are naturally wired to believe that it's their sole responsibility to provide for the woman.

nbright: The guys aren't running away... The women are running after men higher up... They wouldn't want to settle for "less"...

Lovexme:

That's the belief of those in the 60s. Responsibilities are meant to be shared, and that includes finance, cooking, and even shopping for groceries. Yes! Groceries

Thats the belief of 2013..

Mr Aboki:

Thats the belief of 2013..

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

Mr Aboki:


Nobody is talking about the size of anyones equipments here..



All I am saying is that;

1. Most powerful women actually do have an ant up their asses.. They are just too darn arrogant. MOST!! Not ALL..
2. Most of the guys that run away from these sort of women are not Mature guys.. They are mostly jokers.
3. These women can smell bullshiit from a Mile off.. They dont suffer fools. They are always on the look out for Moochers hence the arrogance most times.

4. The men who can actually match up to the expectations of such women are almost never available. They are either married or engaged.



The answer to the OP's post is; Boys run away from such women, Men are limited in supply..

Lovexme:

Embrace the change, bro.

I was raised to operate differently..


My money should be enough to spoil my wife.. Her money should be enough for her to buy me gifts in appreciation..




#OldSchoolNiggas..