nikkyshyne: Rest in peace Vivian. God knows I will so miss you. Vivian, my friend and my sister. I love you so much.

Nikki, rest in what? Babe, chill small nau

Maria-Goretti:

its just a day by day thing.......just keep the memories alive.

you can still celebrate her existence every 29th dec...........and her departure can always be remembered.

So from bday paroles to remembrance? Nne, answer me!!!!

The mourning here is getting unhealthy. Things happen for a reason and no one knows what actually happened to this person. A day off Nairaland and other social networking sites should suffice. I'm talking to you ID. Take a break, go to the beach, smoke some pot, clear your head, cuddle with your lover and reflect on life and why we're here. This thread should be taken off. Just my advice though. Take it or leave it.

Ikekings, talk nau

RIP vivianc..

RIP

Ujujoan: First Bawomolo . . .

Then Perx . . . .

Now Vivian . . .

This is becoming scary . .

These are just the ones we know and heard of, who knows how many have actually gone from here?

I've been thinking about all those monikers I used to know who no longer come online, I even tried to reach some offline but got no reply. I really hope they are all fine.

Seriously this forum is more than a place we all come to learn, fight, play etc, its another family of ours, things like this reminds me of that.

Vivian kwa? I tire.

druid06: The mourning here is getting unhealthy. Things happen for a reason and no one knows what actually happened to this person. A day off Nairaland and other social networking sites should suffice. I'm talking to you ID. Take a break, go to the beach, smoke some pot, clear your head and reflect on life and why we're here. This thread should be taken off. Just my advice though. Take it or leave it.

Drew, leave me alone!!! Leave me!!! Haaaa! Take a break? Y? Answer me!!! Y?!!!

she
was a strong person! she had struggles just like anyone else but she
would always say "i know i'm going to be fine,very soon" i spoke with
the sister and she's devastated!

her best friend disappointed her when she needed her most.yet she was strong.

God took her away for a reason. She told me she was done being a good girl. God said baby come home.i dont want you to taint urself!

Its really hard to believe that a dear friend is gone, gone and gone forever.

I swear I stalked her like she is the only moniker on nairaland. When she stopped posting on the Romance E-summit thread, I was like what's happening. It is unusual of Vivanc not not drive home her point until she tell you ''I'm done.

A dodged fighter, strong willed and independent. She was true to her personality.

I fell in love with her personality, her character. She was smart, intelligent and promising.

We pushed our nairaland friendship to BBM chat. For well over 6 months, we communicated. We shared challenges and advised each other. She was open, free minded and sociable. The Vivian lady is one rare intelligent woman I have ever encountered.

Every night since on the 18 November, I have kept vigil on that E-summit thread praying she comes respond so we can finish off our discourse. I never knew she won't come back.

A night before I had a terrible nightmare. Those nightmare that reminds you that something bad is about to occur/happened.I had anticipated the worst since yesterday until a nairalander called me to inform me of her passing to the great beyond. Was it my obsession with that thread that triggers the nightmare.

I haven't met her in person but knowing we are from the same area is a great loss to me.
VivanC, I can't control myself right now. God knows best.

#no.1 fan#

I didn't know her. Why am I tearing up?

Idowuogbo:
So from bday paroles to remembrance? Nne, answer me!!!!

calm it hon, just go for the bday paroles then.....afterall she is a great gift to us.

Pls u guys should let iduwo mourn the only way she can. U don't supress emotions like this. She will heal as she continues mourning.
Nobody knew how close they were.
She was awake all night wailing. Pls let her mourn her good friend her own way.

Its a terrible thing to lose somebody u love.
She is even handling it very well. I was so afraid for her last nite.

Iduwo, I feel u very well. I pray u heal soon.

I haven't really slept since yesterday.

Idowu I don't know what to say to you my friend, it hurts like really hurts but wetin we go do na?

Ndidiamaka biko ebezina, I beg you my darling please, biko nu o nwanne'm.

kreami diva: she
was a strong person! she had struggles just like anyone else but she
would always say "i know i'm going to be fine,very soon" i spoke with
the sister and she's devastated!

her best friend disappointed her when she needed her most. yet she was strong.


God took her away for a reason. She told me she was done being a good girl. God said baby come home.i dont want you to taint urself!

Oh dear! So sad!

Idowuogbo:
Drew, leave me alone!!! Leave me!!! Haaaa! Take a break? Y? Answer me!!! Y?!!!

I've seen first hand on how the trauma of loosing a close friend or relative could do. It could psychologically affects a person state of mind to a temporary or permanent mentally inbalanced stage. Your mourning is getting unhealthy. Instead of making matter worse by posting memobiliars and conversations of this person which is going to keep making you feel worse,you should get off Nl and take a break. Just a friendly advice.

kreami diva: she was a strong person! she had struggles just like anyone else but she would always say "i know i'm going to be fine,very soon" i spoke with the sister and she's devastated!

her best friend disappointed her when she needed her most.

Yea, for her age, Vivian has gone through so many challenges. She was one heck of a strong girl. She was so opened and real. I need to keep calm and unfollow this thread. Really trying hard to fight the tears but I can't and to think I'm at the office. God!

The same VivianC I was discussing "soul mate" with the other day? you people are kidding me

kreami diva: she
was a strong person! she had struggles just like anyone else but she
would always say "i know i'm going to be fine,very soon" i spoke with
the sister and she's devastated!

her best friend disappointed her when she needed her most.yet she was strong.

God took her away for a reason. She told me she was done being a good girl. God said baby come home.i dont want you to taint urself!

KD, hope u r getting a grip at urself too.

Just somedays back I remembered u. Hv been long I saw ur post. When I saw ur moniker, I waas happy only for me to read the caption.

Hope u r ok?
We r our brother's keeper whether off or online.

This thread should be closed.

druid06:

I've seen first hand on how the trauma of loosing a close friend or relative could do. It could psychologically affects a person state of mind to a temporary or permanent mentally inbalanced stage. Your mourning is getting unhealthy. Instead of making matter worse by posting memobiliars and conversations of this person which is going to keep making you feel worse,you should get off Nl and take a break. Just a friendly advice.

When did she find out?

druid06: This thread should be closed.

To what end? You think closing the thread mean we all forget vivian?

druid06: This thread should be closed.

To what purpose?

I can only hope, I'll be loved like this when I die!

Vivianc you sure were loved by many! RIP

#Death is inevitable,concentrate on how you will be remembered after you die#

YPP,i can't fight back the tears! I've not been myself.

U know some people come ur way for a short period and make a huge impact and move on. That was what she did to me.

freecocoa: I haven't really slept since yesterday.

Idowu I don't know what to say to you my friend, it hurts like really hurts but wetin we go do na?

Ndidiamaka biko ebezina, I beg you my darling please, biko nu o nwanne'm.

Dessy, I'm trying na! Haaa! I'm trying my hardest to hold this back. Dem say make we post memories, make I dey post na! Vivi fit wake o!

freecocoa: To what end? You think closing the thread mean we all forget vivian?

I'm not saying her memory should be forgotten but celebrated for the kind of life she lived. I learnt she's a sweet bird. She would always remain dear and sweet to those who know she was. This thread is getting unhealthy and not helping her memory.

A rememberance and a final good bye salute should be done on her birthday which from what I've read on this thread is soon. She's gone and no amount of mourning would bring her back. I don't know who she is or where she's gone to but I'm sure she doesn't want to be mourned but to be remembered by those who loved her and those who hold her dear.

Idowuogbo:
Dessy, I'm trying na! Haaa! I'm trying my hardest to hold this back. Dem say make we post memories, make I dey post na! Vivi fit wake o!

stop posting memories if it makes you hurt the more and make you cry. You have to be strong. how long will the tears keep flowing? Wipe your tears and be strong.

Idowuogbo:
Dessy, I'm trying na! Haaa! I'm trying my hardest to hold this back. Dem say make we post memories, make I dey post na! Vivi fit wake o!

i'm still hoping she would call and say "babes,o gini?why are you announcing my death? i dey here o.dem thief my phone!"

viv, i dey wait o....

You need to sleep Idowu..........please