Roda94: Speaking as a born-again Christian I think it is wrong. That being said you can pack food and give it to him occasionally.

Caracta: This topic again?

I can cook for him but there'll be limits. There's a line between girlfriend and wife. As long as i am not living with him, i can cook for him. I love cooking but i do it out of love, not out of obligation. I cook for people i am not dating, how much more my own personal person?

Again i say, there are limits. A girlfriend is not a wife...not yet!

Les: Lemme comment.... There is this thread about how to please a woman, about 50 ways of how to treat a woman , the whole, I repeat whole ladies agreed to it. Now one way to please a man, most are barking no, they won't. Who says 99% of women are not very selfish and biased by nature. God punish any day my gf will refuse cooking for me.

Mujah1deen: YOU don't cook ,another girl will be happy and glad to take your place and cook for him. Anyway I'm against dating,courtship etc .a girl has nothing to in a male house if she's not his wife or relative .period

GentleMimi:
Like seriously?? You are against courtship? So how do u get to know the person properly?

ireneidiva: No energy to even cook for myself talkless of a guy. Mtchew

GentleMimi:
Hey,babe chillax,no be quarrel. Let us assume that it is not all girls that bleep their guys.If u sleep with ur bobo,and still go ahead to cook for him....wetin come remain na?

Iaz93: Dear, so if you cook food for your boyfriend in his house, you'd go to hell?

Lol. Damn!! The way that leads to heaven is really narrow!

Enegod: so, i should be the one cooking for her...huh

Iaz93: That user doesn't know the meaning of "courtship".

Kadata:

What is this one yapping? You think you're doing him a favour by cooking for him? Abi you think cooking is rocket science? Go siddon for ground jare. Maybe cooking skills is all you have to offer, that's why you're here spilling shait!

@ Topic: It's lovely to have people share those rare moments of sacrifice and satisfaction. I don't see making food in the kitchen as a big deal for your man.

Some of us guys have been making our food for donkey years that the thought of allowing someone else (who is not direct family), sounds bizzare. But because love must be shown and received, we give a chance.

This is for those fellows that think cooking for a guy is a huge favour. Some of us cook pass una sef

lil max: he his not your husband so you will also see money once in a blue-moon

Roda94:


No but prevention is better than cure.When you think about it cooking is quite intimate especially if the two of you are in the kitchen... And indeed it is only the narrow road that leads to Heaven, a road I am all too happy to take at all cost!

alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!
I can only do it once in a blue-moon, by dt I min lyk once in a year!
I am not his wife, he needs to understand that! If he wants to know how good my culinary skills are, i'll gladly entertain him if he comes to my house!

Dt's all!

GentleMimi: I think there is nothing wrong with a lady cooking for her guy once in a while.If my guy comes to my place,i'll definitely cook for him.But slaving in a guy's house is a no no.If u want to test culinary skills,go to her house and taste her meal.If she comes to ur house,do not make it seem like its her ''job''.Some babes even go as far as cleaning the house....shoooo! But cooking consistently seems too much ,IMHO!

simply_me: and this is someone who sees your unclothedness and sleeps with you on a daily basis.
So what's moral about cooking for him? Nonsense.

Gracyel: Before nko.....İs there any big deal in dat??

2buff:

Yes you over did it in that instance.
Just be careful not to now go to the other extreme end of the stick i.e. "I will never ever cook for my bf again, etc" because then you will be setting yourself up for even further bitterness.

Also, the mistake you made is that you were expecting or trying to buy marriage because of what you were doing. This is wrong. If you are giving something, give it because you want to and because it is who you are. Not because you expect to gain something from giving it. This is eye service.

After I date a girl and it doesn't work out, I wouldn't go back revisiting "all the things I did for her" etc because then that reveals to myself that I was not being genuine. I was only doing it because I was trying to "buy" something from her, which should never be the case.

Give because it is who you are. Carry this forward to your next relationship and you will maintain the emotional balance needed to not fawk it up over unnecessary tight-fistedness. Cheers.

yankison:




sit down there

Gracyel: İ knew someone will come up with d 'money' issue...Av seen nd heard of various cases wher girls also giv their boyfrnds money. So wats d big deal in money. İf a bf wants to use mere money to tie me down to be his slave, let him go nd swallow his money. How much are u guys even giving girls, that u always make a big deal out of it!!!!

Iaz93: What of when you visit him with the packaged food? You two would still be alone So?