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It is called "boosting up your emotions". We want to feel like we are still important and relevant so we did not put enough energy into wooing the girl cos she is ugly and that's hy she turned us down.

Mynd_44: It is called "boosting up your emotions". We want to feel like we are still important and relevant so we did not put enough energy into wooing the girl cos she is ugly and that's hy she turned us down.

Ok this makes great sense, only that in my case, I actually believed they were beautiful even though my hommies would disagree, then after I'm being rejected, my eyes opens like I've seen The Light.

anselm791:

Ok this makes great sense, only that in my case, I actually believed they were beautiful even though my hommies would disagree, then after I'm being rejected, my eyes opens like I've seen The Light.

You could have been blinded to he flaws which although you saw before, you chose to ignore them

Mynd_44:
You could have been blinded to he flaws which although you saw before, you chose to ignore them

O boy! Are you like an expert in these things? Cause that makes perfect sense! Now do you think this habit is healthy? Cause everyone has flaws we choose to ignore and I have to admit that makes me get over rejections real fast.

anselm791:

O boy! Are you like an expert in these things? Cause that makes perfect sense! Now do you think this habit is healthy? Cause everyone has flaws we choose to ignore and I have to admit that makes me get over rejections real fast.

They are healthy.

Ignoring the flaws is important cos we all have one and if you are willing to over look it, go for her.

And it is good you remember the if she turns you down as it helps you move on faster

Its actually a low level defense mechanism. Its your mind playing tricks on you, trying to save your ego from the hurts of rejection by those chics. Its meant to keep you psycobalanced