Dannyxy: i am sure all the babes will want to date you now, your dad is a good husband.

Vivly: I cook, but why bother if he's willing

Kslib:
Even if it's all the time or almost?

Mindependent: No because then it does not give me the opportunity to put alomo or love potion in his food

ANAMBRA11: re u d 1 on ur profile

Mindependent:
Yes boss! Why the shocked face?

tensor777:
Where did you get that? Perhaps he's a chef. He doesn't have to be jobless to love cooking for his wife.

King Edward I:

Personally, I see nothing wrong with it as long as it ain't taken for granted. I love cooking and I ain't bothered if my future wife knows how to cook....could teach her some recipes & make it fun while learning (can strengthen our bond). I'd love to take over at weekends, let her rest (& I'll have the children involved) - she ain't stepping into the kitchen throughout. Picnic things after church on sunday either at the local park or garden at the back of the house.
Presently learning some african dishes(to add to my knowledge of some asian & mostly european dishes) so my wife(if white or asian) can prepare and stun my parents about how quick she has learnt some things about my cultural background and I the same.
Latest achievement: POUNDED yam for the first time last weekend. Hopefully she will learn it also *fingers crossed*
Yay me!

The bolded is just sooooo romantic.

Your wife is a lucky woman

Vivly: hmmm. I don't have an answer to this o.

Nomski0:

The bolded is just sooooo romantic.

Your wife is a lucky woman

Kslib:
I see!!

Lazy girl!!

Vivly: So, won't you cook for your wife? Like the op's friend.

Kslib:
I would! It'll be fun to do that for my wife but haba, the op's friend's case is too much...

scribble: i cook. my wifey cooks too.

im still gonna have to hire a cook or cooks to get all d continental and chinese cuisine that i love at home.

maybe an akwa ibom cook too.

but as for the majority of the cooking, for now that is wifey's job...she even bought a Nigerian cook book and made me some banging Afang soup 3 weeks in a row...i love my boo die

ANAMBRA11: u re pretty, if actually u re d 1

Vivly: I admire the op's friend.

Kslib:
Good for you! May the universe grant you such.

Vivly: No o. I've not yet made up my mind if I want such a husband.

ireneidiva: I will marry him! I don't cook

Mindependent:
And you're proud to come to a public forum to declare your failings as a woman?

ireneidiva:
what part of the world do you come from where you are taught women who don't cook are failures? To me setting targets and nt reaching them on time are failings! Grow up

Mindependent:
Grow up?!
Darling in case you didn't know, failings can be more than one thing and as a Yoruba girl from Nigeria, it is my culture that women should be able to cook good meals for their husbands

Mindependent:
And you're proud to come to a public forum to declare your failings as a woman?

Adaeze003:

Oh jeez... This is just too harsh. So a woman who doesn't know how to cook is a failure th you? What a small world you live in.