women are always looking for someone to take responsibility for their failures. they never want to accept responsibility.

and they are always the ones to cause the problem in the first place

thejedi:

women are always looking for someone to take responsibility for their failures. they never want to accept responsibility.

I am expecting the yall are sexists posts any moment from now

I am expecting the yall are sexists posts any moment from now

I don't believe someone is deceiving someone,All i believe is that if you are deceiving someone you are indirect deceiving yourself.Nobody is fooling anybody.

I don't believe someone is deceiving someone,All i believe is that if you are deceiving someone you are indirect deceiving yourself.Nobody is fooling anybody.

think you may have a point there. just that the blame laying should stop. we should learn to take responsibility for our mistakes as adults and not be laying blame.

albridge:

think you may have a point there. just that the blame laying should stop. we should learn to take responsibility for our mistakes as adults and not be laying blame.

True, my girlfriend's not in good terms with me at the moment, and she's asking me to fix it! Funny, I don't even know what the problem is - I'm definitely not cheating in any way.

Put the blame on me!

Concerning the OP;

Often it's a mixture of giving the guy too much benefit of doubt.
Nobody wants to be betrayed and lied to, though I understand that some women are aware that they shouldn't be in the relationship, but yet they continue, those women will hopefully learn their lessons, because sometimes you just have to let logic take control.

It is the idea from movies and hollywood, that love only comes once in a lifetime, or that there is ONE person made for you, so these women when they end up with 'bad guys' they hack it through, keep at it, though it's not good for them. These type of personality traits are what 'good men' look for in a wife, a woman who will try her best to make the relationship work, no matter what, even if it is falling apart. But often these women find themselves attracting these type of guys.

Men who deceive women are plenty, but most ladies end up deceiving themselves more because they are in denial and think " well, this guy may come back to me or he may change to a new leaf"

they wait and wait and nothing changes, till you see them with another lady!

We always give men the chance to deceive us anyways, so why the argument?

@ question

Both. + women deceive men too

seriously u would think that some women would learn from their mistakes but the truth is that it is not so. many women are so blinded by love that they do not read or see between the line believe me it is stupid. who in love could u be with e man that u cant read the red lights. in my own opinion i would say that women deceive them selves i would welcome a contrary view.

True, my girlfriend's not in good terms with me at the moment, and she's asking me to fix it! Funny, I don't even know what the problem is - I'm definitely not cheating in any way.

Put the blame on me!

sorry my brother but thats what we have to deal with from our women for now

seriously u would think that some women would learn from their mistakes but the truth is that it is not so. many women are so blinded by love that they do not read or see between the line believe me it is stupid. who in love could u be with e man that u can't read the red lights. in my own opinion i would say that women deceive them selves i would welcome a contrary view.

i think i generally agree with you

women are a lost cause so forget them

women are a lost cause so forget them

arent you taking this women thing too far?

We always give men the chance to deceive us anyways, so why the argument?

ok, looks like some ladies agree with me here!

at the end of the day women just believe what they chose to believe.

both.

maybe but women are the originators of deception if you ask me.

@poster!! they decieve theselves by not asking the right question before enbarking in any relationship thereby blaming men for their troubles.

amaikama:

@poster!! they decieve theselves by not asking the right question before enbarking in any relationship thereby blaming men for their troubles.

but in must cases women fuc.k up and is the man that we be blam

Women are nice but they can be so crazy sometimes , I brought my girl a gift could u belieave after i left she called me a MUGU , LOL GOD

that's kind of complex cos the women deceive the men to think that they deceive the women so that the deceived women can then blame the men for being the deceiver that deceived them

Men have their sweet words and are all nice, honest, kind, blah blah blah for a little while. They get you sucked in til you realise the real person behind the lies and acting then your in so deep its hard to get out. So, YES, men decieve women to get what they want. Its not our fault we see good in people til they screw us over!!

women choose to believe what they want to believe and that sometimes includes deceiving or lying to themselves although the problem is that they often end up finding someone to blame for their mistakes rather than take responsibility for their actions.

It has always amazed me.I think it has to do with women projecting the desire to settle down for marriage or something meaningful before any meaning relationship is clearly established. Some have this " It Must Lead to Marriage" mentality which exposes them to be gullible and emotionally unrestrained. Most guys would tell me that if they talk to 10 women, 7 would like to be in a serious relationship; looking forward to marriage, while men on the other hand see themselves as not being ready for marriage. As a matter of fact, only 2 out of 10 men would most likely be committed to a relationship leading to marriage. So my question is why is it that those 7 women do not see that their chances of getting married to that guy is less than 30%? 1 man finds 2 out of 10 women to be wifey materials, while 7 out of 10 women find the same man to a husband material. So where is the balance?

It is unfortunate that some women today are more gullible than before because of the "fight" to remove their "single" status under no circumstances. They will accept a lie knowing it is not the truth just to be with a man. As you can see many of these women who are duped come online not just Nairaland but other social networks shared by friends that they are being used, lied, and mistreated.

My take on this is if you CHOSE to close an eye on the obvious then you should accept anything that comes with desperation and not being cautious. We take risks but do not be a fool doing so.

Mr, Cork:

women deceive men by wearing wig!

Black women DO NOT have real hair (no ofeinse)

Mr, Cork:

women deceive men by wearing wig!

Black women DO NOT have real hair (no ofeinse)

Did your mother have severe alopecia?