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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:59pm On Dec 16, 2013
Amando_bolt: I added her big sis on Fb n we are really getting along. our convo is going pretty well. should I go on n take the game to anoda level? what do u think?
Note: the main gal is 2yrs older than I(but she doesn't know) n the big sis may be 4-5yrs older than me. de big sis is in anoda skul

Play d game well.

Yea sure u can, I hope tins don't get complicated later wen her sis finds out.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 16, 2013
[size=40pt] xxxtedyxxx your father!!! [/size] angry angry
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by maaji: 1:10pm On Dec 16, 2013
op nice job. am a big fat guy and 8 fin3 but I no handsome sha. an 21 yrs of age. ma own prob b say I dey fear. wen I c woman wey I won talk too weaklo go catch me for mouth and my heart go dey beat very fast..not dat I dont knw wat to say but to say it. but e b like say I knw u for 9jaclub. u did a nic3 job dere. gud to have u here. pls wats d best tin I can do to overcome it. its really killing me . I nid help urgently

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 16, 2013
Monstertrucks: [size=40pt] xxxtedyxxx your father!!! [/size] angry angry
ur mama, why U dey yab person wey dey teach us stuff? If tedy vex, nah ogun go kill you.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by jaeo(m): 1:21pm On Dec 16, 2013
Oga teddy u sabi die well me sef dey try I don tidy some confam packages I even snatchd a gf one time buh there's something I dnt understand abt women o 2 gals I askd out told me they had a bf buh along the line they com dey show jealous signs wen they see me with other gals one even told me str8 up she was jealous abeg if gal tel u she get bf wats d best thing to do or say cos me I ll just say I wish u guys d best I just want u. To be happy bla bla or if I realy like d gal I wee tell her I ll always love her n there's always a place in ma hrt for her til anytym she's ready for me whc has never worked pls school me
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 16, 2013
Odedoyin25: ur mama, why U dey yab person wey dey teach us stuff? If tedy vex, nah ogun go kill you.
sango strike u there. Why the op dey snub me.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:00pm On Dec 16, 2013
Monstertrucks: [size=40pt] xxxtedyxxx your father!!! [/size] angry angry

Y the insult?

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:01pm On Dec 16, 2013
Monstertrucks: [size=40pt] xxxtedyxxx your father!!! [/size] angry angry

Y the insult?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:04pm On Dec 16, 2013
Monstertrucks: sango strike u there. Why the op dey snub me.


Sorry bro..I no snub..I no see ur post..I go scroll bak..no vex
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:17pm On Dec 16, 2013
jae_o: Oga teddy u sabi die well me sef dey try I don tidy some confam packages I even snatchd a gf one time buh there's something I dnt understand abt women o 2 gals I askd out told me they had a bf buh along the line they com dey show jealous signs wen they see me with other gals one even told me str8 up she was jealous abeg if gal tel u she get bf wats d best thing to do or say cos me I ll just say I wish u guys d best I just want u. To be happy bla bla or if I realy like d gal I wee tell her I ll always love her n there's always a place in ma hrt for her til anytym she's ready for me whc has never worked pls school me

U are preselecting ur sef which is gud. Girls like what oda girls like. I use pre-selection a lot. U r doing great.

Wen a girl says she has a bf...just ignored it...and continue what u r doing. Stop making reference abt d topic...like ow u wish dem d best and all dat, and don't tell her she always has a place in ur heart anytime she comes bk. It makes u look like d end point.

Just ignore d bf topic, and tell her "I am not d jealous type"..smile..n continue.

Sometimes girls even used dat classic line" I av a boyfriend" to test guys. Once u fail, its over.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:28pm On Dec 16, 2013
Monstertrucks: dude,im fucking fedup.sometimes i wonder why God made me so cute. okay look. im not a player,i dont make friends with anyhow girls,but then,girls of my standard always think im a womaniser or something,they are always scared ill break their heart.so they say.nd the worst part,im different,im not like that. GUYS,ABEG MAKE UNA STOP TO DEY WOMANISE MAKE I FIT GET SMALL

HOPE ABEG.



U just need to earn trust...dats all u need.

And u can do dat..using future projection. Just let her know u aint running away..and u r mention some activities and stuffs u can see ur selves doing in 6months from now. No girl wants to be considered easy or cheap. Its just a test..and d way u handle it is crucial
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:39pm On Dec 16, 2013
Guys thanx for stopping by.I appreciate all d love n support.

# here are phrases I use always during convo...chatting or real.

There r more like transitional words tho..u can always use dem..wen diverting or u wana tell her sth else..or u wana move d topic to anoda tin and u want it to sound natural..

Its just like.....

This reminds me of....

This makes me think of....

Here is sth else dear....

Wow..its interesting u mentioned dat becos...



It sounds a lot like...(My favourite)

Let's see ow u can put dem to use.

She tells u sth interesting abt her journey..or school..or abt her day..

"Oh..nice gud u mentioned dat, I was just tinking abt travelling too..how long do u think d journey will take"


"Oh..it sounds like..u r gona be a fun and interesting chick..u ve really got cool hobbies n stuffs u do for fun..hope u are a gud cook sha..cos u didn't mention dat.." *tongue out".

Transition..to a separate thread..

Oh..dat reminds me..are u like d first or last born..or sth..cos It seems u r gona av a trouble maker side to ur personality..

And on n on like dat sha

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by LogoDWhiz(m): 2:39pm On Dec 16, 2013
LogoDWhiz:
Bros, how do I continue from on?
I really like this girl, and I don't want to lose out.. Whats d next step??
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by osunyode: 2:51pm On Dec 16, 2013
Please I need an advise on dating,me and my gfriend we are having some issue please
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by CHRISKY: 2:56pm On Dec 16, 2013
Op abeg hlp me out. I av bin datin dis gal 4 lik 7month nw bt she statd actin strange 1month ago. Last week she change 2 normal again, nw finally she requestd 4 a gift dis xmas an she insist say i must get ha sth, option (shopping or cash 2 fix ha hair) wat do u tink? Advic.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:57pm On Dec 16, 2013
osunyode: Please I need an advise on dating,me and my gfriend we are having some issue please
what kind of issues..?..open Up
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:00pm On Dec 16, 2013
CHRISKY: Op abeg hlp me out. I av bin datin dis gal 4 lik 7month nw bt she statd actin strange 1month ago. Last week she change 2 normal again, nw finally she requestd 4 a gift dis xmas an she insist say i must get ha sth, option (shopping or cash 2 fix ha hair) wat do u tink? Advic.

If a girl is not behaving well..dere is not need to reward her behaviour. If a guy continues doin dat, she will one day walk over d guy.

###
It depends on ow she is to u..does she valu u?, does she call u?...av u guys..had anytin togeda?


She wants sth for xams...don't guys want sth too..so u need to ask her what ur own xmas gift will be too...cos her request seems kind of shady.

After d xmas gift, will u guys stil go out, like on a date or sth..and be togeda?..

Make her invest and be serious too.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:12pm On Dec 16, 2013
Here is a list of embedded commands u can use to change d state of a babe.

# always put a babe in the state u desire. Do u want her to open up, den make her relax,...and so on.


U can also use dese words wen u find ur sef in a tight corner.

Feel better, enjoy life, hav fun, become calmer, make progess, feel strong, relax babe,do u r best, listen to me, feel happy, open to me,

Eg..its been fun knowing u..I just feel so open n comfortable wit u babe..like I av known u for months..and I like it wen u feel d same way, feel free babe...relax, cheer up..be come calmer.."...den u can switch to sth else.




Enjoy.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lekzy007(m): 3:31pm On Dec 16, 2013
OP,thanks for creating this thread,I av a very close friend right from ma school dayz and we've started aving intimacy already bt now we're both serving in a seperate state guess she's has found someone there cos her behaviour is on and off and we both luv each other.what did u think I can do.thanks
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 3:57pm On Dec 16, 2013
dude ah nid ur advice quickly...i just finished sec skul n we had a party,there iz diz gal i know likes me,we'v passed de rapport stuff n co..we even kissed once,buh she said she felt cheap so she'z not gonna do it again..we twked on friday n she waz like shez gonna give me wat ah want (d kiss).so 2dae she gave me buh we didnt c ech oder wen we left..ma point iz..wat shuld i do 2 make her remember de stuff cuz m not gonna c ha till friday n shuld i kall her or wat so she wont feel cheap...tnkz in advance
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:38pm On Dec 16, 2013
lekzy007: OP,thanks for creating this thread,I av a very close friend right from ma school dayz and we've started aving intimacy already bt now we're both serving in a seperate state guess she's has found someone there cos her behaviour is on and off and we both luv each other.what did u think I can do.thanks

Don't make assumptions yet. Since u guys love each oda. U shud call her n talk to her abt what u av noticed...and explain tins to her, tell her ow u guys used to be, and ow it is now...she will definitely tell u a tin or two.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by NET1(m): 4:43pm On Dec 16, 2013
nice thread.

I hope this helps young men understand how to successfully seduce their women.

.NET
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by enomasly: 4:44pm On Dec 16, 2013
usmanspihn: Hy OP I met a girl in ma skul and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ minors from ma dept recently and we got chatting. I get to click with a lady I like immediately. It seems we got off right den I asked for her digits and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said NO. I just told her I would nt stop till I get it and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said LET'S WAIT AND SEE. What can I do
its simple get to do somtin for her dat wud matter to her or give her a gist that would giv her so much interest dont ask for d number yet then one day do anoda superb thing den finally tell her to call u lik to continue or see u later den just walk away dont go n look for her u wud see she wud look for ur number or ask u for it wit style
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:45pm On Dec 16, 2013
Shady98: dude ah nid ur advice quickly...i just finished sec skul n we had a party,there iz diz gal i know likes me,we'v passed de rapport stuff n co..we even kissed once,buh she said she felt cheap so she'z not gonna do it again..we twked on friday n she waz like shez gonna give me wat ah want (d kiss).so 2dae she gave me buh we didnt c ech oder wen we left..ma point iz..wat shuld i do 2 make her remember de stuff cuz m not gonna c ha till friday n shuld i kall her or wat so she wont feel cheap...tnkz in advance

Yes sure...u shud call her. U av a girl dats alrdy attracted to u..but she is aving trust issues.

Make her open and free with..check up on her and show u care...

"Hi dear..hope u got home safely..just a little note check on u...kisses"

Sth like dat..u can remix to maybe a gudnite message.

U need to show her some trust. Dats y d future projection technique is very important. Let her know u value her opinions, views..and u r just thinking abt ow its gona be wen u myt av been wit her for 6months. She myt ask ow..?...den u reply.."Sweet"

Let her gain d trust..she is investing alrdy...so step it up a notch.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:57pm On Dec 16, 2013
Here is a compliment dat works all d time. Makes d chick..d smile.

Compliments directed @ a girls hair..works like magic...u can den add a little diversion...I use it a lot during chat n real convo.

# hey..nice,..I love what u did wit ur hair....where in lagos r u?

#..hey..I love d way..ur hair is falling over d sidez of ur face like a goddess..(Smile) what d name of dis style

#hey..dear, I can see u really put a lot of effort into ur hair..its lovely...wen r we seeing tomorrow"


And so on.

Dats just d basic scope

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by OmichaelO: 5:08pm On Dec 16, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Here is a compliment dat works all d time. Makes d chick..d smile.

Compliments directed @ a girls hair..works like magic...u can den add a little diversion...I use it a lot during chat n real convo.

# hey..nice,..I love what u did wit ur hair....where in lagos r u?

#..hey..I love d way..ur hair is falling over d sidez of ur face like a goddess..(Smile) what d name of dis style

#hey..dear, I can see u really put a lot of effort into ur hair..its lovely...wen r we seeing tomorrow"


And so on.

Dats just d basic scope
biko ans my question
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:20pm On Dec 16, 2013
O.michael.O:
biko ans my question
I don find ur question..tire...I no see am..what's d question..abeg no vex
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Dec 16, 2013
...and the girls/ladies are also reading all these open tactics to be used on themgringrin

Poster, u shud have invited guys only into a secret room na for a private sessiongrin of course malaria keep changing form to counter the latest preventive measuresmiley

And there is one adage that says: when the hunter learns to shoot without missing, the bird will also learn to fly without perchinggringrin

So the fact that girls and ladies are also allowed to read all these tactics will soon make it inactive, which means: be yourself and u will meet your kind of girl someday at the right time, except u wanna be a player keeping numerous girls, dunno.

Nice thread all the same, well done @Opsmiley

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:39pm On Dec 16, 2013
DailyNews: ...and the girls/ladies are also reading all these open tactics to be used on themgringrin

Poster, u shud have invited guys only into a secret room na for a private sessiongrin of course malaria keep changing form to counter the latest preventive measuresmiley

And there is one adage that says: when the hunter learns to shoot without missing, the bird will also learn to fly without perchinggringrin

So the fact that girls and ladies are also allowed to read all these tactics will soon make it inactive, which means: be yourself and u will meet your kind of girl someday at the right time, except u wanna be a player keeping numerous girls, dunno.

Nice thread all the same, well done @Opsmiley

Lols..u funny..tnx for d compliment..tho.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:39pm On Dec 16, 2013
Any more testimonies.......


Test all these concepts guys.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by OmichaelO: 5:48pm On Dec 16, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: I don find ur question..tire...I no see am..what's d question..abeg no vex
I do most of these stuffs
most times.but the only
part am nt yet in control of
is meeting a gurl on d
street
most of the time they get
attractd to me first or a
mutual thingy.
So when the going gets
good.like we've known
ourselves well.we prolly
have TRYST sef.and i barely
start convos
they do most times except
for some.
Then voila i go
incommunicado.i mean
unable to reach me
anywhere for weeks
(whatsapp,fb,twitter nor
calls)
then they cal my sibilings or
friends they knw .
PS:this one is stil my
longest 3wks n counting
except 4 fb
Now,where the prob lies is i
get too emotionally
detached besides i think am
not ready to date cos of d
emotionally entanglement
n shii


PS: it's kinda weird cos i feel
comfortably nt
communicating with any of
em gals or other friends of
mine
let's just say am a lone wolf



thanks

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by gsparks01(m): 5:48pm On Dec 16, 2013
DailyNews: ...and the girls/ladies are also reading all these open tactics to be used on themgringrin

Poster, u shud have invited guys only into a secret room na for a private sessiongrin of course malaria keep changing form to counter the latest preventive measuresmiley

And there is one adage that says: when the hunter learns to shoot without missing, the bird will also learn to fly without perchinggringrin

So the fact that girls and ladies are also allowed to read all these tactics will soon make it inactive, which means: be yourself and u will meet your kind of girl someday at the right time, except u wanna be a player keeping numerous girls, dunno.

Nice thread all the same, well done @Opsmiley
whether dem see am or not, e no change nada. Girls will be girls

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