Everybody knows that no one is capable of remaining the same in a relationship once their spouse cheated,but i am wondering will you still be as hurt if your partner was caught with someone of their gender.

For example,you are a man and got home from office only to find your wife in the act but with another woman what would u do?if you are a woman and you caught your husband too,what would be your reaction?

the questions are,would you still feel betrayed,jealous,angry and make big deal out of this,if yes,to which extent, but in my view i think one can quickly get over this.

Definately! She is gettin the hell outa my houze, since she is a dyke maybe if i had any failure since i married i ll put the blame on her..... Mostly for religiouz nd african way of life u re goin

I likely won't be bothered at all if I found a woman on top of my GF or vice versa (I would probably find it hawt) ...but the other woman would have to be attractive.

But if she were a spouse, I think a wife needs to have gotten all that out of her system. It is still defiling the marital bed.
However, I wouldn't lose sleep over it....I think. All lesbians do is pre-intimacy, so I'd take it as a big hint that she needs more of that kinda stuff fom me

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king of pool: Definately! She is gettin the hell outa my houze, since she is a dyke maybe if i had any failure since i married i ll put the blame on her..... Mostly for religiouz nd african way of life u re goin

means you hate anything called cheating

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means you hate all anything called cheating,

wit passion nd i dnt mind commitin suicide than to kill my sef or killin her than to commit murder

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I likely won't be bothered at all if I found a woman on top of my GF or vice versa (I would probably find it hawt) ...but the other woman would have to be attractive.

But if she were a spouse, I think a wife needs to have gotten all that out of her system. It is still defiling the marital bed.

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yes i'm talking of someone you are married to,of course she should have gotten this out of her system,but will this in a tangible way affect your feelings towards her

Did someone just say he wouldn't be bothered if he caught his wife with another woman? Lol, I LAUGH AT YOU

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king of pool: wit passion nd i dnt mind commitin suicide than to kill my sef or killin her than to commit murder

but i think the feeling here should be negligible compared to if she was caught with a man,my opinion though

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yes i'm talking of someone you are married too,of course she should have gotten this out of her system,but will this in a tangible way affect your feelings towards her

From a spiritual stand point I would be upset. From a raw physical standpoint, if the other woman was hot, I would join in Solomon-style!
Whoever wins that night

op i dont know about you o but if i catch my wife with anoda woman,na party of life be that oo

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From a spiritual stand point I would be upset. From a raw physical standpoint, if the other woman was hot, I would join in Solomon-style!
Whoever wins that night

yay,3soome,bad man,i thought u were spiritual

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Chimaritoponcho: op i dont know about you o but if i catch my wife with anoda woman,na party of life be that oo

nobody holy pass,carry go

He won't do it




Bt if it happens, its OVER!
Cheating on me cos of a damn shit*hole I'll even prefer it to be with another gal than a shit*hole

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sweet-tease:
He won't do it




Bt if it happens, its OVER!
Cheating on me cos of a damn shit*hole I'll even prefer it to be with another gal than a shit*hole

oh no,you mean it is disgusting,

strange people on nairaland. Your marriage will crumble as fast as you disregarded the incident.

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Eminado01: strange people on nairaland. Your marriage will crumble as fast as you disregarded the incident.

so na serious matter,see gobe

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yay,3soome,bad man,i thought u were spiritual

Omo don't get me wrong, I am 95% sure I will take the spiritually superior route....but it doesn't mean the other 5% won't cross my mind.

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oh no,you mean it is disgusting,

Its Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww.......imagine the sight

Your post is funny cos I know a man it happened to. He caught his wife in the act with two other women. They were so engrossed in the act that they didn't evn know when he entered the room.

The other ladies' even urged him to join them but he was so disgusted that he drove them out unclad. Happens the wife was a chronic lesbian before he married her & could not change from her ways.

The man had to take her to church for deliverance oooo.. Heard he has filed for a divorce.so sad

Anyways if its me I will leave her though deep down I'll feel a lot better it was with the opposite sex & not a man