Ruby_Pearl:

who are you again?

Your worst nightmare, you just dont know yet. lol

bigboyslim:

But on a more serious note. Ruby you are always quick to stereotype naija men as dishonest and worthless. I think you might be hanging around the wrong crowd. maybe you should try to sway a bit from the norm and try and meet naija men from a different pool and you will see that there are still lots of honest ones out there.

What!!! See accusations!! My heart bleeds for you!!

onyinye2:

No, what she needs to do is date outside her culture base.

If your brother is handsome and rich, bring him to my state ASAP

onyinye2:

No, what she needs to do is date outside her culture base.

Oyinye. Only a naija man can tolerate ruby. I can guarantee that

Ruby_Pearl:

What!!! See accusations!! My heart bleeds for you!!
If your brother is handsome and rich, bring him to my state ASAP

Oh, so now you are born again.

bigboyslim:

Oyinye. Only a naija man can tolerate ruby. I can guarantee that

ahhhhhhhhhhh ori e ti gbagi.

bigboyslim:

Oyinye. Only a naija man can tolerate ruby. I can guarantee that

Naija men ko good ni.

Ruby_Pearl:

If your brother is handsome and rich, bring him to my state ASAP

What you need to do is get you an AA brotha.

Ruby_Pearl:

ahhhhhhhhhhh ori e ti gbagi.

Excuse me. Sorry i dont speak yoruba. what does that mean.

bigboyslim:

Excuse me. Sorry i don't speak yoruba. what does that mean.

na asusu igbo?

anoda naija men bashing thread??

Ara ga gba nid ara na obodo Nairaland a one day.

bigboyslim:

Excuse me. Sorry i don't speak yoruba. what does that mean.

I'll tell you, when you tell me why I have the feelings that you're an older member of NL

onyinye2:

What you need to do is get you an AA brotha.

What's an AA brother?

Ruby_Pearl:

I'll tell you, when you tell me why I have the feelings that you're an older member of Nairaland

LOL. lose those feelings fasssssssssst. it aint even close. Maybe you knew me in the previous life

Okija_juju:

another naija men bashing thread??

Ara ga gba nid ara na obodo Nairaland a one day

Don't be made because you are deemed categorized as indecent.

bigboyslim:

What's an AA brother?

"African American" (saying this in a white girls voice)

bigboyslim:

LOL. lose those feelings fasssssssssst. it aint even close. Maybe you knew me in the previous life

onyinye2:

What you need to do is get you an AA brotha.

Na, they can't handle my wahala

onyinye2:

"African American" (saying this in a white girls voice)

LMAO. i can imagine

Ruby_Pearl:

Na, they can't handle my wahala

Gini? AA men are just. . . . . (in a lost of words. looks over to Reggie Bush poster)

onyinye2:

Gini? AA men are just. . . . . (in a lost of words. looks over to Reggie Bush poster)

Yes, . . . .are just not my type

Okija_juju:

another naija men bashing thread??

Ara ga gba nid ara na obodo Nairaland a one day.

Ruby_Pearl:

Yes, . . . .are just not my type

GINI!?! AA men are EVERYBODY's type. In high school, all i dated was AA men. They were the star athletes and were so damn fine. Mayne i still keep my baby Reggie Bush on my wall, wallet, key chain, computer screen, tattoo.

onyinye2:

GINI!?! AA men are EVERYBODY's type. In high school, all i dated was AA men. They were the star athletes and were so damn fine. Mayne i still keep my baby Reggie Bush on my wall, wallet, key chain, computer screen, tattoo.

Like I said, AA men are not and never going to be my type

Ruby_Pearl:

Like I said, AA men are not and never going to be my type

That is how me and you differ. I love my igbo men but those AA's. . . . . . are scrumptious.

onyinye2:

That is how me and you differ. I love my igbo men but those AA's. . . . . . are scrumptious.

Me too, I love my Igbo/yoruba men ( ), but mixed is even better

Ruby_Pearl:

Me too, I love my Igbo/yoruba men ( ), but mixed is even better

GREEDY!!!!! You want the best of both worlds.

onyinye2:

GREEDY!!!!! You want the best of both worlds.

exactly. make up your mind ruby

onyinye2:

GREEDY!!!!! You want the best of both worlds.

And I got the best of both words

bigboyslim:

exactly. make up your mind ruby

I already did. and you, mr. man, who are you?

Ruby_Pearl:

And I got the best of both words

Oh I see. . . . you got it like that. Yeah igbo men got it but does AA's. . . . mmm mmm mmm!

from original poster

When a naija man loves truly tell me how it is, he always told me when he maried me I would be first, he would get a FT job, I am UK white,  I rejected him once and then after totally losing him and realising i had lost him and he came back was so pleased. Everything he ptomised he had delivered before marrying, meeting his family etc. Since marrying he has been wonderful, made me feel secure, talked finances, wonderful S**, helping cleaning/maintaining house etc, I adore him he is 8 years younger and I have 4 children and our son, can I expect this to continue, are there some tremedously wonderful naija men out there.

I cooked him Jollof rice proper other night with chicken and pork steak and we ate together it was lovely and I intend doing it when I can, I do actually love his culture although very dif from mine. Are there wonderfully honest naija men?

Look at this woman and this kain nonsense question.
A woman who has been around the block many rounds with 4 kids to prove it captures a man 8 years younger.
You should be at Redeemed church giving thanks than come here to ask this kain yeye question.
Which person on this forum would want their brother entangled with a woman with 4 kids and loads of earthly bagagge.
Has he really told his parents the real story here
His mom will have a heart attack, honestly.
Thank God none of my brothers fell ito this type of evil omen.
Not one, not 2 but 4 kids by another man /men
and then you pin this young man down and deliver the 5th
are you looking for farm hands?
If this man is not good,tell me who else is good.
For all you know,his family may have disowned him for this act

To answer your question,you not only have a good man, you have a brave one.
Brave enough to tackle a woman in another generation,4 kids out of the loins of some other men with the accompanying baby papa drama and risk of losing his life?
There's none like him.

lol @ Queenisha!!!!!

Take am easy naw

Queenisha:

from original poster


Look at this woman and this kain nonsense question.
A woman who has been around the block many rounds with 4 kids to prove it captures a man 8 years younger.
You should be at Redeemed church giving thanks than come here to ask this kain yeye question.
Which person on this forum would want their brother entangled with a woman with 4 kids and loads of earthly bagagge.
Has he really told his parents the real story here
His mom will have a heart attack, honestly.
Thank God none of my brothers fell ito this type of evil omen.
Not one, not 2 but 4 kids by another man /men
and then you pin this young man down and deliver the 5th
are you looking for farm hands?
If this man is not good,tell me who else is good.
For all you know,his family may have disowned him for this act

To answer your question,you not only have a good man, you have a brave one.
There's none like him.

While your answer sounds encouraging, i strongly oppose you talking down on the poster's previous life like that. Its a cultural thing. Having 4 kids from previous relationships and marrying a younger man might not be acceptable in your own culture, but it might be acceptable in hers. There's no reason for you to insult her because of the choices she made. Everybody is entitled to live their lives the way they please and we should respect that.

Queenisha:

from original poster


Look at this woman and this kain nonsense question.
A woman who has been around the block many rounds with 4 kids to prove it captures a man 8 years younger.
You should be at Redeemed church giving thanks than come here to ask this kain yeye question.
Which person on this forum would want their brother entangled with a woman with 4 kids and loads of earthly bagagge.
Has he really told his parents the real story here
His mom will have a heart attack, honestly.
Thank God none of my brothers fell ito this type of evil  omen.
Not one, not 2 but 4 kids by another man /men
and then you pin this young man down and deliver the 5th
are you looking for farm hands?
If this man is not good,tell me who else is good.
For all you know,his family may have disowned him for this act

To answer your question,you not only have a good man, you have a brave one.
There's none like him.

LMFAOROTFLSMD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All osisi. . . . . . you know you aint right for this. eziokwu

osisi they are not married. The man just wnats UK stay

Uche2nna:

lol @ Queenisha!!!!!

Take am easy naw

ROFL.
Uche c'mon na
even if the woman came with love potions from okija buried in her "jericho"
Love fit catch you at this your young age to this kain union?
talk true