People marry for different reasons, These days its all a scam i.e the marriages we have these days

But I just don't get it. Why keep your age away from the woman you're proposed to marry?

debosky:

e be like say you no be naija - no be matter of 'sworn affidavit' or declaration of age?

People dey comot 10, even 20 years from them age to retain jobs in naija - I can never trust any age i see inside a naija passport or document.

Unless I sabi d pesin mama wey fit swear on the breast wey she take feed the pikin, the age can be false.

i tell you, something dey fishy about this man, make she no go marry male winch o!

My own be say,make she no marry man wey no get "abunna"

Is he a footballer?

Queenisha:

Mine knows my real age ,I have a valid birth certificate not declaration of age.

120 M - 1. Anybody else wants to subtract?

syren:

I don't know that one o


But in this day and age it's hardly a secret you can keep.

Yes. Because your co villagers dey keep count of the market days.

Ibime:

Is he a footballer?

No
why?

Queenisha:

No
why?

Becoz na them invent: age is just a number. I can still kick hard.

*Morenike:

But I just don't get it. Why keep your age away from the woman you're proposed to marry?

My sister I've thought high and low and can't understand it.
I just feel he's perhaps in his fifties.
I haven't met him yet.

Queenisha:

My sister I've thought high and low and can't understand it.
I just feel he's perhaps in his fifties.
I haven't met him yet.

Haba she nor get eyes to see?

Queenisha:

My sister I've thought high and low and can't understand it.
I just feel he's perhaps in his fifties.
I haven't met him yet.

Make sure to meet him.
Lol! My friends and I have this crazy thing.
If one of us gets hooked, we approve or . . . . . Not that it matters.
But we just make sure we see/know the guy she's with.

Just check, if the guy looks over 50 hmm

Michelin that's not the issue.
He could be 50,52,49,41
the issue is that she needs to know exactly how old he is [b]from his own mouth[/b]She shouldn't be guessing or doing background checks on a future husband.

*Morenike:

Make sure to meet him.
Lol! My friends and I have this crazy thing.
If one of us gets hooked, we approve or . . . . . Not that it matters.
But we just make sure we see/know the guy she's with.

Just check, if the guy looks over 50 hmm

I will meet him at the wedding
even he turns out to be McCains age mate, we shall see him there
Lord have mercy!

Queenisha:

Michelin that's not the issue.
He could be 50,52,49,41
the issue is that she needs to know exactly how old he is [b]from his own mouth[/b]She shouldn't be guessing or doing background checks on a future husband.

I am not saying she should guess. But old is old.

Anyways that one na her cross, make she carry am.

I wish her good luck.

@queenisha

one thing wey baffle me now be say you talk am for you post

Ibime:

a man can hide this sort of thing,what else is he hiding?
They decided not to have sex before marriage,at this rate,how are we even sure he has a  functional pe'nis ?

shey na true say dem never wan do that 'thing' until after marriage?

e good make he hide hin age but he no good make he no show say he be MAN


I don't get the 'sex after marriage' thing with christian marriages.


na scam

k1banty:

@queenisha

one thing wey baffle me now be say you talk am for you post





shey na true say them never wan do that 'thing' until after marriage?

e good make he hide hin age but he no good make he no show say he be MAN


I don't get the 'sex after marriage' thing with christian marriages.


na scam

Like say Adam and Eve even do marriage.

Age his nothing but a number jare
I'm sure Adam was less than one year old when he started shagging Eve

But the dude shoulda made the matter simple

Man: Honey, how old are you
Woman: What one do you want? football age, church singles meeting age, CV age, workplace age, which one??

eldee:

Age his nothing but a number jare
I'm sure Adam was less than one year old when he started shagging Eve

But the dude shoulda made the matter simple

Man: Honey, how old are you
Woman: What one do you want? football age, church singles meeting age, CV age, workplace age, which one??

He even reach 1 day sef?

please don't change the subject.
This is not about keeping oneself for marriage neither is it a license to bash Christianity


_{some people will soon get on my case}

Queenisha:

please don't change the subject.
This is not about keeping oneself for marriage neither is it a license to bash Christianity


_{some people will soon get on my case}

Nor vex naa. We just dey play!

Queenisha:

please don't change the subject.
This is not about keeping oneself for marriage neither is it a license to bash Christianity


_{some people will soon get on my case}

It's not about bashing christianity abeg

The truth is, whatever is making him hide his age must be a really important reason, maybe he's an undercover agent or sumn
Maybe he just grew up in a place where it's a taboo to tell your age to women
She should be asking him why he's not telling her and not the age itself

michelin89:

Nor vex naa. We just dey play!

I tire oooh

maybe he doesn't know it

is d man a footballer?

And u r d goalkeeper right?

whats age got 2 do with tis? im sure he's younger but if she loves him 2 d point of accepting his proposal, why bother?

guess he doesnt want 2 loose her. she should tell him how she feels about his refusal but that isnt enough 2 tear them apart

Lets face the reality here, is it dat u asked him and is not forthcoming with his age
or u believe dat is lying to u. Abeg accept whatever he tells u now as his age and i can assure u dat u get the real age if u dont believe the one he tells u is real. Men hide their age from their lovers most times not because they want to hide anytin but u knw in this days of affidat and we all knw dat women cannot be trusted on some issues. but i can assure u dat u get to knw the real age as time goes on.

I wonder how many Nigerian women who are truthful about their age if someone should suggest that she should dump him.
All Nairaland girls here claimed to be under 30, if actually you meet them in person I guess you're going to meet AGADI EKWE NKA.

nairaman01:

Abeg accept whatever he tells u now as his age

I'm sure he must have told your friend a certain age but I guess he looks older than the age.
She bera accept whatever age he claims for now _{considering the fact that she's desperate}.