ladies i need your sincere opinion. please just say the truth-point blank

I am a very nice person though i don’t think the time as come to start laying or getting laid- (i ain’t saying i am a saint).

I believe every lady should be treated nicely, at least the way I’ll like my sisters to be treated, but lately I’ve been reading this David De-angelo stuff about bieng nice to women being a mistake, that it does not attract ladies, that it actually repels them. i dont seem to comprehend it at all!
even on nairaland i av read it several times about nice guys finishing last. if ladies actually prefer the bad guys, why then do they complain about guys being unfaithful/not caring.

I really need ur opinion or let me say the truth. DO YOU LADIES ACTUALLY PREFER BAD GUYS TO nICE Guys? let's hear from the Horse's mouth.

which would you advice me to be- NICE Or BAd. i actually dont av much female friends may be it's because i am nice( i av stopped being shy).

I DoNT want to finish last. tell me the truth pls. SISTAWOMAN, IICE, and other straightforward posters, speak out pls. If being bad is the in-thing i would rather be worse. Don’t give me advice as regards facing my studies, just answer my question-simple.

Nice or Bad? Listen poster, just be yourself. Some women or should I say girls do not know what they really want in a relationship or out of life. You should not try to conform yourself or stoop to that level. If you know what you want and you are a "nice guy" then stay that way, there will be plenty of women that will like you for who you are. It makes no sense to be something that you are not. In fact, most people will be able to see right through the act and see that you are pretending, and I will tell you, people will not appreciate that. So your best bet is to be yourself.

you can be a bad boy

@poster
If you never believe anything before better believe this one oh!
Its not that you would go about being a devil no, you will just come across as an insecure male. The trick is just to make her feel as though her charms do not work on you, one simple way is never give in to all their whims when she asks, take your time and give her when you want. There are many other things involved but the first step is being the MAN.

1st i like ur sincerity.i ve read d'angelo stuff bliv me u can only pick some and discard the others.diffrnt folks, that it will work for david doesnt mean it will work 4u.truly when u are too nice women take u 4granted but dont let any woman change u!just get on with any girl and instincts will lead u on how to go about it.i am 25 and am just having a really serious relationship all my life.at first i was confused about how to go about havin a girl but it is easy when u r urself and pick words u think will work 4u.so mandont take all david's words.he is just selin his own book.women folk too ve ladies teachin them stuffs abt men.this is pure balder dash so, go enjoy yasef bro

Go on and follow that little voice in your head that tells ya nice guys can finish first. Ladies always end up in tears when they hang out with bad guys. The thrill with bad guys is short lived. So lets hear it for ALL the good guys out there.

more comments please

Neither be nice nor bad. Just be yourself.
There is a lady out there for every type of man. There is a lady out there for you. You only need one.
The way nature makes it, you will either find her or she finds you at the appropriate time.
Any other thing before or after that ain't worth it.

u beta be urself! if u force urself to act as a bad boy u'll just end up being a lousy tout

richo:

u beta be yourself! if u force yourself to act as a bad boy u'll just end up being a lousy tout

Please listen to this advice.

Being a bad boy rules but you don't have to over do it.
Rule number one,
1]Never give a Bleep about anything
2]Be in control, never take any Shit from any lady
3]Make all the decisions and don't do anything anybody suggest
4]Flirt with different woman [flirting only, nothing more, unless you want to be a prostitute,then you can go around sleeping with different woman]

And the rest, you are on your own