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Can You Ever Get Over Your First Love? by denzelswt: 9:45am On Sep 26, 2008
Your first love is usually the man who had the power to make you feel happy, excited, an individual, special and perfect all at the same time. He is usually the one who taught you how to kiss, experience emotions, feel sexy, laugh with confidence and behave like a real lady. You'd enjoy every second you were with him and pine for him when he wasn't. You'd talk to him for hours about everything and anything, it wasn't important to always make sense, even most nonsensical things would appeal to him. you could share everything with him, he was your first love; it was innocent, special, unbreakable and real so what changed?

Well so many reasons could have gone wrong between you, sometimes fate, destiny, betrayal, death, etc. but it is not important how he left you, but what you felt when he did.

Usually the time after the breakup is devastating, you feel like trash, you feel you could never live again, never be happy again and would never forget him. But the interesting thing is if life were to stop after one's first love leaves him or her. How would we all manage to be alive today?

The interesting bit is also that as time progresses you heal. You find out other ways in which you make your self happy. Your expectations from your life increase, not only do you want somebody who is a lot more loving and caring, you look for life long bonds. You tend not to make the mistakes you made in your first relationship. And to top it all off you forget him. You might feel a sense of anxiousness or even curiosity, to know what is happening in his life, but once your life progresses you do not worry about that either. You might feel awkward or even the feeling that you might love him, when ever you run into him, or hear his voice. But guess what it is not love, it is just those long lost memories that play in your head. As time moves on you forget him, and look forward towards other beautiful things in life. So remember nothing lasts forever. Not even your first love. All you require is someone who is truly with you, and you learn to create memories again.

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Re: Can You Ever Get Over Your First Love? by Em2va: 8:21pm On Sep 26, 2008
Its like this, can you ever be burned by fire and never see the scar. The pain might go but the scar is always there to
remind you, and when pple see the scar they'l ask! whether ur 1st love was good or bad, he/she lingers in ur memry longer than
anyother.
Re: Can You Ever Get Over Your First Love? by topup: 5:16pm On Sep 27, 2008
Nice write up. I'm glad I read it.
Re: Can You Ever Get Over Your First Love? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Sep 27, 2008
Well we never really lasted long so i got over her real quick.

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