Isn’t it wonderful to marry your first love? Don’t you just wish that the first relationship you enter into ends up in marriage and you live happily ever after? I know it sounds like a fairy tale but, wouldn’t you all like to marry your first love?

yes oooooooo, datz wat i have alwayz wanted, hope diz ma 2nd relationship will end up in marriage, i pray sooo cuz i don't believe in dating 100 men b4 i get married

yea it will be cool to marry ur first luv

Ma first luv is dead, ,.died wid a part of ma heart as well

it's just wonderful if that happens, you feel so good to marry the one and only person you've ever loved,

Wow, those are one of the best things in life.

My first love was like so childish because l really did not know what was going on, He was so so cute and we went to the same lesson together , he was the most handsome guy in class, clean cut, side burns, sexy white eyes, dark well built guy , l remember the first time he came to talk to me, l was like so rude to him but u know naija guys don't give up when they love something and  soon l said yes  and love wan ti ti started., I was just like "in planet mars" anytime l saw him and l did not really understand what was going on but he was so so cool. He would always come around and seat with me and talk to me every morning before l went to class. l mean and l would be feeling like butterflies in my stomach and he be like girl , whatever u want , for u only. I wanna kiss you , look me in the eyes, don't say a word, Am l dreaming, wake up girl, That was then.

That has always been my greatest fantasy, to marry my first love but i've had and ended one relationship already and no! it didn't lead to marraige and not even in a thousand years will it lead to marraige either, so there goes my much cherished desire. It would have been nice though but oh well!

@Toronto: ee yah!

It would be a lovely experience to marry a first love; however, that has been many years past. But, my present love feels like a first love experience_{I am sure it will lead to marriage one day}

@Toronto
I'm so sorry to hear that
*Gives you a hug*

First of all there is no love, just a fragment of your imagination. . .
Secondly, you'll need the experience of going through relationships so you can understand the opposite sex well enough for you to live eternity with the one you finally choose or else things will get ugly after 2 years of lubbydubby is over and you ask yourselves "now what?"
Thirdly, Sorry to hear that Toronto, is that why you act so crazy?
And lastly i'm not crazy, its the rst of the world thats crazy. . .

It surely would be an incredible experience, but like Maxflame mentioned, one needs the experience garnered from going through relationships, to understand the opposite sex well enough for a life-time co-existence with a particular individual.

I've been involved in several relationships and have yet to find that special lady whom I connect to very deeply, and so I can imagine how cool it would be marrying that one when I do find her.

By the way Maxflame, there is LOVE. You think there's no love because you apparently haven't felt it. But one thing I know is that you can't appreciate real love until you've been burnt. So, go ahead.

Maxflame, I know somebody that got married to her first love. They've been married for 8 years now and as far as I know, they are an enviable couple. So your post is fallacy!

As for me, that used to be my fantasy in secondary school i.e. to marry my first love, but emmm, you see, emmmmm *coughs* I think Man proposes, God disposes. It's all good though! The major thing as far as I am concerned is not to have sex before marriage. I think it's almost as good as marrying your first love, right?

Farriel:

By the way Maxflame, there is LOVE. You think there's no love because you apparently haven't felt it. But one thing I know is that you can't appreciate real love until you've been burnt. So, go ahead.

Give me your definition of love and i will prove to you it doesn't exist.

IAH:

Maxflame, I know somebody that got married to her first love. They've been married for 8 years now and as far as I know, they are an enviable couple. So your post is fallacy!

I pretty sure he's not cheating on her.

i wldnt like 2 marry ma 1st luv
i wnt 2 experiment wit da diff male species
maybe ma 2nd K*n **i ***luv ***u

@ Iah
da lil teddy on ur prof is very cute

My real name is Ken.

Geez
ur real name is ken huh?

NO

Oh Thanks Rhodalyn

Maxflame, you are lying! Your real name is my ex-boyfriend's name.

ma pleasure Iah
Maxflame u big big liar u've bn caught

wow that is what i have ever wanted to marry my first love and all this internet relationship is not worth it
it is really nasty and stupid. i once know this guy through internet and i do not really want the relationship to continue. but then let go straight to the pointi will like to marry my first love and that will be in university i just want to be good with the Mr right of a guy one day and settle down in a peacefully enviornmental place.

Na lie joo!
How many of you ACTUALLY dating your first love till date, may be 2 of 20 may be FIRST LOVE is meant for REHEARSAL and we go for the next as the REAL acting thats just it folks, take it or leave it!

O DI KWA VERY DOWBTFUL

to me, i dont even know the number I am for now . Hey dont attack me o, no be my fault o but NAIJA BABES will force you to

(Ladies) I'm not a player but you are free to pass the ball to me I promised, I'll play safe

Maxflame, you are lying! Your real name is my ex-boyfriend's name.

It is? Wait lemme check. . . Can't seem to find my birth certificate. Oh well. . .

u're very funny

I try my best.

when was the first time you guys fell in Love. Mine was in JSS 1, long time ago. lost contact with the chic who
at that time happen to be in primary 4. It was a childish relationship. But that we were in love, i could look at her i tell her what she was thinking it was just like the one in "GET RICH OR DIE TRYING".

This happen in 1990, in Enugu, with new states created we had to relocate to Anambra. I have not seen her since then. We kept writing letters, till 1997 when she finish secondary school. With her leaving school i couldn't tell where she was, what she was doing, no GSM, e-mail wasn't popular then.

I always thought I will find her and our love come back to life.

Did I find her, yes I did, were, on the internet 2 months ago. She is all grown up now, with a good profile. I was happy when i final was able to track her down but I wish i didn't.

Now the search for Miss right is making me turn into a heart breaker. But what will i do, better a broken relationship than a broken marriage.

I don't know what My first love holds for me, I just want someone that i can tolerate her short comings. someone i can laugh at her mistakes instead of getting angry. Someone that can be her self and i will be happy her being herself. No forming. That for me my miss right .

it takes the grace of God and discipline to marry first love although that's every woman's dream.

That will be wonderful. I better start searching for her, if I can just remember who she was. Life is a jungle, you know.

Here's a good place to start www.google.com

maxflame, u make me laugh

Can you marry your first and only love? I mean, I was having a discussion with a friend and he is planning on marrying his girl of eight years. The first and only girl he has dated.

Now the question is, how can you know you have the best, when you have only dated one?

I guess its not about having the best but about REAL LOVE!!

But how do you know you have real love, when you have only one person to use as your yardstick?