Creepy: Complimenting her butt

Or her breasts, or any other part of her body that's normally covered up by a swimsuit. Some guys think it's okay to stare at a woman's cleavage and then tell her, while licking their lips, how hot she is. This is not flirting. It's lecherously creepy. While women do want to be seen as sexy, sexual beings, you need to wait until you're in a relationship before you assume this type of conversation.

Sexy spin: Complimenting one of her non-physical attributes. Telling her she has a great smile or gorgeous eyes probably won't get you slapped, but it also won't win you points for originality. The compliments that will turn her head are the ones that seem unique to her. Mention that you admire her confidence, how successful she is, or how well she handles difficult situations (Obviously, you'll need context for a few of these.) You'll look like you're really paying attention to who she is—even if you're not.

Creepy: Sending her pictures of your junk

The first rule of sexting? No dick pics. While this is akin to the "men are visual, women are verbal creatures" trope, it's mostly just about the fact that sex organs are not all that sexy when we're not engaged in s*x. (Think about it—if she sexts you, she's probably topless, not spreading her legs, right?) It should go without saying that unsolicited sexting will automatically put you under the "super creepy" label.

Sexy spin: Calling her. "No dick pics" doesn't mean sexting is completely off the table. Women are definitely into sexy texts and emails, but there's nothing like the sound of a man's voice to get things flowing. Your voice is especially stimulating because it's live, directly connected to your body, and therefore more personal than any electronic communication, no matter how sexy." Instead of sexting her, pick up the phone and just say it. Bonus: You don't have to worry about a digital paper trail.

Creepy: Cyber-stalking

It's really hard to avoid cyber-stalking completely, thanks to, well, Google. It's just so easy to pop her name into there and browse through her public Facebook photos while you're waiting for her to show up to your coffee date. But you should try to resist this temptation as much as possible. It's tempting to 'follow' her on various social platforms, but do not do this. If you follow her on Nairaland, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn all at once, she won't think it's a compliment.

Sexy spin: Asking her about her social media. As a rule, don't follow her on more than one social media platform until you've discussed it with her. She won't think it's weird if you're one of her many Twitter followers—since Twitter is a pretty open site—but it becomes obvious that you're doing extra "research" when she starts getting friend requests on Facebook and especially LinkedIn. To avoid looking like a creeper, just ask her, in person, before you friend her.

Creepy: Telling her you want to marry her WAY too early

She may be the coolest, sexiest, most intelligent person you've ever met, but there's no need to profess your undying love (or get uber-romantic) right away. "Yes, she's a great catch. Yes, you want her to be the mother of your children and your life mate with whom you will drink spiked lemonade on the front porch in 60 years. "You do not need to express this on date three." At worst, you'll come off as a desperate, creepy loser. At best, you'll put a lot of pressure on her to define the relationship too soon, which will probably result in her getting the heck out of there.

Sexy spin: Chillin' out. She's hot, and you don't want to blow it. But you will blow it if you try too hard to impress her with words, romantic gestures, or money. Even if you like her a lot, keeping that information to yourself for at least three months—enough time for both of you to get to know each other.

Creepy: Trying too hard to be sexy

We all know that guy—the one who wears a fedora and a vest (with no jacket), who has an exaggerated swagger when he walks, and kisses girls' hands when he's introduced. That guy is a tool. And he doesn't come off as sexy or attractive to women—not even ironically. "When men are trying to be sexy, whatever they think that means, that's when they start to come across as unattractive and creepy. When you're not being true to yourself, there's a disconnect that everybody around you can pick up on, and it makes people uncomfortable. This translates to creepy."

Sexy spin: Being yourself. The key takeaway here is that these gestures are creepy when a man is "trying" or "attempting" to do something—not doing something that comes naturally to him. So unless you're kissing her hand because you were just so swept up in the moment that it felt right don't do it. The best bet is to be yourself. She may not like who you are, but at least she won't feel like there's that disconnect—that creepy vibe that you give off when you're being inauthentic.There are some men who are naturally Casanova-esque in their romance style. But chances are, you're not one of them.

Interesting! So,I have to take note of all these just to know how to toast a woman?

Danhumprey: Interesting! So,I have to take note of all these just to know how to toast a woman?

Yes, you've take note of all of them so that you don't appear creepy while toasting a woman.

As usual, won't work for everyone, considering that the opposite sex does that..
Before you go voicing it all, there is this cute function in mobile phones these days called 'Record calls'