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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by alexleo(m): 11:36pm On Jul 08, 2014
Gombs: At this point, am lost....in my own thread... grin

Wonderful

No. Rather the truth is hitting hard on you.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by mbaemeka(m): 1:37am On Jul 09, 2014
alexleo: Sometimes some of us christians think that God is our robot that we can manipulate anyhow. Yes faith works but faith doesnt mean that God should foolishly fall to your faith even when he is seeing that the faith you are exercising is not going to earn you any good. As much as we are exercising our faith in Christ let us also give room for "thine will be done". God is not a slowpoke. Jesus asked for the cup to be removed(typical of the flesh) but he quickly made room for God's will to be done. This flesh is so selfish and can never give better offer than God. If God in his wisdom feels its time to take me out of this world to come and be with him why should i feel he should keep me more? Since when did my little wisdom become much more than God's wisdom? Some of you are telling stories here. At the end of the day God will always have his way. " I will show mercy to whom i will show mercy". Thats God. If he doesnt want to show you mercy then you are wasting your time.

God always responds to faith. He responded to Hezekiahs faith even when what he demanded for was contrary to God's will for his life. That's the first thought you have to settle in your mind and stop relegating God's word to your experiences.

There is a good will, an acceptable one and a perfect will of God. Christian maturity is all about walking in the perfect will of God for your life. A totally disconnected issue from what obtains on this thread. Learn to spot the difference.

For one to say thy will be done one must already know what that will is or else you are just faithless and will be tossed to and fro by the devil. Or how else do you explain why Paul healed a man who slept during his service falling from a tall building and dying? Why didn't Paul wonder if it was GOD'S WILL to have the man raised back to life? Why didn't he just concede that it was Gods will and leave the man dead? You see Christian maturity also includes knowing the mind of God at each point in time and this becomes known when we spend time 'koinonia-ing' with him by the Holy Spirit. That's why Jesus could sacrifice his fleshly desire to let the cup pass from him by accepting the will of God- a will he knew about. Same way with Peter and Paul and even John the Baptist. They all knew what God expected of them at each point in time (including how they were to die) and they accepted it exemplifying true Christian maturity.

So the question for you and your ilk is: Do you know thw will of God for your life? If you do not know it you may accept an attack from the devil as one and die miserably even when it was against God's will for your life. Do you pray to be relieved of a situation and when it doesn't work you automatically assume it must be the will of God? What if you didn't have faith as much as you thought for the situation or what if what you thought was faith wasn't really faith?

The scriptures are clear about somethings that we can be sure of. For example, sicknesses and diseases do not come from God. God wants us well because we serve him better that way. Besides he let Jesus die for us. So when any christian is attacked by a disease he/she doesn't need to ask God whether it is his will- it can never be. What we need to do is exercise our God given rights to either pray to him to 'heal us' or command the healing to take place by using his name on the situation. That's why the apostles didn't ask God for his will before healing people. They simply acted on his word. So again spot the difference so you won't be bashed by the devil any how and erroneously think by some weird means that God had a hand in it.

So to know if it was GOD'S time to call you home at least even you agrees that you must hear from God first before assuming it was his will. Then we can debate on whether one should accept such a call or resist it. I believe that is part of what the OP has been alluding to. For example, we can agree that if God says to you- 'preach the gospel to 1000 men' and you have only done 200 so far when you hear a voice telling you to come home you would surely doubt that such a voice is from God, No?

Now you get the message.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by alexleo(m): 9:54am On Jul 09, 2014
^^^Oga you are always wise in your own eyes. Save your long story. God is not a robot. While you make your request to him still make room for his will to prevail. Some of you think you are wiser than God. For me, once I pray for the will of God to prevail it comes out best so I don't know what you are explaining again. Sometimes his will goes in line with my prayers or in contrast but at the end of the day I ll still see that its the best.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by shdemidemi(m): 10:27am On Jul 09, 2014
mbaemeka:

God always responds to faith. He responded to Hezekiahs faith even when what he demanded for was contrary to God's will for his life. That's the first thought you have to settle in your mind and stop relegating God's word to your experiences.

Now, you need to understand the Old Covenant the nation of Israel had with God. Self-righteousness was a valid principle on which to approach God under the law. Hezekiah's prayer would almost be ungodly in this present dispensation of grace, he was presenting self-justification, self-righteousness and his own merits.

Romans 3 declared to the church after the resurrection of Christ that none is good, not one. We are all in the cesspool of sin justified only on the back of the righteousness of the only one that is good.


mbaemeka: .
For one to say thy will be done one must already know what that will

On the contrary, no man knows the detailed will of God. All we know and stand firmly upon is the sure word that says -all things will work together for good to those who are called by God. The day any man knows exactly what tomorrow holds for him is the same day God seizes to be God all by Himself.

mbaemeka: .
is or else you are just faithless and will be tossed to and fro by the devil. Or how else do you explain why Paul healed a man who slept during his service falling from a tall building and dying? Why didn't Paul wonder if it was GOD'S WILL to have the man raised back to life? Why didn't he just concede that it was Gods will and leave the man dead? You see Christian maturity also includes knowing the mind of God at each point in time and this becomes known when we spend time 'koinonia-ing' with him by the Holy Spirit. That's why Jesus could sacrifice his fleshly desire to let the cup pass from him by accepting the will of God- a will he knew about. Same way with Peter and Paul and even John the Baptist. They all knew what God expected of them at each point in time (including how they were to die) and they accepted it exemplifying true Christian maturity..

These men(apostles) knew nothing about God's holistic plan for their lives. They trusted God's word and thus they were sold out to what they were assigned to do. They never had any a preconceived plan to do miracles but latch on to what God was doing through them by the help of the Holy Spirit at that era of Pentecost(initiation of the church).

mbaemeka: .
So the question for you and your ilk is: Do you know thw will of God for your life? If you do not know it you may accept an attack from the devil as one and die miserably even when it was against God's will for your life. Do you pray to be relieved of a situation and when it doesn't work you automatically assume it must be the will of God? What if you didn't have faith as much as you thought for the situation or what if what you thought was faith wasn't really faith?

The scriptures are clear about somethings that we can be sure of. For example, sicknesses and diseases do not come from God. God wants us well because we serve him better that way. Besides he let Jesus die for us. So when any christian is attacked by a disease he/she doesn't need to ask God whether it is his will- it can never be. What we need to do is exercise our God given rights to either pray to him to 'heal us' or command the healing to take place by using his name on the situation. That's why the apostles didn't ask God for his will before healing people. They simply acted on his word. So again spot the difference so you won't be bashed by the devil any how and erroneously think by some weird means that God had a hand in it.

So to know if it was GOD'S time to call you home at least even you agrees that you must hear from God first before assuming it was his will. Then we can debate on whether one should accept such a call or resist it. I believe that is part of what the OP has been alluding to. For example, we can agree that if God says to you- 'preach the gospel to 1000 men' and you have only done 200 so far when you hear a voice telling you to come home you would surely doubt that such a voice is from God, No?

Now you get the message.

No man/no Christian knows God's will for their life like I said earlier, we can only soar with Him as His Spirit leads.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by ayoku777(m): 10:39am On Jul 09, 2014
While it is true that christians suffer and indeed should suffer; even so we should be careful not to attribute every suffering and affliction that comes our way as being something we should go through. Some are attacks from the devil to truncate our destiny, while some are just natural consequences of the fall. Both of which we can and should exercise authority over as new creations in Christ.

Take Jesus for example, the template of our faith; even though He knew He came to suffer, shed His blood and give His life for us; He also knew when NOT TO DIE or just suffer for suffering sake.

There was a time they wanted to cast Him down a cliff in Luke 4. Verse 30 said "But he passing through the midst of them went His way.". Another time after saying He and His father are one, the jews took up rocks to stone Him "but He escaped out of their hands. -John 10v39." Did He escape because He was afraid of death and suffering? Or He simply knew which suffering had nothing to do with the will of God.

Also here; John 11v53-54 -Then from that day forth they took counsel together for to put him to death. Jesus therefore walked no more openly among the jews; but went thence unto a country near to the wilderness, into a city called Ephraim, and there continued with his disciples.

Did Jesus leave Jerusalem for Ephraim out of fear of persecution? Or He simply knew when not to suffer and what affliction had nothing to do with God's purpose?

What about when He told his disciples that they should cross over to the other side, and a storm met them on the way. They woke Jesus up. What did He do? He didn't encourage them to endure it. Or call it "afflictions of the righteous" or "hazards of mission work". No, He rebuked the storm, because it was a storm to be rebuked not endured. And He turned around and rebuked His disciples for their unbelief, because He expected them to have done the same in His name.

All these shows that knowing the will of God and being a matured christian also involves knowing when NOT TO SUFFER, knowing when to rebuke a storm and not endure it.

Jesus came to suffer, die and resurrect for us, even so, He didn't just let himself be pushed around, stoned at will or endure every storm in the name of "affliction of the righteous." Infact, if you study the scriptures, you will discover that the only time He let himself be man-handled was from gethsemane to golgotha. No one and nothing could harm Him before then. He was in charge, even of His own suffering. That is Jesus -our template.

Its not everything we suffer that Has anything to do with the will of God, or even something to help us grow spiritually. A lot of them are just natural challenges of life which we can exercise authority over as new creation. And some are even devil-orchestrated storms designed to prevent us from "crossing to the other side". Which God expects us to rebuke in His name, as He did -not endure it.

For many christians "thy will be done" has become just another fancy expression to describe throwing our hands in the air and submitting to whatever happens. We ought to know the will of God that we are asking to be done, otherwise it is submitting to FATE not to the WILL OF GOD.

In closing let me say this, christianity is not comfort or suffering, it is being filled and led of the spirit. Comfort is not carnality and suffering is not spirituality. Christian maturity is beseeching to behold the glory of Christ, and doing that entails both times to abase and times to abound.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by shdemidemi(m): 11:06am On Jul 09, 2014
@ Ayoku

What did the bible say about sufferings in this world?

Romans 5
Not only so, but we[c] also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4 perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.

the hope of the advent of Christ and His glory)

What suffers, who suffers when we are going through pain in this world?

Our sinful flesh or our spirit man?

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by mbaemeka(m): 12:02pm On Jul 09, 2014
alexleo: ^^^Oga you are always wise in your own eyes. Save your long story. God is not a robot. While you make your request to him still make room for his will to prevail. Some of you think you are wiser than God. For me, once I pray for the will of God to prevail it comes out best so I don't know what you are explaining again. Sometimes his will goes in line with my prayers or in contrast but at the end of the day I ll still see that its the best.

Is your God not the one that enters into a man and leaves the man and re-enters the man and leaves the man? Is your God not the one that takes note of women that use attachments and make up? Is that not your petty God? That is the robot we are talking about.

Jesus said the kingdom of God doesn't come through your careful observation. You don't say since God didn't respond to what I prayed for then it is against his will for my life. That's nonsense. Paul prayed to God to relieve him of his persecution and God RESPONDED saying my strength is made manifest in your weakness. The issue is that Paul heard God, he didn't assume like some faithless christians that anything that happens is the will of God.

As you may have noticed, I do not talk about the word of God like someone that is still guessing. I am sharing with you things that I put to work every day with tremendous results. If it makes me look wise to you it is because I am very wise. I prayed for it and I received it immediately. I didn't wonder if it was Gods will to make me dumb instead then conclude "may thy will be done o God". Trying to spiritualize unbelief like some of you have done to your own peril.

You may choose not to respond to me again or you may let God's will be done. What ever that means.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by mbaemeka(m): 12:26pm On Jul 09, 2014
shdemidemi:

Now, you need to understand the Old Covenant the nation of Israel had with God. Self-righteousness was a valid principle on which to approach God under the law. Hezekiah's prayer would almost be ungodly in this present dispensation of grace, he was presenting self-justification, self-righteousness and his own merits.

Romans 3 declared to the church after the resurrection of Christ that none is good, not one. We are all in the cesspool of sin justified only on the back of the righteousness of the only one that is good.




On the contrary, no man knows the detailed will of God. All we know and stand firmly upon is the sure word that says -all things will work together for good to those who are called by God. The day any man knows exactly what tomorrow holds for him is the same day God seizes to be God all by Himself.



These men(apostles) knew nothing about God's holistic plan for their lives. They trusted God's word and thus they were sold out to what they were assigned to do. They never had any a preconceived plan to do miracles but latch on to what God was doing through them by the help of the Holy Spirit at that era of Pentecost(initiation of the church).



No man/no Christian knows God's will for their life like I said earlier, we can only soar with Him as His Spirit leads.

There are so many things wrong with this post and most of them were thrashed out before the decimation of threads that occurred on NL. It will be exhausting to start re-gurgitating some of those truths again.

whether Hezekiah prayed self righteous prayers or not is not in contention. I simply said he got a response from God even when the all knowing God knew why it was better that Hezekiah checked out 15 years earlier than he did. I even concluded that true maturity is accepting what God has willed for a situation. In other words, Hezekiah was better of accepting to check out 15 years earlier.

As per Romans 3 please read it in context. Paul wasn't saying that no one is righteous- that will be a lie. In the context he was saying no one WAS righteous going by even the standard of the law and indeed no one could ever be. He was trying to set the floor ready to introduce righteousness by faith there.

As per the will of God, there are many of us that know the will of God for our lives. Paul knew his, peter knew his, John knew his and so on. It is not new. If you fellowship with God enough he will speak to you and you will know. It takes nothing away from the scripturesfor what God reveals to you he always does it in line with his word. Remember Paul was told not to go to Bithynia to preach, he was also told that the ship will suffer wreck but no man's life will be lost. That was specific enough if you ask me.

Scripture contradicts you totally on whether the apostles performed miracles because of any pentecost. The Holy Spirit came to replace Jesus as the second paraklete. He does exactly what Jesus did while on earth and he will never stop (I emphasize the never). Also you said if God reveals his plans to a man he ceases to be God. That's another lie. God has been in the business of revealing his plans to his kids. He let Abraham know about his intention to wipe out Sodom and Gomorrah. He let Moses know about his plans to wipe out the stiff-necked Israelites. There's a scripture that says the things that God reveals to us are subject to change. If he doesnt reveal it to us then nobody can do anything about it. For example, no one knows when the 'rapture will occur'. That day only God knows.

Many christians know the will of God for their lives. Many of us. If you don't know yours then you better start listening because God is always speaking to us. Many just don't listen and then get surprised when they get into trouble.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by mbaemeka(m): 12:35pm On Jul 09, 2014
ayoku777: While it is true that christians suffer and indeed should suffer; even so we should be careful not to attribute every suffering and affliction that comes our way as being something we should go through. Some are attacks from the devil to truncate our destiny, while some are just natural consequences of the fall. Both of which we can and should exercise authority over as new creations in Christ.

Take Jesus for example, the template of our faith; even though He knew He came to suffer, shed His blood and give His life for us; He also knew when NOT TO DIE or just suffer for suffering sake.

There was a time they wanted cast Him down a cliff in Luke 4. Verse 30 said "But he passing through the midst of them went His way.". Another time after saying He and His father are one, the jews took up rocks to stone Him "but He escaped out of their hands. -John 10v39." Did He escape because He was afraid of death and suffering? Or He simply knew which suffering had nothing to do with the will of God

Also here; John 11v53-54 -Then from that day forth they took counsel together for to put him to death. Jesus therefore walked no more openly among the jew; but went thence unto a country near to the wilderness, into a city called Ephraim, and there continued with his disciples.

Did Jesus leave Jerusalem for Ephraim out of fear of persecution? Or He simply knew when not to suffer and what affliction had nothing to do with God's purpose?

What about when He told his disciples that they should cross over to the other side, and a storm met them on the way. They woke Jesus up. What did He do? He didn't encourage them to endure it. Or call it "afflictions of the righteous" or "hazards of mission work". No, He rebuked the storm, because it was a storm to be rebuked not endured. And He turned around and rebuked His disciples for their unbelif, becaus He expected them to have done the same in His name.

All these shows that knowing the will of God and being a matured christian also involves knowing when NOT TO SUFFER, knowing when to rebuke a storm and not endure it.

Jesus came to suffer, die and resurrect for us, even so, He didn't just let himself be pushed around, stoned at will or endure every storm in the name of "affliction of the righteous." Infact, if you study the scriptures, you will discover that the only time He let himself be man-handled was from gethsmane to golgotha. No one and nothing could harm Him before then. He was incharge, even of His own suffering. That is Jesus -our template.

Its not everything we suffer that Has anything to do with the will of God, or even something to help us grow spiritually. A lot of them are just natural challenges of life which we can exercise authority over as new creation. And some are even devil-orchestrated storms designed to prevent us from "crossing to the other side". Which God expects us to rebuke in His name, as He did -not endure it.

For many christians "thy will be done" has become just another fancy expression to describe throwing our hands in the air and submitting to whatever happens. We ought to know the will of God that we are asking to be done, otherwise it is submitting to FATE not to the WILL OF GOD.

In closing let me say this, christianity is not comfort or suffering, it is being filled and led of the spirit. Comfort is not carnality and suffering is not spirituality. Christian maturity is beseeching to behold the glory of Christ, and doing that entails both times to abase and times to abound.

If I had seen this before posting I would have simply requoted you. You have said everything I wanted to say.

God bless you.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by shdemidemi(m): 1:49pm On Jul 09, 2014
mbaemeka:
As per Romans 3 please read it in context. Paul wasn't saying that no one is righteous- that will be a lie. In the context he was saying no one WAS righteous going by even the standard of the law and indeed no one could ever be. He was trying to set the floor ready to introduce righteousness by faith there..

Yes, he was introducing a way of righteousness asides the law/the flesh. He was intoducing a righteousness that can only be found in God by the acceptance of the gospel of Christ(death, burial, resurrection)

If you say Paul wasn't saying no one is righteous, My question to you would then be- who on the face of the earth is righteous?

mbaemeka: As per the will of God, there are many of us that know the will of God for our lives. Paul knew his, peter knew his, John knew his and so on. It is not new. If you fellowship with God enough he will speak to you and you will know. It takes nothing away from the scripturesfor what God reveals to you he always does it in line with his word. Remember Paul was told not to go to Bithynia to preach, he was also told that the ship will suffer wreck but no man's life will be lost. That was specific enough if you ask me.

Bro, you don't seem to understand what it means not to know God's will. For illustration sake, do you know how you will spend your entire day tomorrow? I don't think so. You can only make plans and speculations but only God knows and bring things into fruition.

Paul knew what God wanted Him to know, he had no complete picture of what God was doing. At a point he said he wasn't sure if he was going to be killed or not, but every time he finds himself alive he will continue the work of faith(preaching the gospel).

Same applies to any man in scripture, even Jesus told the disciples only God knows time and seasons.

The bible made it clear that we know not how to pray as we ought to, because we are limited by our flesh.
Romans 8
26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.

Only the Spirit of God can pray according to God's will for He knows the complete will of God concerning us.

mbaemeka: Scripture contradicts you totally on whether the apostles performed miracles because of any pentecost. The Holy Spirit came to replace Jesus as the second paraklete. He does exactly what Jesus did while on earth and he will never stop (I emphasize the never).
The bible never said the office of the Holy Spirit was to do what Jesus did- we were informed about the office and roles of the Holy Spirit by Christ Himself. Please check what they are.

mbaemeka:
Also you said if God reveals his plans to a man he ceases to be God. That's another lie. God has been in the business of revealing his plans to his kids. He let Abraham know about his intention to wipe out Sodom and Gomorrah. He let Moses know about his plans to wipe out the stiff-necked Israelites. There's a scripture that says the things that God reveals to us are subject to change. If he doesnt reveal it to us then nobody can do anything about it. For example, no one knows when the 'rapture will occur'. That day only God knows.

Exactly, God revealing a titbit of Himself to man does not equate to the man knowing the complete will of God for their lives. God showed a part of Himself to the patriarchs and pioneers of the gospel does not mean they know the absolute will of God.

Today, God has revealed the part of Himself that was hidden from humanity through Christ/the word(not the bible) but His will concerning our daily living remains secret to man.
mbaemeka:
Many christians know the will of God for their lives. Many of us. If you don't know yours then you better start listening because God is always speaking to us. Many just don't listen and then get surprised when they get into trouble.

Wishful thinking is what you erroneously interpret as God's will.

Do you know when you will die, that is if you think you would eventually do at some point?

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by Image123(m): 1:57pm On Jul 09, 2014
Nice sparring on first page, i enjoyed every bit.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by trustman: 2:56pm On Jul 09, 2014
On God’s Answer to Prayers
God DOES NOT ALWAYS respond positively (i.e. with a YES) to our prayer for something or our faith.
Paul prayed for the ‘thorn in the flesh’ to be removed. God responded; but it was with a NO! Paul pleaded with the Lord. HE DID NOT ADDRESS THE SITUATION (2 Cor. 12: 8, 9). Was Paul not matured enough to know the WILL of God without resorting to prayer? Why didn’t he rather address the situation if that is truly God’s system (God’s manner of approach for the believer).

On God’s WILL for the Christian
The Bible gives the general will of God for the Christian. Then, of course, God has his will for the individual believer. That WILL can include what may be regarded as ‘Negative’ such as suffering (including sickness and disease) and death.
In Revelation 2:10 Jesus Christ told those in the church in Smyrna “DO NOT BE AFRAID of what you are about to SUFFER”. So God’s will include permitting suffering in the life of the believer. Nowhere in the Bible is it stated that when a Christian is sick he should assume IT IS NOT God’s will Apostle James clearly showed us how we can approach prayer for the sick.

Is the Christian Omniscient?
There are things that, like death, are better left to the sovereignty of God. “the secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things that are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may DO ALL THE WORDS OF THIS LAW” (Deuteronomy 29:29).
Nowhere in the Bible are we told that the believer MUST necessarily KNOW or DECIDE the time of his death. It is God who determines the TIMING [/b]and [b]MANNER (sickness, accident; peaceful, violent – Acts 7:58, Hebrews 11) of death of the Christian. What matters is not this flesh. What matters is what counts for eternity; for the hereafter.
Stephen’s death in Acts 7 would be described by many today as ‘horrible’, ‘ghastly’, ‘gruesome’, or in such terms. But Jesus Christ literarily gave him a standing ovation. Why? Because through it all Stephen (like Job) glorified God. He kept the faith. He held his head high. Could Jesus Christ have saved Stephen? Yes. Did he save him? No. Why? Was it because Stephen did not ‘DECIDE’ to be saved? For those who may even think so (i.e. stand on the ground that he (Stephen decided NOT TO BE SAVED) how do you explain the standing ovation Jesus gave him?

The Sovereignty of God
When issues are left ONLY to man’s exercise of FAITH, the SOVEREIGNTY of God becomes relegated to the background. In other words, man’s actions are seen as being more important than God’s involvement in human affairs. The believer who thinks that God must accent to his will (or faith) is claiming to have greater wisdom and better plan than God. That is blasphemy! We DO NOT dictate to God. We go to him to ask for his grace. No Christian has the right to question the sovereignty of God.
No Christian ‘owns’ his life. He has been ‘bought with a price’ to ‘belong’ to another – God. He must therefore subject himself to and depend continually on his master.

On Exercise of Faith
Faith, for any issue or situation, should be in God or directed toward God and not ‘for’ or ‘to’ the situation. No Bible verse asks the Christian to have faith ‘for’ or ‘to’ a situation; it is always to be ‘in God’ or directed toward God.

Questions that need Consideration
• How come a number of foremost advocates for being in ‘control’ over situations have themselves (or their relatives) battled with sickness and disease and even death? What happened?
• Is the Christian free from issues that face other human? Look at this scenario: It rains continuously for days. The place where a Christian (or even a group of Christians) live, because of inadequate drainage or is low-lying gets flooded. Will he, simply because he is a Christian, be excluded from the others (unbelievers) in the neighborhood will face in having to battle with the flooding?

God’s positions on issues are clear from the Bible. What the Christian needs to do is to study to find them out and choose to align himself with them.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by Gombs(m): 3:03pm On Jul 09, 2014
mbaemeka:

If I had seen this before posting I would have simply requoted you. You have said everything I wanted to say.

God bless you.

I tell you, that was a thread closer, very detailed and apt explanations

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by mbaemeka(m): 3:48pm On Jul 09, 2014
shdemidemi:

Yes, he was introducing a way of righteousness asides the law/the flesh. He was intoducing a righteousness that can only be found in God by the acceptance of the gospel of Christ(death, burial, resurrection)

If you say Paul wasn't saying no one is righteous, My question to you would then be- who on the face of the earth is righteous?



Bro, you don't seem to understand what it means not to know God's will. For illustration sake, do you know how you will spend your entire day tomorrow? I don't think so. You can only make plans and speculations but only God knows and bring things into fruition.

Paul knew what God wanted Him to know, he had no complete picture of what God was doing. At a point he said he wasn't sure if he was going to be killed or not, but every time he finds himself alive he will continue the work of faith(preaching the gospel).

Same applies to any man in scripture, even Jesus told the disciples only God knows time and seasons.

The bible made it clear that we know not how to pray as we ought to, because we are limited by our flesh.
Romans 8
26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.

Only the Spirit of God can pray according to God's will for He knows the complete will of God concerning us.


The bible never said the office of the Holy Spirit was to do what Jesus did- we were informed about the office and roles of the Holy Spirit by Christ Himself. Please check what they are.



Exactly, God revealing a titbit of Himself to man does not equate to the man knowing the complete will of God for their lives. God showed a part of Himself to the patriarchs and pioneers of the gospel does not mean they know the absolute will of God.

Today, God has revealed the part of Himself that was hidden from humanity through Christ/the word(not the bible) but His will concerning our daily living remains secret to man.


Wishful thinking is what you erroneously interpret as God's will.

Do you know when you will die, that is if you think you would eventually do at some point?

Anyone that believes with their hearts and confesses with their mouth the lordship of Jesus is righteous.

Knowing how to spend my 'entire' tomorrow doesn't mean I know God's will. God's will isn't what always happens. God's will is what God desires to happen. It wasn't God's will to have the woman bent over by the Spirit of infirmity. So when Jesus saw the woman he ensured that God's will be done- which was to get the Demon off the woman. That's clear enough.

You have mentioned complete and absolute picture quite a number of times. I just perused this thread again before replying and I couldn't find a single post that suggests anyone bar God has the full picture. What we have said for certain is that there are certain things God has definitely revealed clearly in his word one of which is that sickness and diseases are not from him. In fact anything that impedes the furtherance of the gospel can NEVER be from God. You can decide to place whatever you think should be there in that box.

Paul was befuddled between staying with the church or going to be with Jesus. At a later stage he said "I have run my course, I have finished my race". He was doing the same thing with our Template Jesus who said his meat was to do the work of the one that sent him and to Finish his work. How could Jesus and Paul tell when they had finished the work? They must have known what the work was.

Romans 8 didn't say we don't know how to pray neither did it say we don't know what to pray for. It said we don't know what to pray for AS WE OUGHT to. Which means we OUGHT TO know what to pray for. Jesus said Men OUGHT always to pray and not faint. Which means Men Must/Should pray. So if the same bible says as we ought to know what to pray for then my dear it means we ought to. That's why the Holy Spirit HELPS us to do it. He helps us because we are to know it but sometimes we don't.

The role of the Holy Spirit is part of what got lost with some of those threads. In a nutshell- he is a teacher, advocate, standby, intercessor, helper, comforter, strengthener, COUNSELLOR.

Again with the absolute will. God speaks every day. He knows what your day can be like and he counsels us from within. He is the one who says "this is the way to go" "this is what you should say". Thats my own relationship with God. I don't know about yours.

When it is time for me to leave this world God will let me know. It will never be random. I will not board a plane and crash and I will not be in a car and have an accident. I will not be sick- infact I cannot be sick. I will not be hit by a bullet or whatever that seems to kill people. I know some people on this thread believe they can die like that and most assuredly they will- for if you believe something in your heart and declare it with your mouth you will have what you say. It is not Wishful thinking my dear- that's exactly what Jesus taught and it applies to every ramifications of life and spirituality. I agree with Gombs. When I study the lives of the Heroes in the bible all of them knew what was coming before they checked out and it wasn't a premonition. I will not have any less of the same Grace. Amen.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by nlMediator: 6:28pm On Jul 09, 2014
ayoku777: While it is true that christians suffer and indeed should suffer; even so we should be careful not to attribute every suffering and affliction that comes our way as being something we should go through. Some are attacks from the devil to truncate our destiny, while some are just natural consequences of the fall. Both of which we can and should exercise authority over as new creations in Christ.

Take Jesus for example, the template of our faith; even though He knew He came to suffer, shed His blood and give His life for us; He also knew when NOT TO DIE or just suffer for suffering sake.

There was a time they wanted cast Him down a cliff in Luke 4. Verse 30 said "But he passing through the midst of them went His way.". Another time after saying He and His father are one, the jews took up rocks to stone Him "but He escaped out of their hands. -John 10v39." Did He escape because He was afraid of death and suffering? Or He simply knew which suffering had nothing to do with the will of God

Also here; John 11v53-54 -Then from that day forth they took counsel together for to put him to death. Jesus therefore walked no more openly among the jew; but went thence unto a country near to the wilderness, into a city called Ephraim, and there continued with his disciples.

Did Jesus leave Jerusalem for Ephraim out of fear of persecution? Or He simply knew when not to suffer and what affliction had nothing to do with God's purpose?

What about when He told his disciples that they should cross over to the other side, and a storm met them on the way. They woke Jesus up. What did He do? He didn't encourage them to endure it. Or call it "afflictions of the righteous" or "hazards of mission work". No, He rebuked the storm, because it was a storm to be rebuked not endured. And He turned around and rebuked His disciples for their unbelif, becaus He expected them to have done the same in His name.

All these shows that knowing the will of God and being a matured christian also involves knowing when NOT TO SUFFER, knowing when to rebuke a storm and not endure it.

Jesus came to suffer, die and resurrect for us, even so, He didn't just let himself be pushed around, stoned at will or endure every storm in the name of "affliction of the righteous." Infact, if you study the scriptures, you will discover that the only time He let himself be man-handled was from gethsmane to golgotha. No one and nothing could harm Him before then. He was incharge, even of His own suffering. That is Jesus -our template.

Its not everything we suffer that Has anything to do with the will of God, or even something to help us grow spiritually. A lot of them are just natural challenges of life which we can exercise authority over as new creation. And some are even devil-orchestrated storms designed to prevent us from "crossing to the other side". Which God expects us to rebuke in His name, as He did -not endure it.

For many christians "thy will be done" has become just another fancy expression to describe throwing our hands in the air and submitting to whatever happens. We ought to know the will of God that we are asking to be done, otherwise it is submitting to FATE not to the WILL OF GOD.

In closing let me say this, christianity is not comfort or suffering, it is being filled and led of the spirit. Comfort is not carnality and suffering is not spirituality. Christian maturity is beseeching to behold the glory of Christ, and doing that entails both times to abase and times to abound.

This qualifies as the post of the Year!! Ok, at least for this month. Amazing wisdom God has given this brother and the kind of temparement most of us can only wish for. More grace, brotha!
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by nlMediator: 6:51pm On Jul 09, 2014
trustman: On God’s Answer to Prayers
God DOES NOT ALWAYS respond positively (i.e. with a YES) to our prayer for something or our faith.
Paul prayed for the ‘thorn in the flesh’ to be removed. God responded; but it was with a NO! Paul pleaded with the Lord. HE DID NOT ADDRESS THE SITUATION (2 Cor. 12: 8, 9). Was Paul not matured enough to know the WILL of God without resorting to prayer? Why didn’t he rather address the situation if that is truly God’s system (God’s manner of approach for the believer).

On God’s WILL for the Christian
The Bible gives the general will of God for the Christian. Then, of course, God has his will for the individual believer. That WILL can include what may be regarded as ‘Negative’ such as suffering (including sickness and disease) and death.
In Revelation 2:10 Jesus Christ told those in the church in Smyrna “DO NOT BE AFRAID of what you are about to SUFFER”. So God’s will include permitting suffering in the life of the believer. Nowhere in the Bible is it stated that when a Christian is sick he should assume IT IS NOT God’s will Apostle James clearly showed us how we can approach prayer for the sick.

Is the Christian Omniscient?
There are things that, like death, are better left to the sovereignty of God. “the secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things that are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may DO ALL THE WORDS OF THIS LAW” (Deuteronomy 29:29).
Nowhere in the Bible are we told that the believer MUST necessarily KNOW or DECIDE the time of his death. It is God who determines the TIMING [/b]and [b]MANNER (sickness, accident; peaceful, violent – Acts 7:58, Hebrews 11) of death of the Christian. What matters is not this flesh. What matters is what counts for eternity; for the hereafter.
Stephen’s death in Acts 7 would be described by many today as ‘horrible’, ‘ghastly’, ‘gruesome’, or in such terms. But Jesus Christ literarily gave him a standing ovation. Why? Because through it all Stephen (like Job) glorified God. He kept the faith. He held his head high. Could Jesus Christ have saved Stephen? Yes. Did he save him? No. Why? Was it because Stephen did not ‘DECIDE’ to be saved? For those who may even think so (i.e. stand on the ground that he (Stephen decided NOT TO BE SAVED) how do you explain the standing ovation Jesus gave him?

The Sovereignty of God
When issues are left ONLY to man’s exercise of FAITH, the SOVEREIGNTY of God becomes relegated to the background. In other words, man’s actions are seen as being more important than God’s involvement in human affairs. The believer who thinks that God must accent to his will (or faith) is claiming to have greater wisdom and better plan than God. That is blasphemy! We DO NOT dictate to God. We go to him to ask for his grace. No Christian has the right to question the sovereignty of God.
No Christian ‘owns’ his life. He has been ‘bought with a price’ to ‘belong’ to another – God. He must therefore subject himself to and depend continually on his master.

On Exercise of Faith
Faith, for any issue or situation, should be in God or directed toward God and not ‘for’ or ‘to’ the situation. No Bible verse asks the Christian to have faith ‘for’ or ‘to’ a situation; it is always to be ‘in God’ or directed toward God.

Questions that need Consideration
• How come a number of foremost advocates for being in ‘control’ over situations have themselves (or their relatives) battled with sickness and disease and even death? What happened?
• Is the Christian free from issues that face other human? Look at this scenario: It rains continuously for days. The place where a Christian (or even a group of Christians) live, because of inadequate drainage or is low-lying gets flooded. Will he, simply because he is a Christian, be excluded from the others (unbelievers) in the neighborhood will face in having to battle with the flooding?

God’s positions on issues are clear from the Bible. What the Christian needs to do is to study to find them out and choose to align himself with them.



Many things are wrong with your post. I can only highlight a few as I don't have so much time to burn.

1. You introduce James 5 as evidence that sickness can be the will of God. Does that make sense to you? If it's God's will, why is James encouraging people to violate God's will? And why would God go against His will by answering the prayer of faith to heal the sick as James 5 says He would?

2. God determines the timing and manner of everyone's death. Can you provide just ONE verse in the Bible where God says that? I'm not interested in your assumptions, just what the Bible says. The truth is that God gives SOME people a special assignment and within it determines when and how they die. For the rest, He lives their length of stay on earth to a number of factors: the faith of the individual, prayers of the saints, lifestyle choices (smoking, drinking etc), environment, etc. God Himself said we can do some things to prolong or shorten our life. He said to honor your parents so you can live long. If He timed me to live for 30 years and I honor my parents and still die at 30, He has not kept His Word. If His timing is that I'll live for 90 years, but I live recklessly, dishonor my parents, etc, I can be sure that His timing will prevail? Simply put, why did God tell His children they can lengthen their days when that means nothing as He has already set the time? Is God frivolous? Is God a liar?

3. Faith leaders dying. None of them ever claimed they will never die. None of the ever claimed that people cannot succumb to sickness. All they keep on saying is that if you live by Faith, you'll get the results they're talking of. They are not immune from the principles they espouse. If they stop believing, it stops working for them. And you can't sit in your house and know if they kept believing or not. More importantly, using the principles they preached, and that you deride at every turn, they lived longer than anybody gave them a chance, even seeing their great grandchildren. Principles that work that far are to be celebrated, not denounced. And those of them alive continue to use it and are seeing the results. If they had followed your prescription, they'd have been long dead and buried.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by nlMediator: 6:54pm On Jul 09, 2014
shdemidemi:

Now, you need to understand the Old Covenant the nation of Israel had with God. Self-righteousness was a valid principle on which to approach God under the law. Hezekiah's prayer would almost be ungodly in this present dispensation of grace, he was presenting self-justification, self-righteousness and his own merits.

Romans 3 declared to the church after the resurrection of Christ that none is good, not one. We are all in the cesspool of sin justified only on the back of the righteousness of the only one that is good.




On the contrary, no man knows the detailed will of God. All we know and stand firmly upon is the sure word that says -all things will work together for good to those who are called by God. The day any man knows exactly what tomorrow holds for him is the same day God seizes to be God all by Himself.



These men(apostles) knew nothing about God's holistic plan for their lives. They trusted God's word and thus they were sold out to what they were assigned to do. They never had any a preconceived plan to do miracles but latch on to what God was doing through them by the help of the Holy Spirit at that era of Pentecost(initiation of the church).



No man/no Christian knows God's will for their life like I said earlier, we can only soar with Him as His Spirit leads.

Even in the time of Hezekiah, self-righteousness did not please God. So, I don't know where you're going with that point. It was Isaiah, long before Romans, that said all our righteousness are like filthy rags. God did not see what Hezekiah did then as wrong. Nor will He see it as wrong today.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by nlMediator: 7:00pm On Jul 09, 2014
alexleo: ^^^Oga you are always wise in your own eyes. Save your long story. God is not a robot. While you make your request to him still make room for his will to prevail. Some of you think you are wiser than God. For me, once I pray for the will of God to prevail it comes out best so I don't know what you are explaining again. Sometimes his will goes in line with my prayers or in contrast but at the end of the day I ll still see that its the best.

Can you show any verse of scripture or practice of saints that supports your position that if you pray and leave the outcome to God, whatever the outcome is God's will? Peter said we should be vigilant that our adversary is looking for whom to devour, adding that we should RESIST him STEADFAST in the FAITH. 1 Pet. 5:8-9. That means that if you do not resist fully, you may be devoured. But that devouring (sickness, disease, death etc) is not necessarily from God or part of His Will. If it were, why did Peter bother writing that portion of scripture? Nobody is treating God as a robot. We're honoring Him by following what He told us in His Word. He has no qualms with that. Why do you?
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by BabaGnoni: 7:52pm On Jul 09, 2014
ayoku777:

- part of quote above here snipped off here -

For many christians "thy will be done" has become just another fancy expression
to describe throwing our hands in the air and submitting to whatever happens.

We ought to know the will of God that we are asking to be done,
otherwise it is submitting to
FATE not to the WILL OF GOD.

In closing let me say this, christianity is not comfort or suffering,
it is being filled and led of the spirit. Comfort is not carnality and suffering is not spirituality.

Christian maturity is beseeching to behold the glory of Christ,
and doing that entails both times to abase and times to abound.

- /nothing below snipped off here -

I beg to differ that "...thy will be done..." is just another fancy expression
to describe throwing up hands in the air and submitting to whatever happens
.

Maybe that is how some christians understand, perceive or construe what "thy will be done" is about
(i.e. throwing up hands in the air and submitting to whatever happens)
but certainly wasn't the case with Jesus when He used it

And he went a little further, and fell on his face,
and prayed, saying, O my Father,
if it be possible, let this cup pass from me:
nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt
.
- Matthew 26:39 KJ Bible

He went away again the second time,
and prayed, saying,
O my Father, if this cup may not pass away from me,
except I drink it, thy will be done
.
- Matthew 26:42 KJ Bible

And he left them, and went away again,
and prayed the third time, saying the same words

- Matthew 26:44 KJ Bible

Saying, Father,
if thou be willing, remove this cup from me:
nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done

- Luke 22:42 KJ Bible


Three times on that night, according to Matthew 26:39, 42 & 44 is how many times Jesus prayed,
and that is a three times
"thy will be done" prayer

"...thy will be done..." isn't a "Que Sera, Sera" plea
It is not admitting defeat, conceding defeat, stop trying, calling it a day or giving in
but it actually means
: "I am committing my plans/actions to You, forging on, despite, but know, You, know best"

We can make our own plans, but the LORD gives the right answer.
- Proverbs 16:1 NLT

Commit your actions to the LORD, and your plans will succeed.
- Proverbs 16:3 NLT

We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.
- Proverbs 16:9 NLT

You can make many plans, but the LORD's purpose will prevail.
- Proverbs 19:21 NLT


Maybe it is baby Christians, at moment of, seemingly hopelessness, that incorrectly use the phrase the way you've painted it
Also, mind you, it could've slipped me
(i.e. I could be wrong)
but I don't think I have seen or read yet any post on this thread propping or supporting
Christians resigning, throwing in the towel
/sponge, quitting or surrendering in the face of adversity
or humming
"Que Sera, Sera" when in difficult or unpleasant situations

My two penn'orth.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by alexleo(m): 8:32pm On Jul 09, 2014
mbaemeka:

Is your God not the one that enters into a man and leaves the man and re-enters the man and leaves the man? Is your God not the one that takes note of women that use attachments and make up? Is that not your petty God? That is the robot we are talking about.

Jesus said the kingdom of God doesn't come through your careful observation. You don't say since God didn't respond to what I prayed for then it is against his will for my life. That's nonsense. Paul prayed to God to relieve him of his persecution and God RESPONDED saying my strength is made manifest in your weakness. The issue is that Paul heard God, he didn't assume like some faithless christians that anything that happens is the will of God.

As you may have noticed, I do not talk about the word of God like someone that is still guessing. I am sharing with you things that I put to work every day with tremendous results. If it makes me look wise to you it is because I am very wise. I prayed for it and I received it immediately. I didn't wonder if it was Gods will to make me dumb instead then conclude "may thy will be done o God". Trying to spiritualize unbelief like some of you have done to your own peril.

You may choose not to respond to me again or you may let God's will be done. What ever that means.

I repeat again- mbaemeka you are always WISE IN YOUR OWN EYES. Twisting my words like you twist the bible will not work.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by Alwaystrue(f): 9:35pm On Jul 09, 2014
ayoku777: While it is true that christians suffer and indeed should suffer; even so we should be careful not to attribute every suffering and affliction that comes our way as being something we should go through. Some are attacks from the devil to truncate our destiny, while some are just natural consequences of the fall. Both of which we can and should exercise authority over as new creations in Christ.

Take Jesus for example, the template of our faith; even though He knew He came to suffer, shed His blood and give His life for us; He also knew when NOT TO DIE or just suffer for suffering sake.

There was a time they wanted cast Him down a cliff in Luke 4. Verse 30 said "But he passing through the midst of them went His way.". Another time after saying He and His father are one, the jews took up rocks to stone Him "but He escaped out of their hands. -John 10v39." Did He escape because He was afraid of death and suffering? Or He simply knew which suffering had nothing to do with the will of God

Also here; John 11v53-54 -Then from that day forth they took counsel together for to put him to death. Jesus therefore walked no more openly among the jew; but went thence unto a country near to the wilderness, into a city called Ephraim, and there continued with his disciples.

Did Jesus leave Jerusalem for Ephraim out of fear of persecution? Or He simply knew when not to suffer and what affliction had nothing to do with God's purpose?

What about when He told his disciples that they should cross over to the other side, and a storm met them on the way. They woke Jesus up. What did He do? He didn't encourage them to endure it. Or call it "afflictions of the righteous" or "hazards of mission work". No, He rebuked the storm, because it was a storm to be rebuked not endured. And He turned around and rebuked His disciples for their unbelif, becaus He expected them to have done the same in His name.

All these shows that knowing the will of God and being a matured christian also involves knowing when NOT TO SUFFER, knowing when to rebuke a storm and not endure it.

Jesus came to suffer, die and resurrect for us, even so, He didn't just let himself be pushed around, stoned at will or endure every storm in the name of "affliction of the righteous." Infact, if you study the scriptures, you will discover that the only time He let himself be man-handled was from gethsmane to golgotha. No one and nothing could harm Him before then. He was incharge, even of His own suffering. That is Jesus -our template.

Its not everything we suffer that Has anything to do with the will of God, or even something to help us grow spiritually. A lot of them are just natural challenges of life which we can exercise authority over as new creation. And some are even devil-orchestrated storms designed to prevent us from "crossing to the other side". Which God expects us to rebuke in His name, as He did -not endure it.

For many christians "thy will be done" has become just another fancy expression to describe throwing our hands in the air and submitting to whatever happens. We ought to know the will of God that we are asking to be done, otherwise it is submitting to FATE not to the WILL OF GOD.

In closing let me say this, christianity is not comfort or suffering, it is being filled and led of the spirit. Comfort is not carnality and suffering is not spirituality. Christian maturity is beseeching to behold the glory of Christ, and doing that entails both times to abase and times to abound.

Weldone Ayoku. This resonates with me perfectly. Jesus is the template.
Christianity is being filled and led by the Spirit in Christ.
This is what happens when we know our purpose and assignment on earth.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by BabaGnoni: 9:42pm On Jul 09, 2014
Alwaystrue:

Weldone Ayoku. This resonates with me perfectly. Jesus is the template.
Christianity is being filled and led by the Spirit in Christ.
This is what happens when we know our purpose and assignment on earth.

This is nothing but just a cliché - no offense intended Alwaystrue
OK, educate us, what is "...your purpose and assignment on earth..."

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by trustman: 10:25pm On Jul 09, 2014
[quote author=nlMediator]
Many things are wrong with your post. I can only highlight a few as I don't have so much time to burn.
Really?

1. You introduce James 5 as evidence that sickness can be the will of God. Does that make sense to you? If it's God's will, why is James encouraging people to violate God's will? And why would God go against His will by answering the prayer of faith to heal the sick as James 5 says He would?
1 Peter 2:19-23, "19 For it is commendable if someone bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because they are conscious of God. 20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. 21 To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.
22 “He committed no sin,
and no deceit was found in his mouth.”
23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly".


1 Peter 3: 17 "17 For it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil".


1 Peter 4: 12, 16, 19 "12 Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you
16 However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name.
19 So then, those who suffer according to God’s will should commit themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good".



2. God determines the timing and manner of everyone's death. Can you provide just ONE verse in the Bible where God says that? I'm not interested in your assumptions, just what the Bible says. The truth is that God gives SOME people a special assignment and within it determines when and how they die. For the rest, He lives their length of stay on earth to a number of factors: the faith of the individual, prayers of the saints, lifestyle choices (smoking, drinking etc), environment, etc. God Himself said we can do some things to prolong or shorten our life. He said to honor your parents so you can live long. If He timed me to live for 30 years and I honor my parents and still die at 30, He has not kept His Word. If His timing is that I'll live for 90 years, but I live recklessly, dishonor my parents, etc, I can be sure that His timing will prevail? Simply put, why did God tell His children they can lengthen their days when that means nothing as He has already set the time? Is God frivolous? Is God a liar?
I said:
It is God who determines the TIMING [/b]and [b]MANNER (sickness, accident; peaceful, violent – Acts 7:58, Hebrews 11) of death of the Christian.

you said:
The truth is that God gives SOME people a special assignment and within it determines when and how they die.
So i'm not quite sure what you're quarreling with. You still state here that 'God ... ... determines when and how they die'. So?
However, see these: Psalm 31:15; John 21: 18 -22. v. 22 - "22 Jesus answered, “If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me.” 'If i want' is an expression of WILL.

3. Faith leaders dying. None of them ever claimed they will never die. None of the ever claimed that people cannot succumb to sickness. All they keep on saying is that if you live by Faith, you'll get the results they're talking of. They are not immune from the principles they espouse. If they stop believing, it stops working for them. And you can't sit in your house and know if they kept believing or not. More importantly, using the principles they preached, and that you deride at every turn, they lived longer than anybody gave them a chance, even seeing their great grandchildren. Principles that work that far are to be celebrated, not denounced. And those of them alive continue to use it and are seeing the results. If they had followed your prescription, they'd have been long dead and buried.
See Acts 18:21 - "21 But as he left, he promised, “I will come back if it is God’s will.” Then he set sail from Ephesus".
James 4:13-17 - "13 Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” 14 Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. 15 [size=13pt][b]Instead[/size], you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” 16 As it is, you boast in your arrogant schemes. All such boasting is evil. 17 If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them".[/b]

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by nlMediator: 11:33pm On Jul 09, 2014
^^^

Nothing in your post refuted what I said.

1. Sickness as the will of God. Peter said we should suffer. Did he mention sickness there as what we'd suffer? No. He said we should follow in Jesus' steps. Did Jesus suffer sickness? No. Obviously, you can't find one scripture that says that sickness is the will of God. And you have no answer to the assertion that if sickness is the will of God, James would be encouraging us to go against God's will by calling on the elders to pray over the sick to be healed.

2. Timing of death. My quarrel is that your position is that God determines the time of everyone's death, while I said He only does for some people He's given a special assignment. You have no scripture to back your position.

3. So people believing God to live long as He promised them is boasting to you? Feel free to believe what you want but I don't see the boast there. It's God's will for us to live long and so there's no contradiction with James.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by Gombs(m): 11:35pm On Jul 09, 2014
BabaGnoni:

This is nothing but just a cliché - no offense intended Alwaystrue
OK, educate us, what is "...your purpose and assignment on earth..."

Alwaystrue, please don't fall for this...let it go

thanks
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by alexleo(m): 11:49pm On Jul 09, 2014
mbaemeka:

If I had seen this before posting I would have simply requoted you. You have said everything I wanted to say.

God bless you.

Unfortunately you wouldnt have said it the way he did. Your own would ve carried the usual "I too sabi" traits.(Sorry but thats just my view). He is a good teacher. Its a gift. I enjoyed reading him. Infact i read through his post again and again and i learned from his points.

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by shdemidemi(m): 12:04am On Jul 10, 2014
nlMediator:

Even in the time of Hezekiah, self-righteousness did not please God. So, I don't know where you're going with that point. It was Isaiah, long before Romans, that said all our righteousness are like filthy rags. God did not see what Hezekiah did then as wrong. Nor will He see it as wrong today.

Do you go to God in prayer giving a rendition of how good you have been to obtain God's blessings and mercy?

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by trustman: 12:13am On Jul 10, 2014
nlMediator: ^^^

Nothing in your post refuted what I said.

1. Sickness as the will of God. Peter said we should suffer. Did he mention sickness there as what we'd suffer? No. He said we should follow in Jesus' steps. Did Jesus suffer sickness? No. Obviously, you can't find one scripture that says that sickness is the will of God. And you have no answer to the assertion that if sickness is the will of God, James would be encouraging us to go against God's will by calling on the elders to pray over the sick to be healed.

2. Timing of death. My quarrel is that your position is that God determines the time of everyone's death, while I said He only does for some people He's given a special assignment. You have no scripture to back your position.

3. So people believing God to live long as He promised them is boasting to you? Feel free to believe what you want but I don't see the boast there. It's God's will for us to live long and so there's no contradiction with James.

Where Scripture is quoted and it is refused what does one does do?
To engage in long-winding exchanges?

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by herald9: 12:28am On Jul 10, 2014
The most silliest thread have ever seen

Mtcheeew

Better go learn how to argue undecided

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Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by mbaemeka(m): 12:43am On Jul 10, 2014
alexleo:

Unfortunately you wouldnt have said it the way he did. Your own would ve carried the usual "I too sabi" traits.(Sorry but thats just my view). He is a good teacher. Its a gift. I enjoyed reading him. Infact i read through his post again and again and i learned from his points.

To the pure in heart all things are pure.

Whether you learnt from him or Nlmediator or Gombs I could careless. As long as you learnt something (of the truths in their posts) then my joy is fulfilled.
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by mbaemeka(m): 12:48am On Jul 10, 2014
alexleo:

I repeat again- mbaemeka you are always WISE IN YOUR OWN EYES. Twisting my words like you twist the bible will not work.

I am not only wise in my own eyes. I am wise in God's eyes. I am wise in my Alma mater's eyes (from Nursery to . . .) And I am also wise in your own eyes. It is the Lords doing and it is marvellous in your...you know the rest. Thank you. grin
Re: "Should I Be Disappointed In God,when It Looks As Tho He Doesn't Answer Prayers" by alexleo(m): 12:53am On Jul 10, 2014
mbaemeka:

To the pure in heart all things are pure.

Whether you learnt from him or Nlmediator or Gombs I could careless. As long as you learnt something (of the truths in their posts) then my joy is fulfilled.

And your mind tells you I now agree 100 percent with your line of thoughts? No sir. I learn from both sides(proposing and opposing sides). That's my style.

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