1. Before you start a relationship with a lady, you
must think carefully about what you are
about to do. A relationship is not
something you should rush into or handle lightly.
2. Are you ready for a relationship with her? Are
you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to
meet her needs?
3. Being sexually attracted to her
means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of
likeness, love or any other thing your mind may
come up with. It may just be your hormones
messing with your mind. A woman is more than
her body and her sexuality. She has a life which
you should be able to blend with. Can you
do that?
4. This lady has a history. Can you
handle it? She has a past. Can you handle it? Can
you handle her mistakes, failures and
weaknesses? Can you handle her
dreams without being intimidated and becoming
jealous?
5. She already had a life
before she met you. Can you fit into and help
improve her life?
6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit
your life to helping her grow and become all that
she can be, by God’s grace?
7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a
large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready
to pour your resources into making her all the
Lord plans for her to be? If you are not
ready, don’t just bother.
8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’,
ask yourself if
this is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’.
A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’.
She needs your commitment.
If you are not ready to make that
commitment that will lead to marriage, please
leave her
alone in peace and stop wasting her time and
resources.

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