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Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 8:19pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Neymar2: I didn't bother reading the thread though. I guessed as much ... |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Karleb(m): 8:19pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
FP here we come!! |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by sarmiie(m): 8:32pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: abi na...i 1nda why a nicca in dis age n century wld stay with someone who's trolling him.......maybe those sorts of advice one heard when one was young are responsible. ''persistence is key'', ''give her time'', ''help her out n she will surely reward u''........ |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Medunah: 8:53pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
A girl cnt date all d guys dat ask her out. All dis nl guys are jz making mouth, half of them re frnd zoned in d real world. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by ICEKID334(m): 9:32pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Friend z0ne thread everywere |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
seems this friendzone stuff is really a big problem to you guys. eiyah. una sorry ooo. Hahahaha |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by DrObum(m): 9:45pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
sholasholala:Friendzone and being treated as shit is all the same! Only difference is that the shit guy tends to learn his lessons earlier. Solution to both= Leave that girl and get a life! 1 Like |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Ngokafor(f): 10:19pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Friend-zone this,friend-zone that day in day out,it is getting mega boring abeg.. ..with the way you guys have been howling for ages..surely there should an improvement by now and less noise..or cant you learn? @op its a thump-down for most of your pointse,specially number 4..sorry. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by mencade5(m): 7:04am On Jul 12, 2014 |
i equate ladies as ordinary as my guys. I no special treatment for them. Nothing special about girls. Treat ladies normal, if she offends you tell her immediately, no forming. If she vex make she go hug transformer. If she want to use my property and i am using it in great i tell her no i cant give you now because i am using it, not the other way round when she blinks her eyes like catfish guys go come fall mugu give her what she want at their own detriment. No way! Mathew briggs thank you for this points jare. 4 Likes |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 9:38am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Medunah: A girl cnt date all d guys dat ask her out. All dis nl guys are jz making mouth, half of them re frnd zoned in d real world. Exactly she can't. And can't have all of them as friends. Read point one and understand that point clearly. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 2:14pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
missberrypop5: seems this friendzone stuff is really a big problem to you guys. eiyah. una sorry ooo. Hahahaha It not a big problem but one of those problems. Just as the issue of Men cheating is to women. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by pweedyuz(f): 5:41pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
so wat y'all are is if a guy has feelings 4 a girl nd she dosent feel d same way...,d only option is 4 d guy to flee even if d girl will love 2 b his frnd ? |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by snadguy007(m): 6:40pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
pweedyuz: so wat y'all are is if a guy has feelings 4 a girl nd she dosent feel d same way...,d only option is 4 d guy to flee even if d girl will love 2 b his frnd ?Yeah yeah....If you cant date me, i cant be your friend...Shikena |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Segse(m): 6:52pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: Lots of friend zone threads flying around lately. Evident of the fact that this is a very controversial and heated topic. I know this is an overflogged topic lately ... therefore What I intend to achieve via this thread is to bring to light, some perspective to this subject.@OP nice 1 dude |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by ihedinobi2: 8:16pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Briggs my brother, platonic friendships across genders don't stay platonic forever o. Emotions can erupt and what then? Stay friends and try to be cool about it hoping that he or she eventually gets with the program? Isn't that a bit like your definition of the friendzone? Break the friendship because it's no longer enough? Aren't you mean to do that? Squash the feelings and stay friends? Pray tell, how? |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 8:51pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Briggs my brother, platonic friendships across genders don't stay platonic forever o. Emotions can erupt and what then? Stay friends and try to be cool about it hoping that he or she eventually gets with the program? Isn't that a bit like your definition of the friendzone? Break the friendship because it's no longer enough? Aren't you mean to do that? Squash the feelings and stay friends? Pray tell, how? Its a bit like my definition. Not neccesarily breaking the friendship but moving on emotionally, squashing the feelings and return to been just friends ... That is if he or she can than hanging on to those feelings hoping that by miracle he or she would get with the program. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by ihedinobi2: 9:05pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: Like I asked, HOW? |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 9:23pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Their is no definite formula to moving on. But one way that works is asking your self what cause the feelings to develop in the first place ... And then reverse engineer the process. Eg. If it started because you spent so much time together with her... Do the opposite. Till you have have successful moved on. Read point 5. It has some ideologies to aid one move on. Once you have emotionally moved on you can continue with been friends ... If you can. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by ihedinobi2: 9:35pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: I don't know o. I like a simple life o jare. I'd rather not be friends at all. I am no good at loving a little and stuff like that. I'll probably pick up any friendship after I'm married. 1 Like |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Medunah: A girl cnt date all d guys dat ask her out. All dis nl guys are jz making mouth, half of them re frnd zoned in d real world. LOL.. same thing goes for the ladies. We can't date every one of them pushing their ways into our life's. So what do we do? We friendzoned them also. It's a two sided thing. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 9:42pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: For me I place them as acquaintances in most cases. Only in rare cases do we become friends... Hence I added the phrase "If you can" to my reply. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 9:42pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Shikaamaru: Hahaha wicked. 1 Like |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by ihedinobi2: 9:55pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: To be honest, I don't keep female friends that close. To what purpose would I? Emotional confusion? I really could do without that. My best female friend I talk to only once in a while now but whenever we meet up we hang out, catch up and have a really good time. I don't fool myself that there can't be more on one side or the other. Physically, she's not my normal taste but I've seen the possibilities of romance before so I keep a respectable distance. My reason? Language. Close but not exactly the same. My exes? We don't talk. But if they needed something and called I'd help out. It's not acrimony, it's just there's no reason to stay in touch. Abeg I don't do "friends" across genders o. There are periods when I'm so there for one or other of my female friends but once they are ok again, I'm gone until later. Because there's nothing left but romance to do. My friends are guys. 1 Like |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Odunharry(m): 12:43am On Jul 13, 2014 |
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Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by guente02(m): 1:26am On Jul 13, 2014 |
I have a neighbor. I liked her but i never asked her out. We got along real close. One thing is that i can squeeze her boobs and handle her bottoms. Would i say I've been friend zoned? |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by joeblack62: 12:22pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
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Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by Matthewbriggs(m): 2:24pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Hahah ... I perfectly understand where you are coming from, especially at bolded. I hardly keep anyone close. Male or female. So it's pretty difficult for me to be friendzoned in the first place. I prefer having lots of acquaintances to friends. I function better that way. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by EejaNla01(m): 4:07pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
guente02: I have a neighbor. I liked her but i never asked her out. We got along real close. One thing is that i can squeeze her boobs and handle her bottoms. Would i say I've been friend zoned?This is no doubt the best zone to be. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by OMA4U(m): 4:32pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
God bless you. You have just shared my opinions. Matthewbriggs, God bless you once again. Princesa, kindly come and read this, so you realise no big deal in friendzoning a guy, but it may also be a crime. |
Re: My thoughts on friend-zoning by OMA4U(m): 4:34pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs:Yeah... I also prefer casual companions to committed friendship so I don't get hurt. |
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