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Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by ivyy(f): 5:52pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
golor: Really? And you think For every month, hed keep his giving his bro 200k? Be realistic. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by victorazy(m): 6:07pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Dominiquez: Let him give it to his wife. And agree with the wife that they will use part of her salary to set-up his brother in a business. Bros ur talking as if u don't know some women! She will let you know that she has family to carta too. |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by dnshuta: 6:18pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
d broda shuld b offered d job, cuz age is nt on his syd nd also he'll lyk 2 b indepndnt...d wyl cn wait 4 her tym since d husbnd still provide d family nidz 4 em.. |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by sCross: 6:22pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
thatchick: Reread the article. You're getting the story wrong 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by simdam500(m): 6:34pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
spiralwedge: the wife... most sensible thingyou are an EVIL |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by simdam500(m): 6:38pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
rolled: 600k for the role of trainee?helo!!! Am so very sure evry1 here are looking at the issue from the angle of anyone presented to the company will be employed... Ok |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by simdam500(m): 6:43pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
andromida: I don't know the kind of marriages that are happening these days, presently the man is earning 60k if he presents his wife they will have 660k monthly. He'd rather the wife remains jobless and they live a hard life than have more. Same way the wife can change is the same way the brother can change.REMEMBER change is constant...... Even TRUST u say CHANGES |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Jeanred(f): 6:46pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Let him give the brother.. The brother would be forever indebted to him and Indebtedness would make him do favours worth more Dan d original 600k.. |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Nicepoker(m): 6:52pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
afrobaby: You people will not kill me on nairaland, His brother my foot. What can 60k take care of, oh, I see, when the brother gets the job, he will give the salary to him abi? Abeg, make I hear word jare, whether the wife earns higher than you or not, if she wants to be rude, she will be, gbam.finally sum one has spoken |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by simdam500(m): 7:10pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
afrobaby: You people will not kill me on nairaland, His brother my foot. What can 60k take care of, oh, I see, when the brother gets the job, he will give the salary to him abi? Abeg, make I hear word jare, whether the wife earns higher than you or not, if she wants to be rude, she will be, gbam.crap... Looking at the issue in a plain nairaland ground, no qualms... Ok. The contract shud be awarded to the brother, when did he met u even We are talkin of someone they spend the early stage of their life closely together... If the man is not careful, he will regret it... The same way he has your curriculum vitae, i suppose he should ave his bro own and edit his bro too. Ladies grow wing(you and i know e kin soro mo to ba di oro owo). Being married does not guarantee total trust, and if some one is ever going to betray his trust, not his brother i say and even if he sure knows his bro would dare betray him, he wont even think twice before he sign his wife... Simple! Dont forget... Eni to ba ara ile e lopo, ko le ri ra lo won |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by simdam500(m): 7:16pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
ferhyntorlah: It's time for the brother to chart the course of his life.see wetin money go cause... Dont be suprise if u take the place of d brother... |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by spiralwedge(m): 7:42pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
most of the posters attacking me on this are single jobless male parasites squatting with their married brothers (and claiming rights). Shame. u guys go better go get a life. 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by mavinc4u(f): 7:43pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
let him give it to whoever he knows that is capable of doing the job between them to avoid loosing the opportunity to someone that would not perform and get rejected or sacked at the end. |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by simdam500(m): 7:48pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
ferhyntorlah: comprehension is really a BIG issue. What's selfish in wanting the brother to chart his life course? It's time for the brother to chart the course of his life; let the man recommend his brother. That way, he can be INDEPENDENT and STOP relying on his big brother!oh! Please dont say simdam500 the bebe scout? |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by evea: 7:52pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Guy settle ur bros. U can always cater for ur wife. Jst mk her understand tins. If u give ur wife ur bros can turn against u bt wen u talk tins ova with ur wife. Tins wil b fine. BT pls,dnt insult her or mk her feel she's nt useful. Remember, She is making up a gd n blessed home 4 u nw 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by tomiobj(m): 8:22pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
koastar: Good day all, pls I need your advice on this issue.. Two answers. 1.if you are financially stable and don't need money that much u can gv d job to your broda. Givn your wife just doubles ur family income. Give your broda to lend him an helping hand because he will help you later when you have nothing. 2. If u need money a lot. Gv ur wyf to double your total family income and gv u more money I personally recommend no1. But no matter the option you choose discuss it among both of them. They could add deir opinions also |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by chitokwe(f): 8:31pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Dominiquez: Let him give it to his wife. And agree with the wife that they will use part of her salary to set-up his brother in a business. Good 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by spiralwedge(m): 8:32pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Amadaz: No matter the love I have for my wife, I place my bro above it. For christ sake this is my direct blood, the person I grew up with under same roof, share the same history, share the same parents... Na my bro joor this is precisely the reason marriage doesn't work in this part of the world 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by ayaayoola: 8:47pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
am available for d job ohhhh biko help me out. BT in my own opinion gv d slot to ur bro means u Ve help a family. ;Dam available for d job ohhhh biko help me out. BT in my own opinion gv d slot to ur bro means u Ve help a family. |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by linearity: 9:10pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
You shld give it to your wife, but the bitter truth is, with a pay ration of more than1:10 between you and your wife, give it five years max, she will be the one wearing the pants in that house. So, you really have to step up your games a notch or two. Don't believe those that says, if she is a good wife, she will remain the same, that is an utopian dream, in the real world, he that pays the piper dictates the tune. |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by biomedixexcel(m): 9:41pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Undecided |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
makzeze: moderators, ban him pls for abusive word. Lol... It's not abusive if you're stating the fact! |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by jayokla: 10:10pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
He should give his wife, they can in turn help the brother start up a business or even get him a job in the company when she's fully settled down there.... if he gives his brother, yes they can go as far as "striking a deal " of a particular % returns every month, but no matter how loyal and helpful the brother may be if he gets the job, a day will come when he will get a wife and start his own family, his focus will change and nobody will blame him for shifting his focus to his own family... 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by allycat: 11:37pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
How many of your father's brothers are contributing to your education or contributed to your education. Is it not your mother's that made or are making anhe extra sacrifice to make sure you are educated and fed. I have seen so many cases when a man is down and he sends his children to the brothers house they become house helps to the brothers family. How many uncles put their nephews in the same school with their children. If you value your brother over your wife and mother of your children then in fact you value his children over your own. We betide you if you fall ill or worse case die you have sentenced your children to he'll. And if you were my father and u hear you had the opportunity to empower my mother and chose your brothers welfare over us your children I would spit on your grave and curse the day my mother allowed you father me. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:08am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Jman06: @Op, please and please tell your friend to recommend his BROTHER for the job. That's d wisest decision to make in this case. His wife might get the job and use her money only for her parental home while expecting her hobby to still be 'breadwinner' of the house regardless of who earns more (like we 've read many women say here on this forum), but his brother will never forget him and his family when d chips are down, considering that they have been through thick and thin together. A word is enough for the wise. When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:11am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Matttthew: Brother..... Women er not the type that understands easy.... She might even grow wings after being employed. Just forget it n take it to your brother, are you not a family man? Do u want him to cont'd being dependant on you.... He av to live his life now.... Helping is no crime. When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:13am On Jul 21, 2014 |
dahmie2013: OP, his brother&his wife must never no about d fact dat he had d optn 2 pick her. First, if he doesn't pick his broda, he'll be dependent on him&dats an xtra burden. If d wife finds out, she might not take it lighty, depending on d kind of wife she is. When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:20am On Jul 21, 2014 |
phabulous88: I'll discuss the job opening with my wife first cos she's mine and we're one. If she's willing to take it, then my brother wouldn't know about the job. If she doesn't want it, then together (my wife and I), we'll present it to my bro. May your days be longer than it would have been. You will surely have a good marital life or will have cuS you know how to build a good home. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:24am On Jul 21, 2014 |
lonelydora: His brother, but his wife should not know about it. When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:28am On Jul 21, 2014 |
domwas2: I'll go for my brother When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:42am On Jul 21, 2014 |
passionate88: Thank you my brother man... The way our girls think money now is frightening... Not all women will want to climb their husband's head when/if they earn higher than him but most will. Has iS it ever occurred to you that without her hubby, the woman can Still get Such job? In that case, what doeS She do? Tell them,"oh, soryy, I have a hubby who earns less than that an I don't wanna climb hiS head? When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster |
Re: My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? by Maonyz(f): 1:46am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Suresh08: ur own blood should always come first. When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster |
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