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Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jul 21, 2014
Kunleskey: love!love! it's very complicated,in a situation like this u can't just jump into conclusion bcoz you will blame yourself @the end of it and you will forget about love when it continue without any changes. except if there will longtime assurance of returning..to me it a sacrifice.... me i love my joystick o and it will fulfil what it hort to do in this world in jesus name, i don't want to be in there shoe.
was joking ni o......so u xpct me to gt married to sm1 dat wnt satisfy me bedmatically...taaaaaaaaa!!!!!wahs nw d koko?
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by ULSHERLAN(m): 8:57am On Jul 21, 2014
juntod:

Honestly, does the sacrifice of seeing a girl through undergraduate measure up in anyway to the sacrifice of living the rest of your life without s.ex or even children of your own?
its a probability just like the doctors said, he might still be okay. The guy also gambled on seeing her through undergraduate and not hoping she will leave him after graduation like most ladies will do just like what she wants to do now

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Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by obongtunji: 8:58am On Jul 21, 2014
I watched a man at Shiloh testified of how his damaged kidney was replaced with a new well functioning kidney. Another lady that has been on wheelchair for six years miraculously got off the wheelchair and started walking and running all over the auditorium. What I'm saying here is that there is nothing too difficult for GOD to do. GOD is able to heal him, I have a strong believe his manhood will be functional again

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Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 8:58am On Jul 21, 2014
publicenemy:

But you wouldnt do that would you?

I mean marrying a guy whose d*ck is functonal.
God knws best........bt i wnt want to indlge in xtra marital affy
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 8:59am On Jul 21, 2014
obongtunji: I watched a man at Shiloh testified of how his damaged kidney was replaced with a new well functioning kidney. Another lady that has been on wheelchair for six years miraculously got off the wheelchair and started walking and running all over the auditorium. What I'm saying here is that there is nothing too difficult for GOD to do. GOD is able to heal him, I have a strong believe his manhood will be functional again
me too
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by juntod: 9:02am On Jul 21, 2014
obongtunji: I watched a man at Shiloh testified of how his damaged kidney was replaced with a new well functioning kidney. Another lady that has been on wheelchair for six years miraculously got off the wheelchair and started walking and running all over the auditorium. What I'm saying here is that there is nothing too difficult for GOD to do. GOD is able to heal him, I have a strong believe his manhood will be functional again

Forget those fictions you see on TV. They are planned work. Have you ever seen anybody you know that benefited from those miracles?
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Kunleskey(m): 9:12am On Jul 21, 2014
Xtarxhyne: was joking ni o......so u xpct me to gt married to sm1 dat wnt satisfy me bedmatically...taaaaaaaaa!!!!!wahs nw d koko?
the best is to let go of him.. But, if a kind of woman like you later stick with him,, you will be doing it elsewhere.....true or yes ?
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by AdeniyiA(m): 9:14am On Jul 21, 2014
The best thing to do now is to postpone the wedding nd solution sought within a specified nd agreed period of time,beyond which each can go their separate way if things remain the same. The situation on ground won't be palatable to any of them during nd after the wedding, they would have incomplete happiness.
If they're blinded by love am sorry because marriage will open their eyes wide.
People are always advised to look before leaping, this is done to confirm if you have what to land on, in this case she has NOTHING to land on. so the purpose of leaping(marriage) is defeated.
A very dicey issue

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Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Kunleskey(m): 9:20am On Jul 21, 2014
obongtunji: I watched a man at Shiloh testified of how his damaged kidney was replaced with a new well functioning kidney. Another lady that has been on wheelchair for six years miraculously got off the wheelchair and started walking and running all over the auditorium. What I'm saying here is that there is nothing too difficult for GOD to do. GOD is able to heal him, I have a strong believe his manhood will be functional again
do people really believe's in God?do they have faith in God? Can people really endure it? But, with God all things are possible.and we can do all thing in christ who strengthen us. If we believe him...and have faith in him.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by mencade5(m): 9:34am On Jul 21, 2014
prologue: without or "temporarily out of service". What about if u were not able to conceive would he had thought of same about you? When a man spends his resources, which is a part of his life, fixing a gal, esp those from this part of the world, he is surely fetching water with a basket, in a snake infested pond. Not only will he not get water, but might not survive d bite.
hmmmm...food for thought. You have spoken with wisdom here. I must copy this down.

*brings out jotter and biro to copy*

thank you my brother
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by publicenemy(m): 9:38am On Jul 21, 2014
Xtarxhyne: God knws best........bt i wnt want to indlge in xtra marital affy

Exactly thats why you should break up wth him and if he truly cares about you he will understand.
infact she should be the one to break things up.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by juntod: 9:45am On Jul 21, 2014
publicenemy:

Exactly thats why you should break up wth him and if he truly cares about you he will understand.
infact she should be the one to break things up.

So what remains of the guy? Do you think he will ever find a wife if the only person that understands the situation dumps him? I really feel for him on that note.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by publicenemy(m): 9:57am On Jul 21, 2014
juntod:

So what remains of the guy? Do you think he will ever find a wife if the only person that understands the situation dumps him? I really feel for him on that note.

Whatever is his next action has to be properly thought about. He needs to spend sometime alone and move on. He could find someone else later in future and even this lady could also decide to stay. But he has to break thngs up and move on,atleast for a while.so whoever he meets wont feel MORALLY OBLIGATED to be wth him.
Becos this lady might want to stay becos of all he has done for her,but for how long can she stay with him in that condtion,she will eventually get fed up,succomb to pressure and leave later in future and then it will be another heart break for the guy.so its best to go through everything now.

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Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by MadCow1: 10:00am On Jul 21, 2014
onstelly:
Hahaha omg you are one hell of a funny guy, in btw I believe with God all things are possible! You never can tell sometime doctors are not always right


Let her run o!

No need to be here waiting on Gods miracle.

She should use this opportunity and upgrade from PVR Dickoder to Explora. cool

Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by adanduka: 10:12am On Jul 21, 2014
It could have happened after their wedding. She should hang in there. Why is she trying to have sex with a recuperating man plus the formication aspect?
Love will make things work. Also don't forget- God answers prayers.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Adaeze003(f): 11:11am On Jul 21, 2014
Guys sef, what if the shoe was on the other foot? Like the gal couldn't carry a child anymore? Hope ya'll will still advise him to marry her?
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by quintessnc05(m): 11:12am On Jul 21, 2014
I tink 1stly, you'll have to knw wot type of guy the dude is...
He culd be the 'Love is Blind type, dnt-leave-me-else-id-die type ' undecided
Or, the 'I care less type' cool

If he's the latter, then she shuld go ahead and talk to him and end the relatnship....he'll understand......somewhat.

Bt if he's the former, she wuldnt want a suicide on her hands.....she has to be calculative, let him down easy.
Firstly, she shuld suggest postponement of the wedding on d guise of seeking medical/alternative therapy...
Den over time slowly withdraw...

Alternatively, she n d guy shuld become strong christians, n go on deir knees to God in prayer. He answers.....(Though 'NO' is also an answer).
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 11:20am On Jul 21, 2014
publicenemy:

Exactly thats why you should break up wth him and if he truly cares about you he will understand.
infact she should be the one to break things up.
easier said dan done
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 11:22am On Jul 21, 2014
Kunleskey: the best is to let go of him.. But, if a kind of woman like you later stick with him,, you will be doing it elsewhere.....true or yes ?
demand and supply
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by smudge2079(m): 11:47am On Jul 21, 2014
Mehnn, dis is bad, real bad, Michael jackson... Dats y i keep on telling people never to use dat word "luv" anyhow. Do u people really know d weight dat four letter word carries? Love endure all things. If she truly luv d guy, she will stick with him to d very end...
Ryt now d only person i am so sure i luv so much is me.
After all is said and done @OP, tell ur friend d butterfly is in her hands, she should do it as she likes.

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Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Kunleskey(m): 11:54am On Jul 21, 2014
Xtarxhyne: demand and supply
maybe
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by publicenemy(m): 12:36pm On Jul 21, 2014
Xtarxhyne: easier said dan done

Well thats what i will do. Becos will never stop thinkng about the possibility that she is havng an affair with someone else and t will kill me more becos i love her and its my fault.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by luvola(m): 1:06pm On Jul 21, 2014
Guys this is a food for thought. I repeat **** Never invest in a lady especially those poor ladies. I know of a brother in my hood that paid his ex gf tuition fee right from her day 1 in the poly only for the lady to tell him after her nysc that she cannot marry an illiterate husband.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jul 21, 2014
publicenemy:

Well thats what i will do. Becos will never stop thinkng about the possibility that she is havng an affair with someone else and t will kill me more becos i love her and its my fault.
lol....das tru sha
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jul 21, 2014
prologue: without or "temporarily out of service". What about if u were not able to conceive would he had thought of same about you? When a man spends his resources, which is a part of his life, fixing a gal, esp those from this part of the world, he is surely fetching water with a basket, in a snake infested pond. Not only will he not get water, but might not survive d bite.

You have a point dear...

Training a lady here is 50/50..
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jul 21, 2014
dahmie2013: OP haba naaaa! Have u 4gotten dere is God? Afterall d sacrifices he made 4 her, dis is d time 2 test her love 4 him. I'll say she shud marry him, what if dis happened after d wedding, she'll be thinking of divorcing him ba? There is nothing God cannot do, a guy dat did what ur parents cudnt do 4 u, don't u no he equally took a risk? Dis is d time 2 pray&not 2 be thinking of leaving. Ppl sha....Nywys, may God help dem.

Dry bones shall rise again..
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by thorpido(m): 2:10pm On Jul 21, 2014
luvola: Guys this is a food for thought. I repeat **** Never invest in a lady especially those poor ladies. I know of a brother in my hood that paid his ex gf tuition fee right from her day 1 in the poly only for the lady to tell him after her nysc that she cannot marry an illiterate husband.
I do not subscribe to the idea too.If you have to send a girl to school,marry her and let her go to school from your house.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by pickabeau1: 2:14pm On Jul 21, 2014
Endorsed.. This is a better option than adultery

MadCow1:


So na the accident!

Okay!

Tell her to run for her life. Simple.
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by obongtunji: 3:17pm On Jul 21, 2014
juntod:

Forget those fictions you see on TV. They are planned work. Have you ever seen anybody you know that benefited from those miracles?

I doubt if you even believe GOD exist
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by egopersonified(f): 4:50pm On Jul 21, 2014
Op, how about she marries him. Then they seek solutions together, be it traditional medicine or specialists abroad. While doing all these, they get sperm from the bank and ensure she gets pregnant within the first year so kids are not an issue. They buy intimacy gadgets and try out EVERYTHING possible, u can never tell, all he might need is more time to recuperate after the accident and hearing her mourn and scream can actually do wonders. Prayers would really help too.

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Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jul 21, 2014
egopersonified: Op, how about she marries him. Then they seek solutions together, be it traditional medicine or specialists abroad. While doing all these, they get sperm from the bank and ensure she gets pregnant within the first year so kids are not an issue. They buy intimacy gadgets and try out EVERYTHING possible, u can never tell, all he might need is more time to recuperate after the accident and hearing her mourn and scream can actually do wonders. Prayers would really help too.
see the advise you are giving your fellow woman
Re: HELP!!! Should I Marry A Guy Without Manhood? by egopersonified(f): 5:02pm On Jul 21, 2014
krall: see the advise you are giving your fellow woman

na your fellow men I go give advice before? If I say the opposite u will still say gold digger, abeg I wrote what my heart said not what my brain was screaming for.

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