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Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Dmentor(f): 7:59pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
I agree with you. What about irresponsible mothers, how should we treat them? There are many of them out there. It seems parenting is actually not meant for everyone. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Lucasbalo(m): 8:04pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
I am to my children what my father and mum was and is still to their 4 children . They gave the best moral education and the best education to us all abroad and we are all very successful in our different endeavors. Hopefully , our children will impart it into their children when that time comes for them . Proud of Dad and Mom. Hopefully , all young fathers will do good by their children. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: Like i said, No wonder you have issues with women. As for blaming women, since you are not in nigeria to know this happens, create time to come down here and see how women are blamed for everything. 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
oya where are d irresponsible fadas, show urself nd recieve ur deliverance 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:07pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I v put this thread in a simple way which touches what irresponsible fathers do in the family in Nigeria. It touches both monogamous & polygamous homes. It doesn't condemn polygamy as some people are thinking. Last Bullet I don't need to write it boldly that this is not against polygamy. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:08pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
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Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by pickabeau1: 8:11pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
OkikiOluwa1: Your write up was heartfelt n ok.. its the fact that its open to all forms of interpretations that's the issue |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Isn't that the same Nigeria where 3 out of 10 Nigerian men aren't the biological fathers of their children, Sophy Roc-a-fella? Let's talk about the irresponsible mothers/women in that country. 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: So simply because of that statistic, all women should be blamed for everything? |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: 3 out of 10 men is a good average It could be worse 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: So because of the few deadbeat dads in Nigeria, all Nigerian men should be blamed for everything? |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Lmao! Yet they still want to blame the men for being deadbeats - the life and times of promiscuous women. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: This thread is about irresponsible fathers. CREATE ANOTHER THREAD FOR IT. this thread isnt meant for you? Remember? 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: It's for me now. I just found my ammo and I'm loading my gun. You asked for the shooting match! |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: I think, everyone knows that there are also irresponsible mothers. Don't take it personally. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: And who is blaming the whole nigerian men for it? we are blaming irresponsible fathers and pointing out where they fail in their irresponsibilities. What is wrong with that? Are you planning to be one of them that you are so against this thread? i wonder why you are still here. 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:21pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I agree. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I'm not even taking it personally. I just think men need to start speaking up now, before we become the "new black." Almost everything favours women these days, yet these folks won't let us have peace of mind. It's always about them. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:23pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:The guy (SirShymmex) is just whyning you. 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: But you said earlier that the thread isnt for you and there is nothing here to learn so what are you still doing here? |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
OkikiOluwa1: And i am whyning him back. Come on! HE IS TAKING THE WHOLE ISH PERSONAL. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: Freedom of Speech for MEN |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I am amazed he is taking it personal. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: What do you mean by men speaking up? Have men in nigeria been oppressed? Wow! What a thought. 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: The beauty of every critique is when it's done based on critical analysis. With that, while blaming irresponsible fathers/men, you have to highlight why/how they became irresponsible, and also make sure you point out how some women can be irresponsible as well. However, when you start spouting the blame game laced with feminism tosh, then it becomes problematic. That's unacceptable to me as a man. Men are becoming too emasculated these days, and the trend has to stop. Let me cite an example from a next country(not Nigeria) that might be relevant here. There's a popular sport analyst on ESPN called, "Stephen A. Smith." Last week, while he speaking about domestic violence, he said, "I don't condone domestic violence, but women shouldn't engage in provocation." That was all he said before feminists and PC warriors got on his case. And despite apologising for what he said in a 4 mins video - he was suspended from work, for a week - just for saying the truth. That's unacceptable! |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by ayobase(m): 8:32pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1: interesting...... me hating? Nah! stop syh I don't need to hate on ladies when I am a product of one, and a soul mate of one. the men involved are not exceptions. remember, talk begat talk.......I quoted someone to buttress a point. okay, not every lady then. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:33pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Nah, I'm here to speak the truth! |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: It's not personal with me, Sophy Roc-a-fella. I just think also need to start sharing part of the blame. We're equal now, init? Equality for all. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Lucasbalo(m): 8:37pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex:Not really, what the OP is implying occurs in the western world too. Fathers irresponsibility has no boundary. It's a world wide occurrence . Kudos to Dads And Moms worldwide taking care of business . 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:38pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:He just called me a feminist sympathizer. He was even out of point by talking about western women. Last Bullet Is the western culture the same with Nigeria? Do Nigerian women v right like the western women? Don't mind the guy. 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
SirShymex: O.k. how does irresponsibility of a father have anything to do with a woman? do women control men to that extent? we are talking about NIGERIA. how do you wanna make your points when you know nothing about nigeria? |
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