Hourglass4real: Ladies and gentlemen, I need to know if there's anything wrong with such union. Does it affect the family or the kids in any form in the future? Are there disavantages to such union?

Your opinion is highly needed here. Let's discuss please, it will certainly help some people in making a serious life decision.Myself included...

Thanks!

Hourglass4real: Ladies and gentlemen, I need to know if there's anything wrong with such union. Does it affect the family or the kids in any form in the future? Are there disavantages to such union?

Your opinion is highly needed here. Let's discuss please, it will certainly help some people in making a serious life decision.Myself included...

Thanks!

Tundeiab: My dear you knew he wasn't a graduate but you said yes when he wooed you. You didn't have issues with his educational status when he was spending his hard earned money on you. You didn't mind him speaking pidgin English while climaxing on top of you while having s.ex. No he wants to reap his investment you are emphasizing educational disparity.
I wouldn't be surprise to learn that he saw you through school.
Chai! You matter dey God court.
Finito!

tempem:
What's your point? She needed your opinion, not you, judging her.. ...

kilokeys: ftc. space booked



hmmm. well, i believe in scorecards. and equity. if u feel u level up somehow then go for it..
by employing scorecards i mean,
for example,
Illiterate HIM
he is healthy ,fit - 1 point
he is responsible - 1point
no self esteem problems -1 point
business smart - 1point
rich - 1point
chivalrous - 1point.
open mindedness to learn - 1point
TOTAL = 7 points

Literate YOU
beautiful - 1point
submissive - 1point
Educated - 1point
home maker - 1point
responsible - 1point

total = 5 points

women naturally want somebody with a better standing than them. so they would submit easily.

so make sure his overall score surpasses urs. so u wouldnt have any issues with making him ur HUSBAND.

Tundeiab: My dear you knew he wasn't a graduate but you said yes when he wooed you. You didn't have issues with his educational status when he was spending his hard earned money on you. You didn't mind him speaking pidgin English while climaxing on top of you while having s.ex. No he wants to reap his investment you are emphasizing educational disparity.
I wouldn't be surprise to learn that he saw you through school.
Chai! You matter dey God court.

tempem:
What's your point? She needed your opinion, not you, judging her.. ...

Tundeiab: My dear you knew he wasn't a graduate but you said yes when he wooed you. You didn't have issues with his educational status when he was spending his hard earned money on you. You didn't mind him speaking pidgin English while climaxing on top of you while having s.ex. No he wants to reap his investment you are emphasizing educational disparity.
I wouldn't be surprise to learn that he saw you through school.
Chai! You matter dey God court.

JENMAUCY: Can youu people just stop the phrase "spending hard earn money on you" ? She asked a question that needs an answer. Tell me how many guys spend money on their girlfriends? Or how much do you guys spend on your girlfriends or fiancee? Please stick to the topic

Hourglass4real: @Tundeiab,na wa o... Wetin nau. I asked for ur opinion nau. I never said I wanted to dump any1. Besides there are times a very close friend proposes to a lady he didn't date.

It becomes an akward moment when u don't want to hurt this close friend whom u didn't date,who has been a very good friend for years.

This is not about chopping money o. I didn't chop anyone's money. I just want to knw if there's really anything wrong in marry such a friend and if it ever affects such families later in life...@all

Hourglass4real: hmmmmmm...u made an interesting contribution there.

You mentioned the self esteem thingy,I fear that might be present whether those involved admit it to each othr or not even if the man is smart and well to do.

I will also like to knw if it affects the kids later on somehow?

Coldfaya: That awkward moment when all the educated plus masters degree holders you meet don't have the qualities of your ideal man, but a not so educated man has all the qualities except education.

What am I tryn to say No one has it all. A few meet those who have all dey wish n want, but in most cases like someone above made an analysis, u just gotta weigh things up n if the not so educated guy makes u feel happier, go with it cos ur happiness matters a lot. U ain't leaving d life for others.

Hourglass4real: This is a good one. In other words what people may say or think shouldn't matter? The problm is, wht if d guy becomes insecure later nd begin to frustrate life out of u nko? I mean, it may seems not 2 matter@d moment. Wht if it later brings friction into d home?

Tmeey: Criteria for marriage: yellow popo, gap teeth, cooks gbegiri etc and MUST BE UNIVERSITY GRADUATE? aahhn my peepulu, the list is becoming too long nah...Lmao! Absolutely not, I dont think theres anything wrong with a graduate marrying a non graduate o.... well ofcourse only if both of you just havve to be scientist couple of the century, eheen I understand

Coldfaya:


Hmmmm my dear I feel self esteem is relative; it is not exclusively for the uneducated. Have met highly educated peeps with esteem issues. That's y its called a union, u help him where he's weak n him where u r weak. A wife has a lot to play in a way a man feels n carries himself. If u believe so much in him n show respect, u might b amazed at his self confidence outside.

Wish u d best.

JENMAUCY: even if you do collect things from him,I don't see anything wrong with it if you are not the demanding type.... To your question,there is nothing wrong with it,if the person doesn't feel intimidated and try to subdue you. Secondly, if the person is presentable, if u can proudly show him off to your coursemates, and his behaviour is what you desire or he possess some of what you want in a man,you can go on and marry him,It will have no effect on your kids in future..

Tmeey: Criteria for marriage: yellow popo, gap teeth, cooks gbegiri etc and MUST BE UNIVERSITY GRADUATE? aahhn my peepulu, the list is becoming too long nah...Lmao! Absolutely not, I dont think theres anything wrong with a graduate marrying a non graduate o.... well ofcourse only if both of you just havve to be scientist couple of the century, eheen I understand

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JENMAUCY: Can youu people just stop the phrase "spending hard earn money on you" ? She asked a question that needs an answer. Tell me how many guys spend money on their girlfriends? Or how much do you guys spend on your girlfriends or fiancee? Please stick to the topic

Hourglass4real: @Tundeiab,na wa o... Wetin nau. I asked for ur opinion nau. I never said I wanted to dump any1. Besides there are times a very close friend proposes to a lady he didn't date.

It becomes an awkward moment when u don't want to hurt this close friend whom u didn't date,who has been a very good friend for years.

This is not about chopping money o. I didn't chop anyone's money. I just want to knw if there's really anything wrong in marry such a friend and if it ever affects such families later in life...dats all

Hourglass4real: @Tundeiab,na wa o... Wetin nau. I asked for ur opinion nau. I never said I wanted to dump any1. Besides there are times a very close friend proposes to a lady he didn't date.

It becomes an awkward moment when u don't want to hurt this close friend whom u didn't date,who has been a very good friend for years.

This is not about chopping money o. I didn't chop anyone's money. I just want to knw if there's really anything wrong in marry such a friend and if it ever affects such families later in life...dats all

Tundeiab: My dear you knew he wasn't a graduate but you said yes when he wooed you. You didn't have issues with his educational status when he was spending his hard earned money on you. You didn't mind him speaking pidgin English while climaxing on top of you while having s.ex. No he wants to reap his investment you are emphasizing educational disparity.
I wouldn't be surprise to learn that he saw you through school.
Chai! You matter dey God court.
Finito!

justi4jesu:

And who told you he has spent his penny on her

Tundeiab: Follow your heart girl... Academic achievement is inconsequential. Is he satifies your other criterium. Husbands are hard to find o.
Don't want you to come running back to nairaland when you are 40 say you never marry o. Lol
Finito!

You dey mind them. I strongly believe the op has spent the poor dudes money and now she's forming self esteem nonsense.
Questions like this annoy me. If you don't want to marry don't marry, don't come here and be looking for cheap justification for your actions. That useless graduate that is deceiving you only wants to fuxkk you.

teeo:

You dey mind them. I strongly believe the op has spent the poor dudes money and now she's forming self esteem nonsense.
Questions like this annoy me. If you don't want to marry don't marry, don't come here and be looking for cheap justification for your actions. That useless graduate that is deceiving you only wants to fuxkk you.