I have always wondered why. Dating a married man is relatively safely for most single ladies, however men who date married women might end up losing their lives.Why is it so ? Lets hear your views.

None is safe just dat d consequence in datin a married woman happens faster than one can think.

its frowned on, not deadly.

dating a married man is also frowned on but people are often pig headed.

priest2u: I have always wondered why. Dating a married man is relatively safely for most single ladies, however men who date married women might end up losing their lives.Why is it so ? Lets hear your views.

Guy! He be like say you don dey eye one married woman ba?

My advise is that you should think before you leap.

It's dangerous for married women. It's not even good in the real sense of it..

If d woman is caught her own don finish wheras if its d man some ppl evn membas of d family wil tel u 'it doesnt mata' .........PS: OP who u dey eye

As our society permits married men to cheat na. Buh to be realistic, none iz good. Its easy for ladies to date married men cos they are MEN because they believe they are the head, they can do anything they like. God help WOMEN

....Dating a married man and woman is not good.....When dating a married woman, and the husband finds out....He try as much as possible to catch them red-handed....He then execute some plans which maybe disastrous in most cases......
....When dating a married man, and the wife finds out too....The highest thing she can do is too threaten the mistress....Although, some of these wives also try to catch their husbands red-handed which might also lead to some disastrous too....Wives of cheating husband try to save thwir already crumbling marriage, so they dont take any stupid steps than to ry and improve in their behaviour (most case)......husbands of cheating wives wont even try and save any marriage, it s crumbling already...they ll even complicate issues gansef

the husband fit pour acid on u

Tundeiab: Guy! He be like say you don dey eye one married woman ba?

My advise is that you should think before you leap.

I met a 22 yr beautiful young lady, didn't know she was newly married. We fell in love and started dating , I asked her about the ring on her finger she said she put it on to scare men. She was so pretty so I believed the lie The relationship ended when through a mutual friend I found that she was married and that her husband is in the same location. My friend attended the wedding. I've heard and seen young men being killed for dating other men's wife hence my question.

priest2u:
I met a 22 yr beautiful young lady, didn't know she was newly married. We fell in love and started dating , I asked her about the ring on her finger she said she put it on to scare men. She was so pretty so I believed the lie The relationship ended when through a mutual friend I found that she was married and that her husband is in the same location. My friend attended the wedding. I've heard and seen young men being killed for dating other men's wife hence my question.

I thought as much. I suggest you let her go. That's why ladies shouldn't get into marriage at a tender age. To me a 22 years old girl is too young to get married. It's also possible she was forced into marriage.

Run for your dear life bro, run!

"nothing is good or bad thinking makes it so"

What makes it seems easier for ladies is because men are somehow allowed to cheat and they protect the ladies in a way but a married woman offers no protection. You are on your own when you are caught.

My advice to guy is "Don't be very close to a married woman and if you notice that a married woman likes you then don't give her the chance to say it because they don't take "NO" for answer. They can go to any lenght to make sure they get what they want".

Don't date a woman that has no integrity. She is a cheat and you are probably not the only guy she is sleeping with. You might want to date her for fun but believe you me, it is hell if you eventually fall inlove with her. You will never know peace.

Nobody will sleep with a married person if we do put ourselves in their spouse's shoe.

Adultery is adultery. No gender attached.
Easier for a married man to start a new relationship afresh than a married woman, hence......

There's nothing bad about it! If a married lady offers me kpekus and i like her, i go chop. Abi d husband too no dey fear for im life? Capish!

An Alhaji caught a man sleeping with his wife,he told the man he would deal with him.

Anywhere the adulterous man goes,he smells like goat,horrible smell that people starts avoiding him.

It might sound like a movie,but its true.

Please,don't try it at all,a man's reaction to his adulterous wife is usually disastrous. its one of the shortest route to death.

Op it's a one way ticket to destruction.

Yes it is deadly for a woman because she stands the chance of losing her husband to divorce if caught. For a man,he will eventually not lose anything.

The reason is simply one word "MAGUN". A secondary school collegue of mine died of it when he slept with a married course mate of his in d univertsity.

I see no problem in that.

Date on!

MrsChima: I see no problem in that.

Date on!

I concur but let him write his final WILL and TESTAMENT in details....

smartchoice:

I concur but let him write his final WILL and TESTAMENT in details....

It is

berem: Yes it is deadly for a woman because she stands the chance of losing her husband to divorce if caught. For a man,he will eventually not lose anything.

Tallesty1: What makes it seems easier for ladies is because men are somehow allowed to cheat and they protect the ladies in a way but a married woman offers no protection. You are on your own when you are caught.

My advice to guy is "Don't be very close to a married woman and if you notice that a married woman likes you then don't give her the chance to say it because they don't take "NO" for answer. They can go to any lenght to make sure they get what they want".

Don't date a woman that has no integrity. She is a cheat and you are probably not the only guy she is sleeping with. You might want to date her for fun but believe you me, it is hell if you eventually fall inlove with her. You will never know peace.

Nobody will sleep with a married person if we do put ourselves in their spouse's shoe.

Word!!!

priest2u:
I met a 22 yr beautiful young lady, didn't know she was newly married. We fell in love and started dating , I asked her about the ring on her finger she said she put it on to scare men. She was so pretty so I believed the lie The relationship ended when through a mutual friend I found that she was married and that her husband is in the same location. My friend attended the wedding. I've heard and seen young men being killed for dating other men's wife hence my question.

This is funny and hard to believe,how would you date a woman and won't know she is married? How smart could she be? There must be signs you'd see that would definitely give her out unless you never paid attention.

lertee:
This is funny and hard to believe,how would you date a woman and won't know she is married? How smart could she be? There must be signs you'd see that would definitely give her out unless you never paid attention.

Sometimes you won't know at all...several guys have fallen into that mess before they realised that the woman in question is married.

priest2u:
I asked her about the ring on her finger she said she put it on to scare men. .

Bro, you shouldn't say something like this in public.

The lady was wearing a wedding ring, what else do you need to show she's married?

lertee:
This is funny and hard to believe,how would you date a woman and won't know she is married? How smart could she be? There must be signs you'd see that would definitely give her out unless you never paid attention.

She was even wearing a wedding ring yet he still chose to believe she was single.

Eyop:
Sometimes you won't know at all...several guys have fallen into that mess before they realised that the woman in question is married.

Well some women can be tricky,but I believe it is better she tells a potential boyfriend she's married than lie about it. A guy that would stay would still stay to flirt regardless of her marital status. although I still believe a smart guy would be able to tell if a woman is married esp after two or three dates.

Agreed.

Why is pennywise viewing the thread?

itstpia1: its frowned on, not deadly.

dating a married man is also frowned on but people are often pig headed.

It can be deadly in Nigeria. Sometimes even a helping hand from an old beau can be misinterpreted. So, its not just the act but also the perception. Most Gentlemen know well to avoid being caught up in murky situations like that no matter how seemingly convenient for those involved.