itstpia1: Agreed.

Why is pennywise viewing the thread?

Pennywise:

Because tpia is here

smartchoice:
Tpia, tpia1, itstpia, itstpia1, justsignedup, I bet this wench has more monikers than the color of a chameleon....

lertee:
Well some women can be tricky,but I believe it is better she tells a potential boyfriend she's married than lie about it. A guy that would stay would still stay to flirt regardless of her marital status. although I still believe a smart guy would be able to tell if a woman is married esp after two or three dates.

Pennywise:

It can be deadly in Nigeria. Sometimes even a helping hand from an old beau can be misinterpreted. So, its not just the act but also the perception. Most Gentlemen know well to avoid being caught up in murky situations like that no matter how seemingly convenient for those involved.

smartchoice:
Tpia, tpia1, itstpia, itstpia1, justsignedup, I bet this lady has more monikers than the color of a chameleon....

itstpia1:
The problem with using scare tactics when describing such is they do not explain why many are doing these "taboo" things with ease and none of the "repercussions" that are said to come with them. ( save perhaps the breakup of prior relationships).
I am not in any way supporting licentiousness but it is a fact some folks of either gender do prefer dating people who are actually married. The reasons for this are varied but they exist nonetheless. Its not only women who do it. ie take on married lovers.

Pennywise:

Pls leave her alone. She is mine. We go way back.

smartchoice:

left her already....

Eyop:
you now have priscaoge...morning Boss

smartchoice:

Morning Prisca ke? O ti oooo....kennygee lo wa ni parole lowolowo...omo to single and without fear of acid bath or magun...

priscaoge:
Now have who Smartchoice no mind Eyop jare Am heartbroken

smartchoice:

well considering the EVIL Eyop did to you the least I can offer you is a shoulder to cry on.....kpele.....just a ....to ride on!

Tundeiab: I thought as much. I suggest you let her go. That's why ladies shouldn't get into marriage at a tender age. To me a 22 years old girl is too young to get married. It's also possible she was forced into marriage.

Run for your dear life bro, run!

Kachisbarbie:
How is a 22yr old too young to get married?

Anyway to ur question @OP, none of them is good, but since it's a Mans' world, it's easier for men to cheat.
Pls keep avoiding her, adultery is a very grave sin. Maybe she doesn't love her husband, it's not about the age. It's the mindset, I was a lil yunga dan dat wen I got married, I still have men hitting on me till 'thy kingdom come'.

But, I use my head and respect my vows.

Kachisbarbie:
How is a 22yr old too young to get married? I wonder ooo..some even get married at the age of 18

Anyway to ur question @OP, none of them is good, but since it's a Mans' world, it's easier for men to cheat.
Pls keep avoiding her, adultery is a very grave sin. Maybe she doesn't love her husband, it's not about the age. It's the mindset, I was a lil yunga dan dat wen I got married, I still have men hitting on me till 'thy kingdom come'. Men will surely come but just keep avoiding them

But, I use my head and respect my vows.

smartchoice:


don't know if you are of an Eskimo origin.....but I still agree that 22 is too young to get married!....xcept for cradle-robbers!

smartchoice:

well considering the EVIL Eyop did to you the least I can offer you is a shoulder to cry on.....kpele.....just a ....to ride on!

Eyop:

Kachisbarbie:
I think 18yrs is the age one attains adulthood. So why would some1 who married 4yrs past dat age be a child?

Spare me that pls. @22 I was a graduate for 2yrs...so I knew my left from my right, couldn't imagine sum1 calling me a child.

smartchoice:

madam your craddle was robbed early....you would find out soon!