Am not an abusive type and I hate men that beat women with passion.
Yesterday something happened that baffled me and it is what inspired this post. I had a quarrel yesterday with my girl friend of 3 years now. To my greatest surprise what was a small quarrel turn into a serious one and she told me that it is over between us. One of her reasons being that she discovered I don't luv her because I don't beat her. Her quote "you have never slapped me talk more of beating me no matter what I do and I don't believe a man is ever that gentle, this attitude that you are pretending is a gentle man attitude is a pure proof of I don't care and that you don't truly luv me " I was speechless for a while till she left I couldn't utter a word. Now she isn't around I regretted not beating her mercilessly yesterday but the truth is that I don't want to have that spirit of beating a lady in me.
Please is it true that beating you girl friend or wife is a sure proof of love and interest in the lady cause am really confused right now?

you are doing the right thing

Something like this also happen to me, I want to hear people opinion

,...Waoh, dats weird......
...anyway, probably dats wah she was told while growing up.....
....buh on a serious note, you should show some emotions such as anger......if u are angry, show it...let her see some other side of you....
but if she has called it quit.....then maybe, its for the best.

solomonbrown64: ,...Waoh, dats weird......
...anyway, probably dats wah she was told while growing up.....
....buh on a serious note, you should show some emotions such as anger......if u are angry, show it...let her see some other side of you....
but if she has called it quit.....then maybe, its for the best.

When I get angry I do leave de house for her even thou we don't stay together and stay @ my Buddies place. When eva I come back she will demand were I went to cause I don't use to pick calls during dose period. Yesterday she said I use to go to my real girlfriends place wen eva we have quarrel dat y I don't pick calls.

satowind:
When I get angry I do leave de house for her even thou we don't stay together and stay @ my Buddies place. When eva I come back she will demand were I went to cause I don't use to pick calls during dose period. Yesterday she said I use to go to my real girlfriends place wen eva we have quarrel dat y I don't pick calls.

Bro, she is looking for excuses, why did she wait until now to bring up such trivial tales......she might be seeing sum1else...you said u have been together for 3yrs....and up til now she hasnt notice her skin has not been manhandled........
something is up jawe, she is just looking for excuses...

solomonbrown64:
Bro, she is looking for excuses, why did she wait until now to bring up such trivial tales......she might be seeing sum1else...you said u have been together for 3yrs....and up til now she hasnt notice her skin has not been manhandled........
something is up jawe, she is just looking for excuses...

That wat I tot too