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[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]so are you happy now that you have exposed your own mother to the whole world? bia, must your mother be a subject of discussion? i know wat she did was wrong, but must you treat her this way? na wa o, odikwa serious![/color][/size]

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]What wud you say if your husband is making plans to leave you for her, just like it's happening with most nollywood actresses? are you gon' to let him go knowing how desperate some women are these days that they don't mind being a second or even fifth wife?[/color][/size]

babysnogls: Never ever ever do dt! Only a cheap insecured lady would do dt.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]hmmm. i comment my reserve.[/color][/size]

chronique: I know of the binis & the ishans.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]chai! see wickedness![/color][/size]

chronique: Find out more info from elderly people who know the culture n tradition of the state very well. [size=14pt]That's why most Edo women,no matter how bad their husbands are,and how many wives he marries,still stay put in their homes when they marry.[/size]

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]oh, gud to know. so, chronique, na which part of Edo get this wicked tradition?[/color][/size]

dmcdad: No be all parts of edo state abeg ooooo

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]lol. fear they catch you? oh, so na Edo people get this kain tradition? them wicked no be small! can you imagine? most of their men will go as far as marrying 4 wives, but it becomes a taboo when the woman tries to find solace in the arms of another man. chai![/color][/size]

chronique: Hian Me protest what? Which day did they give birth to me? I should go & stand before the Oba of Benin & all the paramount rulers in Edo state & tell that my name is CHRONIQUE & I'm the only one that has gone to school.... Abeg,leave me where I dey o.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]and nobody is willing to abolish such archaic and barbaric tradition? oh, i get it. the men thinks it favours them, and any woman that rises against it, wud be termed as... complete the rest. [/color][/size]

chronique: The woman doesn't get killed o. It's just something that happens once she sleeps with a man that is not her husband/father of her child. It doesnt affect bf/gf stunts. It's not something that pple determine. It's been there for ages.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]you're so right! chronique, na you go start the protest.[/color][/size]

dmcdad: Its not even about including men. I think it's high time they abolished that balderdash!

It's gross...

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]in this case, wat if it's the guy that's making those "suggestive utterances?"[/color][/size]

sexkillz: [color=#000030]

If a girl approaches your boyfriend, she only makes suggestive utterances to him or she goes straight to the point. HE is the one that decides to read meaning into it, HE was the one that CHOSE to say yes, HE was the one that allowed her to have her way with him, HE HE HE!!!

Be the bigger person and do not embarass yourself confronting anyone Jare. . . Just thank whoever you worship for opening your eyes. . . [/color]

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]barbaric tradition, if you ask me.[/color][/size]

dmcdad: Na wa o. Una culture abi na tradition harsh ooo

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]that's so unfair to the women! how can a man get away with cheating, while the woman gets such a big punishment? on the other hand, don't you think a scorned woman might intentionally cheat on her cheating husband just to have him killed, since the consequence of her act will be the death of her hubby and not herself? abeg make una change that tradition to include the men also.[/color][/size]

chronique: Well,I dont know how it's done & why it doesn't work for the male folks. It's just a cultural/traditional thing.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]you bad ni[/color][/size]

LastApostle: Yea, I will confront the niggger with this:
''hey dude,I so enjoy that who.re,I keep shinning her walls unrepentant. If you eventually marry her, that's means I have the liberty of munching your wife torso for as long as I desire her. Wait a minute dude(my left hand inside of my pocket and right pointed at his face),that's reminds me, I have a new girl now and she is a VIRGIN and you can't touch her.(I will sing a tone and walk away).

If I don't get a fight,I have successful bruised his ego.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]you said where you come from it's forbidden for a wife to cheat on her hubby, that either her husband or kid might die as a result. so i ask, what happens to the man when he cheats on his wife? the consequence has to be balanced, don't you think?[/color][/size]

chronique: I never said that. You're the one saying it now & putting "huh?" @ the end.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]invariably u're saying it's the women that chases after the men and not the other way round?[/color][/size]

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Abegi, nothing like snatcher. Snatching does not exist!

What we have is an individual that CHOSE to betray your trust. Look here, that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean he/she is less desirable to other ladies/guys. There is no ring on "it!" As long as there is no ring on it, he/she is up for grabs, BUT only if he/she allows it.

If a girl approaches your boyfriend, she only makes suggestive utterances to him or she goes straight to the point. HE is the one that decides to read meaning into it, HE was the one that CHOSE to say yes, HE was the one that allowed her to have her way with him, HE HE HE!!!

Be the bigger person and do not embarass yourself confronting anyone Jare. . . Just thank whoever you worship for opening your eyes. . . [/color]

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]killer squad ke?[/color][/size]

ichidodo: bad idea. Send a killer squad instead.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]wat if the snatched refused to budge?[/color][/size]

Sirgen05: Confront the Snatched!

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]hmmm, no b small thing o![/color][/size]

kokosheen: I'm not sure you're married but if you're, Mehn you dey try oooo !

For me, if it were my GF, I wouldn't even sweat it!!! tired already

But my WIFE!!! heaven may come down

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]but it's accepted for the man to cheat, huh?[/color][/size]

chronique: Read my lips: "I CANNOT STAND MY WIFE/LADY SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN". Where I come from,it's forbidden for a married woman to cheat. The husband or child might die. If I'm married & she's cheating on me with my neighbour,that's bye-bye to d union. We're separating asap. Let's just say I've got a very big ego when it comes to things like that. I dont forgive cheating in a relationship.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]what if it's her husband?[/color][/size]

babysnogls: Never ever ever do dt! Only a cheap insecured lady would do dt.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]lol[/color][/size]

190-the-clown:
confront her with 3 jericans of acid

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]Is it right to confront who you think your other half/gf/bf is seeing or presumed to be seeing? In a relationship where one thinks the other is cheating, who should be confronted? The cheating spouse or the person they’re cheating with?[/color][/size]

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]lol[/color][/size]

Dondav: The f*ck u talking abt?... Thanks for ur advise though! Very helpful..

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]that cracked me up.[/color][/size]

dabrake: To think she'd been wearing her 'mary amaka' dresses all these while, . . . Upon sey we don marry you still wan dey wear okonjo-iweala cloth for our house. Deeper life people eh, . . .

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]Lol[/color][/size]

sonikstargirl: abeg i dnt ve tym 4 deeper life n thier mary amaka funny lookin dressin... Jst passin

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]in this era of fitted shirts? o boy change your wardrobe asap! no smart chick go look your way o![/color][/size]

steroid: She says I wear big shirts...

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]my response was based on the scenario. changing a staunch member of deeper-life's mode of dressing. is just like a man asking me to change my mode of dressing to that of MARY AMAKA. e no go work na.[/color][/size]

bukatyne: Compare your first and subsequent posts.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D] sorry, the emphasis is on DEEPER-LIFE COUPLE, not me, as i'm not a member. i know how to look real good, if that's all dat is required of me from a man, then i wud say he has no problem at all! [/color][/size]

geosegun: How old are yuo Sef?

Sorry I have never taken on anyone on NL b4, Sorry to say this, You don't seems to know wat you aer talking about[i][/i].
So as d husband, are u saying asking his wife to dress sexily at HOME so as to spice up the relationship is a sin? GOD!
You moust be joking, seriously u need to check yourself. Your comments so far, shows your low level of marital maturity.
THE WIFE IS AND YOU NEED PRAYERS. PRAY THAT GOD DELIVER YOU FROM IGNORANCE, RIGIDITY AND LACK OF MARITAL KNOWLEDGE.

As a man, if you dont give him what he wants at home then he will go somewhere else to get it and you will now run to NL and
start screaming that your husband is a serial cheater. Who caused it in the first place. You better stop decieving yourself and face reality.
and stop blaming God when your rigity backfires.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D] i'm not saying it's wrong. it's their doctrine we're talking about here. [/color][/size]

bukatyne: Wearing sexy clothes in the home is wrong? O boy, It's well! Each one to his own!

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D] you're so on point! [/color][/size]

tpia@:
he's also not man enough to move to another church, but wants to continue in deeper while secretly disagreeing with their doctrine.

sounds like he was faking all along.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D] in nigeria where people just turn up at your doorstep uninvited with the story "i was around your neighbourhood, i just thot i shud say hello". so wen she hears a knock on the door, she'd first run into the room to change b4 coming to answer? odikwa serious! [/color][/size]

JallowBah: And, as for visitors suddenly coming by..I guess it depends where you live. Where I was born, you never know if someone suddenly ring your doorbell. In the capital, no-one EVER does that.

[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]again, the emphasis is on DEEPER-LIFE COUPLE[/color][/size]

konn: IF SHE CAN MAKE LOVE WITH HIM BEING NAKED WHY CANT SHE WEAR BUM SHORT, DRESS SEXILY OR EVEN WALK ABOUT NAKED AT HOME? REMEMBER ADAM AND EVE WERE NAKED AND THEY WERE NOT ASHAMED.