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surveyProf: Breaking news, Chibuzor Ese placed on the wanted list of the FBI/EFCC/ICPC/NPF List, He should come out from his hideout and defend himself[size=20pt][color=#F535AA]hmmm wahala dey![/color][/size] |
View [size=20pt]Donziko's Profile[size=20pt]he was last seen this morning, how come he didn't comment on d issue? and why is his phone switched off? something is not just right.[/size] |
obiscolly: Just called donziko...he said he travelled and the place he's at right now the network is very bad so he couldn't log in to nairaland. But he hasn't received any alert on his phone yet.[size=20pt][color=#F87431]how are u sure it was donziko u spoke with? until he comes online, i no believe! moreover he didn't say he was travelling. pls ask him to try n come online 2moro, so we can be sure.[/color][/size] |
[size=20pt]i hope he's still alive.[/size] |
go for the second, if she has wat you're looking for in a woman. my brother, life is too short to live with a nagging wife. as for the desperate third, look for a way to end it b4 it's too late. |
bolof2000: The third seems to always talk about marriage and this is getting pissed off even though i know i want to settle down. But the situation when a woman always talk about the ring.thats hard to deal with.wetin you expect from a 26yr old? |
ChopUrMoni: True and false. Yes they do pursue those worth pursuing but they are not giving in their best. Even at church i hear the guys give up so easily. Regardless of whether she is virgin and a supermodel its seems like after a few attempts they give up. NOT ALL but a lot more than before! For example it is less likely that a man would pursue a woman for more than 1 year when during our parents and their parents time they pursued and waited for many years and didn't even get the chance to be intimate until they got married. Im not saying they don't but im saying it is difficult to find guys nowadays who do.you mean you expect a guy to pursue a lady for 1yr in this generation where 7 women are holding unto one man to marry them? if you see a man that has all the qualities you desire in a man, why play hard to get? wat if you loose him in the process? on the other hand, if a guy does not meet your standard, why waste his time? until we realize that not all relationships must end in marriage, we still have a long way to go, relationship-wise. |
190-the-clown:190 is at it again! |
Chai, laf don tear my bra! una wicked no be small! @op sorry o, na so this forum funny reach. to your problem, there're lots of stuffs in the market for him, just ask google. acidosis™: ronald2g1: u just lied bout dat, I don't snw buh I didn research for it, as a matter of fact snorin reduces heart related diseases such as heart attacks n not d opposite, go back to skul or beta yet use ur internet before comin here to form jetli@ronald2g1, I guess you didn't see the sarcasm in his post; where's your sense of humour, dude! |
to b honest, there's a bit of resemblance. |
Big Star: Hmmm. @Poster, From your words you said u went online to get his picture. How you come you are wearing the same clothe ooo?[size=20pt][color=#7E2217]PHO[/color][color=#41A317]TO[/color][color=#D4A017]SHOP[/color] [color=#F87431]THINGS............. [/color][/size] https://www.nairaland.com/1067372/how-good-know-photoshop |
http://lindaikeji..co.uk/2012/12/dear-lib-readers-i-want-my-husband-to.html#more chai! some women can be selfish o! |
I’ve been pregnant a handful of times. Once was a miscarriage. The others resulted in my family: four lovely healthy children for my husband and me. At my last check-up, my doctor asked me what my preferred method of birth control was. I told her my husband would be getting a vasectomy. I’ve been saying that every year since our baby was born. And our baby is now four years old. The facts are simple: my husband and I are in our mid-forties, and we feel our family is complete. I am not interested in complicating my hormones at this stage by going on the pill, nor do I feel it is necessary for me to undergo surgery in order to have my tubes tied. An IUD is not something I want to explore. I know everyone who has one loves it, but something about a piece of metal in my uterus creeps me out. Frankly, after giving birth four times, I think my body’s been through the ringer. I’ve done enough. It’s now up to my husband to be responsible for our birth control. And so he withdraws. Yes, I am one of “those” moms. This method has worked for us for years now. My husband’s argument that he’ll eventually get snipped, but doesn’t feel it’s urgent, sort of makes sense. Every year I badger him about it, even threatening to withhold sex. But that doesn’t serve either of us very well. His younger brother’s gone through it, as have many of our friends, and still he resists. He even makes an annual New Year’s resolution – but fails to even call for an appointment, let alone show up. He states we’ve been fine thus far. I know it hasn’t been a priority. He says he hasn’t had time. I say he’s petrified. He claims it’s me trying to control him. I claim it’s my way of keeping things under control. One thing I never say – ever – is the real reason I want him “fixed”: clearly I don’t want to have more children. But I don’t want him to have any. With me or anyone else. We’re both healthy and fit, and hopefully will continue to stay that way long into our old age. Not to be too morbid, but bad things happen to good people, right? Also, it’s never a forgone conclusion that we’ll be together forever, though it is my fervent hope. And if something happens to us – or to me – I don’t want him biologically parenting any more children. I’ve seen it happen: man moves on, has more kids, originals are kicked to the curb. Sounds extreme, I know, but I don’t want my husband putting any other kids above – or even on par with – our own. I know he loves our children dearly, but I secretly wonder if his love is strong enough – or fierce enough – to put them first if I were out of the picture. For now, I hope it is. And I’ll continue to push for that vasectomy, closing that chapter once and for all. Source |
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odikwa serious! as in your husband's agemate coming to live with you guys? hmmm no b small tin. abeg tell your brother to stay with a friend or get a small apartment for now until he's able to get a better one. pls she shud not even think of discussing it with her husband cos out of pity he might oblige even though he's not happy with it and also because he wudn't want to be labelled as a bad person b4 his inlaws. na wa for some people sha. i won't b surprise if he aproaches her husband himself. |
my dear, not all men are the same, is just unfortunate you're meeting the gold digging ones. don't cross marriage out of your mind, cos the right one will surely come. but till then, tie your money jeje, don't let them have a peak at it. we're making our own money, they shud go make theirs! |
he proposed and you accepted. yes na, that's the easiest way of getting into your pant. or you never hear? most men now propose to ladies in order to get into their pants, not that they actually want to marry them. when they get their fill, they look for an excuse to bail! my dear close your legs, since he has proposed, try to find out when the wedding is coming up, that way, you'd know where you stand. don't allow any man to use you to satisfy his se.xual urge. |
R2bees: wow, soon england go start eating our kpoff kpoff or akara..them get "kpoff kpoff", na akara remain. |
pleep: ok lady, I think what has happened here is you got older and now men are only interested in you because you have money.hehehe keep guessing, dude. the more you look, the less you see. don't tell me you've not been reading the news, bro. if you haven't, have you not been seeing similar threads on NL? |
joey4jo: Babe, knack your head for wall...hahaha i got you there. the truth hurts, but somehow we have to say it, bro! we now work for our own money, men should do same and stop looking for an easy prey to milk on. |
who said a man cannot be romantic and responsible? and why do we think all romantic men are irresponsible? no wonder we have unromantic men everywhere cos they associate romanticism with a player. men, women like romantic men. that you're responsible doesn't mean you should not be romantic. it's all about doing those things she loves and showing her how much you love her at every given opportunity. guys, pls look for an opportunity to create romance in your relationships; it adds flavour to it. |
I used to know women being the ones referred to as gold diggers. You know, when you see a commoner with a rich dude, people tend to say she's in it because of the money, but these days it baffles me how the table has turned. You see men going after rich women, not because of love, but because of what they could get from them. They milk you, and as soon as they're made, they take to their heels. Some even use your money to service their girl friends. And some if you end up marrying them, start misbehaving once they stand on their feet. and do you know what happens to most of such marriages? Your guess is as good as mine, they end up in divorce! It will surprise you to know up to 50%, yes you read right, 50% of homes would be in trouble if the wife isn’t working, cos for all I care, some men actually love their wives just because of what she could bring to the table. Or how do you explain a sudden change in a man that once professed undying love for his wife just because his wife stopped working? A case in point is that of Dejo Richard and Monalisa Chinda, when she stopped giving, problems ensued in her marriage, or is it that of Joseph Benjamin and his estranged wife? He stayed when things were tough, but bailed as soon as he hit the limelight. I could go on and on. So I ask, why has our men degenerated to such a level? |
dull colours. |
9ja'Blondie:why, if i may ask? |
dmcdad: There is nothing really bad about it. One just have to be very careful. Besides, married people (especially women) should be very careful how they go about using social networks. I think it's not really ideal in a marriage cuz it does more harm than good.so it's the women that shud be careful and not the men, huh? if you ask me, i'd say it's the men who shud be more careful cos they're the ones that are more prone to cheat. |
Heathen: Humans don't give birth to offspring with dreadlockssorry, but all the infants i've seen, all have dada. |
big nero: no ma, but when u give birth to a baby, and the hair is leaved untouched(washed, combed, shampooed etc) it turns to dadabut y? why in god's name wud a prophet order parents not to wash or comb their new born's hair? what if it gets infested with lice? |
yay it made front page! for those attributing these topics to my life, well i'd suggest you just read and contribute positively to the post and stop assuming things. this is a blog that strives for traffic, and if such topics as mine brings the traffic, then i'm happy. and for those who are not happy with these topics, i'm so sorry as i'm very sure there are people out there learning from them. now that i've gotten that outta my chest, pls let's go back to the topic, people! |

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