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coogar: love can fade........
one of them must have slacked in his/her responsibility!

yeah, i agree with you on the responsibility thing, but is that enough reason to stop loving one's spouse completely?

does such friendship put a strain on your present relationship?

as a married man/woman, is it ideal to have an ex as friend on facebook?

what comes to mind when you click that friend request button?

but wat wud make somebody that was once in love stop loving his/her spouse? it makes me wonder if the love ever existed.

HQ: . . .and then the Guy abandons her, and she posts on Nairaland seeking for help.

get creative and stop blabbing!

big nero: lol
nobody gives birth to Rastafarian babies, they give birth to natural haired babies and are told not to cut their hair

dada is now natural hair?

so it's been established, FWB doesn't lead to anything serious, why then do people engage in it, knowing the consequence of such relationship?

secondly, it's the women who gets hurt cos of their inability to separate their emotions from the act, so i ask, why do the men lead them on?

Ada Nri1: What's with you and Nigerian girls anyway? Or don't you have a sister? Ohh, I see! Your were not blessed with 1, hence the disrespect to the female folk

don't take him serious, he's only professing his love for 9ja babes.

coogar: •dating
•romance
•ferocious love-making

yes, but the other partner is not interested in the first 2. they only have se.x (i won't call it love-making) when they feel like it.

Area_boy: if you're trying to relate this to yourself directly, why not say it as it is and maybe u'll get better contributions


at title,

FWB is just what it is. day time friends and night time lover. Depends on what each party wants out of it, it very rarely does lead to something serious

Sorry, but must every topic raised have something to do with the poster's life? This thing happens, and is not out of place to know what people think about it.

190-the-clown:
yes it leads to untimely pregnancy especially amongst Nigerian girls

mischievous 190!

wat do you do to rekindle the love flame that once burned in your union when one partner falls out of love and seems not interested in your efforts in rebuilding the marriage?

what do you do wen you feel something for him/her and the feeling isn't returned?

none! i don't want gorilla-looking babies neither do i want to be a toy in the hands of one handsome playboy when he becomes somebody.
let him come back wen he can fend for himself, then we can talk.
GIRLS ARE NOT SMILING!

11. Men can urinate into a bottle, women cannot.

nah wa o! all this one so that my husband go always think of me?
Sorry, but without true love from the man, the wife is just wasting her time. all you've mentioned comes naturally wen the husband truly loves his wife.

HUSBANDS, IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY, LOVE YOUR WIFE. IT'S THAT SIMPLE!
is only a witch that will not submit to a loving and caring husband!

and wat makes u think a baby born in august was conceived in january?

Note: it works with your Lunar Age. Check it HERE

https://s1.postimage.org/3uslft9kf/chinese_calendar_page_1.jpg

wat you did was wrong. stopping the girl, yes, but your childhood friend? Nah! even if he said it, you shouldn't blame him. y in god's name shud she be visiting u upto the point of suspicion or does she prefer your company to that of her man? wud you welcome such if the reverse was to be the case? i'll advice you sever ties with her and make up with your friend.

yes, weakness is the right word! nothing wrong with being with a nice guy as long as his niceness does not denote weakness. be nice, but at the same time, be firm!

190: A Nigerian Girl can tear you to-pieces if you tell them the-truth

1) That they love money too much
2) 90% of them are fat and not good in bed
3) Why are they black unlike their white counterparts
4) They love blackberry,ice cream, suya more than their dowry


If you doubt this - ask any Nigerian girl close to-you about the-above mentioned
But be prepared 2b shred to-pieces so test at ur own risk

Lol. Thank God I belong to the 10%!

Loveangel: They do my dear,it's a norm in Nigeria society.most women believe it is a man's duty to provide all the time.my girlfriend is a banker and probably earns higher but yet she still yells for money like a wet p**sy yells for a d**ck.

So, wat does she do with her own money?

190-the-clown:
the quickest way a NIGERIAN GIRL can ever loose respect for you is when you STOP GIVING HER MONEY

true, only if the girl is jobless. i don't see the reason y a working class lady would depend on a man for money.

really dicey if you ask me. even if you dump your white wife, on wat ground wud you be filing for your nigerian wife? wife or sister? if it's the former, when were you two married? and when it turns out the time frame coincides with that of your foreign marriage, wud your bottom not get bursted considering you committed bigamy? you really need to think it through b4 taking any decision and while you're at it, don't forget child support. gud luck!

naturality: only a foolish man will do this. even if na my pikin nko? everybody has a duty to play and this is definitely not my own part

Typical. smh

Joagbaje: The answer is simply that they have many Nazarene prophecies . Just like Samson who was told not to cut his hair . So some parents receives prophecy that their baby will be Nazarite for 2 , 3,4 or five years. Some till whenever .

did you say some parents? all the c & s members i've seen, all gave birth to dada babies! are they descendants of samson? which kain nazarene prophecy b that one? if u ask me, i think it's weird!

U guys should free the dude jor! the bible says do not despise the day of little beginnings. would you rather have him take to robbery, kidnapping and all sorts of crime all in a bid to make ends meet? abeg make una leave the guy. if he comes to NL now to seek for help cos he cannot take care of his family, u will see all manner of advice, now he's trying to make a living the best way he could, some of you are here making mockery of him. ok he has the certificate, has it been putting food on his table since he left the banking job? yes, the job is risky, but life itself is also a risk. atleast with the job, he'll be able to take care of his family with his respect intact, or havn't you heard that finance is the number one cause of problems in most marriages? think guys!

I don't know why women will never learn. it's only 1% of such relationships that ends up happily. it's either the guy is marrying you out of pity considering all you did for him or he's just scared of karma!

see naw, you know what to do but decide not to because of the so called "benefits" you're getting.

i know as a woman we can be so blinded when we think we're in love, but that does not mean the person we're with should not deem it fit to tell us the truth, no matter how it hurts.
you've told her about the age difference and how you won't be ready in the next 5yrs? what if she decides to wait? can you picture what might happen in 5yrs if you decide to dump her for another?

guy, i'll advice you stop leading her on and tell her your feelings now before she takes you to the land of no return! i believe there's a reason why you made mention of her origin.
make hay while the sun shines!

I keep wondering why.

acidosis™:
Your last statement is not complete, my dear..
Here is the complete version
...as for me, I won't give, I'll keep asking begging

lol. my dear, i'm not in support of a woman spending her money on boyfriend. u're free to spend but please don't cry foul tomorrow wen the relationship ends, cos most women will start counting how they invested their money on the man and how he left them for another. so my advice is, always have an open mind wen spending and not think you're investing on your future spouse.

give only because you're helping a brother not because you're investing in your future together.
men appreciate it wen they're the ones giving, not the other way round.
as for me, i won't give!

coogar: hilarious.......
send texts to your contacts that what happened?

just to bring me down b4 my friends. i c something no be small.
if i tell you my life history with that man, you will make so much money making a movie out of it.