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[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]overzealous, you say? if doing those things are ok, why then is she confused? did i hear you say they cudn't discuss it during courtship cos of pastors wives? how cud he wen he already had his plans of changing her, mapped out. is not just changing her looks at home, he shud also consider changing her looks outside. I mean, why go out with your husband looking like MARY AMAKA, while he's busy lusting after that sexy chick at the corner.[/color][/size] bukatyne: ARe you for real? It's overzealous non understanding people like you that cause problems for yourselves and run helter skelter. So the wife should dress the way she dresses outside at home? Is the man asking her to wear those stuffs outside? What is the Church's business with how she dresses at home? I wouldn't be surprised if she refuses to kiss him in the bedroom because she can't kiss him outside! My dear, married couples use wisdom to build thier homes and not pull it down. I'M sure they couldn't discuss all these because pastor's wife and co were with them all through their courtship. The woman should better Dust herself up and make her hubby come to her everyday. Even muslim women who cover up still discuss they must look sexy for their husbands. Read 1Cor 7 and see where Paul said a married man/woman works to please his/her spouse. |
[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]What has being a nigerian got to do with anything?[/color][/size] holy sina: Were are you from! Definitely not a Nigeria!!! |
![]() Abagworo: Are you trying to say that they should bath and make love with their clothes on? |
[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]the emphasis is on DEEPER-LIFE COUPLE[/color][/size] jadajada: and what's bad if a couple watch p0rn? They need dynamism in d act. U 4 even say mak dem no dey intimate @ all |
[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]I'm not against a married woman puting on sexy clothes. the point here is their doctrine. deeper-life members have principles when it comes to looks (mary amaka) which i know wat the hubby is requesting from her is not part of, hence the confusion. if you ask me, i think he needs prayers cos from all indications, he's lusting after someone. [/color][/size] switdick: I've been reading through this thread and I couldn't help but call a halt to my reading as soon as I saw that !.....peeps tend to take things so seriously when not necessary and less serious when necessary,...please how is dressing to the taste of her husband a bad thing like provocative" as you say ? |
[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]there are other ways she can dress and still look good. it mustn't be provocative. before you know it, he'd want them to watch p0rn together. that man no be deeper life born again. i think he only feigned born-againsm just to get her.[/color][/size] |
[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]if i were to be in his wife's shoes, i won't! that man is not a true deeper life member, cos we all know how they dress. asking his wife to dress provocatively at home will mean living in deceit cos she'll always be on her toes so no visitor sees her wearing such. moreover, why dress like a whoar at home and look holy holy outside? who are you deceiving?[/color][/size] |
[size=14pt][color=#E3319D]na wa o! wen i talk naw, e go be like say i talk too much. you mean you never believed in wat he believes in, yet you dated him for 4 good years? and wat is it that he worships, that you can't worship? or is there a drum beating somewhere that made you realize after 4 years you can no longer be with him? sometimes we're just the architect of our own problems. in future wen things starts going wrong in your new relationship, you'd blame it on witches, forgetting how you dumped someone that did you no wrong. my dear i'll advice you watch it, cos karma is forever an unrepentant bltch![/color][/size] |
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https://s9.postimage.org/z1hbh9atb/The_suspects1_360x270.jpg The suspects The police in Lagos State have arrested a 27-year-old housemaid, Mariam Acheme, and four others for allegedly robbing the housemaid’s boss. According to police authorities, the housemaid, invited her boyfriend, Dansu Akokran, and another person at large to rob her boss and also stage her own kidnap. The Police Public Relations Officer of the state command, Ngozi Braide, said, “On November 26, 2012, the housemaid invited her boyfriend to her boss’ house when the madam had gone out. On getting to the house, the boyfriend and another person ransacked the entire house. “They vandalised the doors and also stole all the valuables. The housemaid then padlocked the gate from outside and fled with them.” PUNCH Metro learnt that when the owner of the house arrived, she discovered that all her valuables were gone and Acheme was nowhere to be found. The victim was said to have immediately reported the matter to the Bode Thomas Police Division. Braide said a few days later, someone contacted the housemaid’s boss and informed her that Acheme had been kidnapped. She said the woman returned to the police and informed them of the development. Braide said, “The madam told the police that some men called and said they had kidnapped the housemaid. The men asked for N5m and said if the money was not paid, they would not release her. The housemaid spoke to her ‘madam’ on the phone, crying and telling her that she was being tortured by the kidnappers and urged her boss to pay the ransom immediately. “The Divisional Police Officer, Bode Ojajuni, immediately swung into action. Detectives at the station were able to establish contact with the kidnappers and urged them to collect N1m. The kidnappers then sent a bank account number which the money should be paid into.” It was learnt that the account number belonged to one Prosper Tatou, a bricklayer. Through the bank account number, policemen traced the owner to Agbara area of Ogun State and accosted him. A close police source, who craved anonymity, said Tatou led the police to the hideout of the other suspects. He said, “Tatou said he knew nothing about any kidnap but told us that a few days earlier, his brother, Jean Mari, had asked him to send his bank account number because he needed to receive some money from someone. “Tatou then led us to a deserted building where his brother lives. At the house, we were able to arrest those who masterminded the purported kidnap.” Detectives were however shocked when they saw the housemaid in the compound. “That was when we discovered that she connived with her boyfriend to commit the crime,” the police source said. Acheme however denied conniving with the kidnappers. She said although she had invited her boyfriend to come and visit her when the incident occurred, she had no clue of his intentions. “I invited my boyfriend (Dansu) to come and visit me at the house when my madam had gone out. When he arrived, he came with another guy and both of them pushed me into the toilet and locked me there. They stole all my madam’s things and then kidnapped me,” she said. When asked why she did not escape from the purported kidnappers’ den when she had the chance, she said, “I could not escape because I did not know the terrain.” She added, “My boss was very nice to me. She paid me N12, 000 a month and I had worked with her for seven months and she never maltreated me. “She has two grown-up children and they even give me tip when I do their laundry. I could not have repaid their kindness with wickedness.” Dansu also claimed to be innocent, saying it was his friend, Femi, who is now at large, that planned the whole thing. The PPRO seized the opportunity to warn employers of domestic servants to be wary of the people they hire, noting that cases of crimes being committed by domestic servants seem to be on the rise. The PPRO noted that the suspects were all nationals of Benin Republic and said it was necessary for employers to register their domestic servants at the nearest police stations. Source |
ha ha ha... i laugh in chinese. when a man is hopelessly in love with his wife, his family says he's under a spell because they can't penetrate and control the man against his wife. but wen the man is misbehaving, this same family will look for all manner of excuse to justify his actions in order to make the woman stay and take every shlt that comes her way; and wen she gets tired of his shlt and revolts, na them go shout "KILL AM!" mind your business and let them enjoy their marriage. ok, you that is trying to put asunder, have you tried praying for them so they cud have kids? dude, i'll advice you park one side abeg. |
drpompay: They never broke up. They were still meeting though with condom. He even worked her nysc posting to his state and was still committed to her just as she was committed to him. The only p was that no further progress in marriage talks. But now she is not even admitting doin anything wrong They never broke up.Did you say they never broke up? Are you forgetting so soon how he asked her to move on pending his HIV status confirmation? They were still meeting though with condom.You guys were just friends with benefit since that statement “if she can't wait (for 15 months) she should move on with her life” was never retracted. And moreover, you stopped talking marriage. The only p was that no further progress in marriage talks.And you expected her to wait forever? If at all she did what you accused her of, then I’d say you pushed her since you were not fully committed to the relationship. pls free the babe and enjoy your marriage! |
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Men, una no go cease to amaze me! Hear yourself: He had ladies falling for him with whom he would have easily played with, but most times she gets to know of it b4 it materialized.[color=#FF0000]Story! So he never cheated on her?[/color] then d guy while @ work pricked himself with a needle of an HIV positive patient. He then told his fiancee and did HIV test that was negative.[color=#FF0000]She believed you (even though i doubt this), why then do you find it so hard to believe her?[/color] So he told the girl that the marriage plans will be on hold till he confirms he is negative or if she can't wait she should move on with her life.[color=#FF0000]Why tell a girl you claim to love to move on cos of an accident? I put it to you that you also had your options open, hence that statement.[/color] But the guy did not go back for d confirmatory test for 15months.[color=#FF0000]If truly your reason for putting the marriage plans on hold was to ascertain your HIV status, why den did you leave the confirmatory test for that long? Are you sure you truly pricked yourself with that needle? Or it’s just a cooked up story to put the plans on hold?[/color] He later called it quit Dec 24th 2011 and on 31st Dec 2011 he summoned courage to go for d HIV test, which was negative,[color=#FF0000]Wat was his reasons for calling it quit? And why did he decide to go for the test after he ended the relationship?[/color] he summoned courage to go for d HIV test, which was negative, with a joyful heart he called his lady to tell her d good news[color=#FF0000]the same lady he called it quit with a week ago? he's even more confused than i thought![/color] Just abt a month plus into d marriage, he picks his wife's phone to help her delete some scam messages,[color=#FF0000]Help her delete scam messages, you say or to check for something else? Just a month plus, and he’s already suspecting his wife. Na wa o![/color] [color=#FF0000]You sef you seem to know too much about this couple, or are you saying the man in question is a baby-husband that finds pleasure in discussing his wife with the public?[/color] |
me, i nor understand you o! it seems your story isn't complete. you're both AA and child AS, and you cannot do DNA cos of cost and what you were told. how then do you ascertain the child's paternity? I never told anybody about the test result but she broadcast it by herself, and she intentionally packed her load out of my house.is she saying you lied about your genotype, hence her leaving? or she left out of guilt? What do you think i should do concerning the child as i still love the boy?the same child you doubt his paternity, who makes you feel bad as if you're wasting your time? your mind is already telling you the child isn't yours. until a DNA test confirms otherwise, you'll continue to see your wife as a cheat. so, do the needful. |
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for me i will never forget GUILTY PLEASURE GAMES WOMEN PLAY ORANGE GROOVE |
3kay945: Be patient, it might be network issue. or should we compose speech for himok o, but my patience has ran out a long time ago! |
donziko: guys am not DEAD OHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!![size=18pt][color=#AF7817]glad to know, but that's not all we want to hear! [/color][/size] |
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[size=20pt]@GBOLADE, wat do you have to say concerning SUPER1759's findings?[/size] |
congrats dude! |
mrkels: Abeg I don tire to read , abah since morning before I go church, the page was 20, now na 38, abeg aneg...you got me cracking at the bolded. |
all this becos of one babe? i know it's difficult, but i'll advice u forget her. it's obvious she's only in the relationship for selfish reasons. at least you take care of her in your own little way, so i don't see why there shud be problem there. you're not an ATM, she shud go and work since money is her problem. pls be happy things turned out this way, cos a lady like her wud jump into the arms of any available guy in future if you find yourself in any financial mess. chin up, it's only a matter of time and you'll be fine. |
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