new2020: Another feminist thread. What about women stop provoking men? I have seen a tall built woman beat up her short average built husband only to watch fellow women laugh like it's funny...I had to come to his rescue. No man wakes up in the morning wanting to beat up his woman or any woman; 99% of cases are provoked. Stop getting in his face, blocking the door when he is humbly and peacefully trying to escape beating you. There was an incident where a man called police that his wife was assaulting him, the police laughed at him. Don't hit, and we won't hit back.

On a side note, they are women who enjoy being beatened in the form of sex$ual gratification...they get orga$sm from it. Most women will never admit this openly but covertly, they crave it and get off from it.

Sagamite:

Cretinous person, you are still advocating your wife-battery philosophy?

naturally: Seconded, real men don't even fight fellow men talk more of beating a woman

new2020:

On a side note, they are women who enjoy being beatened in the form of sex$ual gratification...they get orga$sm from it. Most women will never admit this openly but covertly, they crave it and get off from it.

stagger:

Women are "weaker vessels", meaning that physically, they are not built to take certain kinds of physical stress, which is why their skin is softer and more delicate. They are not "lesser beings".

Your dad may not have been beating your mum physically, but was he treating her like a foot mat? That could even be worse than a physical beat-down. And it also shows the kind of mentality you have to call women Lesser Beings.

Nwogbe: Experience is the best teacher. I don't in anyway condone a man beating up a woman but I have seen a case where no matter how hard the man tried to walk away during a quarrel wit d wife, the woman refused to allow him getout from the room. She locked d door and hide d key where the man couldnt find it and insist that d hubby most beat her 2day. She won't allow the man get out neither will she let him alone inside d room as she will be constantly hitting him real hard. In such a scenario what other option is left for the man?

butanep: Real Men should not raise their hands on a woman not only their wife or lovers. Beating a woman is not the best way to resolve any dispute or crisis.
I know some women are very rude, raw and can't control their mouth but the best way is to avoid them or simply talking sense into their ears than to raise your hands on them. Some women push their husband or spouse to the wall to lay hands on them... Women please stop struggling or feeling too big on him...
I will never support any man that beat up a woman, be it spouse or friend or sister. They re weaker vessel and ought not to be beaten up.... Lover her, cherish her and draw her closer. ..

all4naija: Only a primitive man would find it interesting to beat his wife!Don't you ever come close to me if you beat your wife!

ddippset: what would you do if you got back home from a hard day's work and found out that your wife ate your dinner?

dandydaniels: I am proud of my dad....

women are lesser beings(fact)....why waste your strength and time beating them? bro c'mon! they are made to be loved...to be bought clothes...jewelries...cars...taken to cool places...pampered...and at night made to sing in tongues to their creator

for the real men out there...let's control our tempers and treat every woman...not just our wives with respect. when it comes to women
affairs,my dad is my role model. " never beat a woman son"


In as much as i dont support beating a woman... I do not think they are lesser beings. You'd be amazed at the strenght of a woman when you get close and personal. I like them and hate any man that beats his woman... There are ways to make it work. But beating a woman is a no-no for me...

Btw.. I am also proud of my dad... He thought me so... And God rest his soul!

STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

50calibre:

Lol that's nothing!!

My uncles ex wife used to douse him with water whenever he returns late.

At times, whenever she's angry for whatever reason, she picks up a bucket of water, heads over to where he's sitting or lying and douse him with it, ice bucket challenge style.

Sometimes when he travels, she changes the keys/locks, upon his return, he finds himself locked outside & stranded.

These are just a few, they're not hearsay, I saw with my eyes.

50calibre:

Loooool this funny talk only exposes you naivety.

I don't think you've had much experiences with women, it's apparent from the way you talk. You think life is like movie, draw her closer bla bla bla Lool

Pray you don't meet women who will push you to the edge. What women lack in physical strength, they more than make up for in their ability to annoy and irritate, it's a natural gift.

Everybody had a breaking point, it's a matter of who & what will find it.

I can't rule out beating up a female, I don't want to, I don't pray to, but I will if I have to.

dandydaniels: bro c'mon! they are made to be loved...to be bought clothes...jewelries...cars...taken to cool places...pampered...and at night made to sing in tongues to their creator

Daresh:

Is Ngozi Okonjo Iweala a lesser being to her security guard?

Is Marissa Mayer a lesser being to the mail man?

That term lesser being reminds me of how white people termed blacks and chinese lesser beings.

Change your mentality, God created us all equal.

ddippset: lol, no be small thing o! overall i think its just a misuse of words. a man who beats his wife is NOT a coward, rather he is an aggressor or a beast. there is nothing cowardly in beating up a woman. its just a cliche people like to use. a man who can tolerate an abusive, insolent, disrespectful, nagging and confrontational wife by ignoring her, and walking out is what you can a gentle man. a perfect gentleman.

dabriggs: Women aren't lesser beings. Please.
The society and nature has placed a great role on them. The carrying,bringing to bear the young of the human specie and nurturing of the young. That is no small role. As a matter of fact their role is as important to that of a man's. If not more important. As a matter of fact men behave better when they have a woman in their midst. There are things women can stand that men can never stand. Ever. And I am not even talking about child bearing yet.
When you seek a woman as a mate or partner you seek a good strong one who will teach your kids morals. They hold the family together, The family which is the main fabric of the society and a nation. It is childish that people jump to this conclusion just because women are not allowed to lift heavy stuff and climb trees like men and do strenuous stuff like men therefore turn out to be weaker physically. Physically weak doesn't imply being lesser beings. And physical weakness is because of how the society has placed limitation on them.
In certain tribes all women are warriors and they will fight and kill you if it came to that. Please let us stop this wrong notion. These are the thins that make them lazy and fail in the homes. Every human deserves care. Male and female. That you buy her a perfume and take her on romantic candle light dinners does not make her weak and make you strong. Infact at that moment you (the man) are at your weakest.

ddippset: what would you do if you got back home from a hard day's work and found out that your wife ate your dinner?

ddippset: what would you do if you got back home from a hard day's work and found out that your wife ate your dinner?

50calibre:

And for how long are you going to continue doing this? Some of these women have lost their soul, doing this is only going to encourage them to get increasingly confrontational.

You've not seen situations where as you're walking out, she's walking out with you, yelling and cursing?

This tactic only works for reasonable women who feel remorse thereafter, it doesn't work for a mad dog, in fact it makes things worse.

I know there are a few nice women who still endure beatings from their husbands for no justifiable reason, these men are the sick ones & should be punished.

However a woman has got to be seriously deluded to think she can continue to aggravate me without painful consequences.

butanep: I have been pushed to the wall several times in the past... I was having this hot tempered girlfriend in the past. One day we had an argument abt the TV station to watch, so I was trying to cool her down, the next thing I observed was a lamp right to my faced... I was lifeless for some seconds, when I gain consciousness, I saw my blood on the floor. I beat her up that evening that she lost one tooth. I still later apologized but up till today, I regret even beating her despite what she did... I swore never to raise my hand on a woman again... it's never the best option...

all4naija:
I would look for ways to get another dinner. Possibly buying another one would make sense. Food is a petty thing to beat your wife over! Jeez! That looks primitive to me.

NeuroBoss: Babygal4eva: I speak all of these languages fluently but Igbo which I speak sparingly and seriously learning.

Comment as-tu pu apprendre le français? Tu as séjournée à l'étrangère?

¿Y español tambien? ¿Donde lo apprendiste?

redsun:



Shioo! You mean that will be enough to beat the hell out of her like a nuaghty dog that ate his master's meat? What happens to making a quick fix or buying a take away?

Violence is a part and parcel of Nigerian code of conduct,until it is shunned officially,it will remain a part of our domestic affairs. The child that was rigourously beaten yesterday will grow up to become an adult that believes in settling scores with beating like his/her role models thought him/her. It is a vicious circle.

KAYD007: Real man don't beat a woman ma azz...aside my mother or sisters,hmmm, provoke me and you will behold the 8 stars of the heavens as they transcend the galaxy....get physical with me...the velocity of serena williams backhand stroke should reset you to default self while your brain is reeling in its cranium like a cocroach that has been broomed stick...a follow up of 7.1 richer scale magnitude of a maria sharapova fore hand smash...which will send urine licking down from your in between..if you still on your feet, a jet li kick to the chest or better still a two footed john terry tackle should put you to a sound peaceful sleep with eyes wide open and your tongue sticking out like a roasted goat!