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A Very Important Question For All Ladies by contactmorak: 12:51pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Ladies I want to ask you a question I know that many Nairaland ladies will not be happy with me for bringing up this issue because they know it is the truth. I have a friend who has like 7 girlfriends he is been dating for like 5-6years now. This dude has managed to do it in such a way that he is never been caught cheating by any of these ladies. Shockingly, these ladies come to his apartment to cook for him at different times and even wash his cloths and clean his house. Because they've been with him for a while, the ladies usually refer to him as their fiance and my friend too whenever we were together and any of the lady was around, he addressed them as his fiancee. If you weren't close to these dude like we his friends, you wouldn't know he was just deceiving these ladies. He was only serious with one of them who just finished from medical school and we his friends know this. He doesn't joke with this one and has often risked his life to meet her in while she was undergoing her NYSC in Porthacourt. My friend got married last weekend to this girl without letting the other ladies know. He didn't announce it at all, and warned us not to mention it on social media. He got mad with a friend who use the prewedding photo on bbm, the guy immediately removed it and he was still furious at him until the wedding day. Now the other ladies have finally heard abt it and they are really angry with us cursing all his friends. I heard atleast 3 of them that I know have been inconsolable. My friends has been receiving all sorts of text and calls from these ladies. Ladies, are u in a relationship with a guy that is 'crazy' about you and sacrificing a lot to be with you. Or are you in a relationship with a guy that you are crazy about and sacrificing a lot to be with him, even though you know somewhere deep in your heart that he is not really committed but just tolerating you to be with him and it's you that is serious about it all because u are madly in love, perhaps because you are scared to be single again, or because he has the look and personality you want in a guy. Why I'm asking this is that, many ladies are calling a guy their fiance, but the guy doesn't see them in the picture of his future at all! Yet, these ladies continue to turn down many (probably serious) guys who approach them, just because they think they have a fiance. Now, my rough statistic is this, 4 out of 10 ladies who are claiming to have a fiance right now, will probably end up disappointed sooner or later because the d guys, like I said, doesn't see them in the picture of their future at all. What do you think about this? Maybe you should go and reassess that guy you claim to be engaged to. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by patholaw: 1:01pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
@Op better go and put on your helmet b4 dem ladies start bashing u... 2 Likes |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by contactmorak: 1:08pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
patholaw: @Op better go and put on your helmet b4 dem ladies start bashing u...And I warned my friend to desist from promising them o. I really understand why the ladies shud be mad having invest so much into the relationship. Imagine, they'll buy foodstuff and bring it to the house to cook for all of us. |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by onstelly(f): 1:16pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
KARMA go visit soon visit that your friend 3 Likes |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by lukedan75(m): 1:19pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
contactmorak: And I warned my friend to desist from promising them o. I really understand why the ladies shud be mad having invest so much into the relationship. Imagine, they'll buy foodstuff and bring it to the house to cook for all of us.thats a serious case oooo |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by lukedan75(m): 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
d guy shouldnt have done that...........its really heart breaking and painful 1 Like |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Akeelahtunez(m): 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly: KARMA go visit soon visit that your friend Wat is dis1 saying?? Its obvious dat d stupid 1ce are does ladies 1 Like |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by onstelly(f): 1:25pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Akeelahtunez:I can't remember talking to you 1 Like |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by omotolatoyosi(f): 1:27pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Dat guy is a fool,I know some reasonable guys dat wud hit d nail on d head to any galfrnd dey know dey are not goin to end up with,why can't he be reasonable nd call dem off,it mite hurt bt at least dey wud appreciate his sincerity,he wasted dea time,energy,body,money etc,I swear d guy won't go unpunished I jst pity d innocent gal he married dats gonna suffer wit him wen it bounces on him...I also don't support gals investin so much in a guy dat dosnt hold dem like a pinch of salt bt d guy shud av bin more reasonable. 3 Likes |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly: KARMA go visit soon visit that your friendkamal is a name of person , animal , place or thing ? |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by onstelly(f): 1:32pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
donroxy: kamal is a name of person , animal , place or thing ?Hahahaha ask the OP he knows |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
omotolatoyosi: Dat guy is a fool,I know some reasonable guys dat wud hit d nail on d head to any galfrnd dey know dey are not goin to end up with,why can't he be reasonable nd call dem off,it mite hurt bt at least dey wud appreciate his sincerity,he wasted dea time,energy,body,money etc,I swear d guy won't go unpunished I jst pity d innocent gal he married dats gonna suffer wit him wen it bounces on him...I also don't support gals investin so much in a guy dat dosnt hold dem like a pinch of salt bt d guy shud av bin more reasonable.see vex o |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:39pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly:Op committed no kamal crime but only reported a case |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:42pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
All i know is that Relationship is a game. Its either u come out as the winner or d loser. Just be smart. Know the rules. You lose some..., You gain some. Moreover, i dnt see any reason why i shld believe and trust a man like 100%. 2 Likes |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Akeelahtunez(m): 1:43pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly: Ma don't bring karma into dis issue,its sentimental. Does gal were taken 4 a foggy ride..its dere fault u shd always b ready 2 read Btw d lines & stop been carried away by ecstasy |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by EJanni(f): 1:44pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
But does it really make sense? Since a guy knows that he will not marry a particular lady why engage her in a fake relationship in the first place? Sometimes men make women to be bad. For your friend? He is not free yet. His day is coming. |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Akeelahtunez(m): 1:44pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly: Ma don't bring karma into dis issue,its sentimental. Does gals were taken 4 a foggy ride..its dere fault. u shd always b ready 2 read Btw d lines & stop been carried away by ecstasy |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:45pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I no go pity them, am single just because every lady I have interested on are already taken, they tell me they bf or fiance.I dey wait the day one go con tel me say her bf cheat on her 2 Likes |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by onstelly(f): 1:45pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
donroxy: Op committed no kamal crime but only reported a caseI know oh and I never said he did |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:46pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I never forget say one mod go still hear am |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly: KARMA go visit soon visit that your friendno be only karma |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by valmunich(m): 1:51pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
That guy na real player oh, pls my guy, help me ask this your friend... If there will be any space for me as a student 1 Like |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly:so, u receiving the same treatment from your dude ? |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by marquiseT(f): 1:56pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
@ OP so the person to blame is not the guy that dates 6 girls at a time but the girls, Really! Some guys are just a**hole...where does he expect them to start from But the guy na smart guy sha @ OP so the person to blame is not the guy that dates 6 girls at a time but the girls, Really! Some guys are just a**hole...where does he expect them to start from But the guy na smart guy sha 1 Like |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 1:59pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Your friend was just plain childish and silly. A real man would have called the ladies and end things maturely with them. I'm quite sure his wife isn't even aware of the other six ladies. I sha pity her, that marriage is just built on lies. |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by onstelly(f): 1:59pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
donroxy: so, u receiving the same treatment from your dude ?Nope cos am single |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by MisterLongman(m): 2:00pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
omotolatoyosi: Dat guy is a fool,I know some reasonable guys dat wud hit d nail on d head to any galfrnd dey know dey are not goin to end up with,why can't he be reasonable nd call dem off,it mite hurt bt at least dey wud appreciate his sincerity,he wasted dea time,energy,body,money etc,I swear d guy won't go unpunished I jst pity d innocent gal he married dats gonna suffer wit him wen it bounces on him...I also don't support gals investin so much in a guy dat dosnt hold dem like a pinch of salt bt d guy shud av bin more reasonable.Madam prophetess, how can you tell me that a guy that kept 7 girls apart for close to 6 years is a fool..... Na the girls no get sense jare 3 Likes |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 2:11pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly:then you and I better mingle ? |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by onstelly(f): 3:01pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
donroxy: then you and I better mingle ?Lol |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 3:05pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
onstelly:wow, that is a YES .... Ladies and Gentlemen .... !! Any pastor around here , abeg come and do wedding 4 me 1 Like |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by Nobody: 3:11pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
KARMA KARMA KARMA KARMA KARMA...it comes knocking when you least expect it. When im wife no fit get belle 2mao, he go dey suspect im grandmam sister. #this is where yoruba movies get some parts of their scripts from# 2 Likes |
Re: A Very Important Question For All Ladies by onstelly(f): 3:37pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
donroxy: wow, that is a YES .... Ladies and Gentlemen .... !!Hahaha you are one hell of a funny guy |
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