You must have heard the phrase 'the love will come gradually after we get married'. This is always the case when someone is desperate to get married or when a wife is find for you by your parents or guardians..


You know within you that you don't love him/her but believes that the love will come on it's own AFTER you get married.

Does it work that way, is it viable, or is it a lifetime mistake..?

Your opinions are welcomed..

Love after marriage..... Hmm impossible

That would be Love due to no choice/alternative.

You have to relate with your prison mate for the rest of your stay in the prison. As such, love can come out of that.

It might not be strong for a strong storm tho.

That na how I for do love nau. Anyway, if the spouse is kind and gentle and good, and also attractive to the other one, it may happen. Just like if dem do arrangee marriage between psquare or tu baba and a girl. Lol.
The problem is if one does not find the other sexually attractive. That is where problem will crop up from. If all is well and the partners involved are pleasantly surprised at the beauty of their arranged spouse and then they are kind to each other, the love will deff grow sharp sharp.

It works if both spouse give room to itz growth,but I hate to marry in such circumstance.

This is actually what happened to my uncle. He met this girl which he had no interest in marrying. Just a fling. They were having sexx regularly and eventually she got pregnant. He insisted that she should abort the pregnancy but she refused. So in this situation, he was " forced" to marry her. And now I believe he is madly in love with her, not only because she is the mother of his child, but its something from within. I guess love after marriage is possible, but its not advisable to rush into things. The story doesn't always end in a glorious way. "And they lived happily ever after" may not be the case.

Yes,it depends on how they care and satisfy themselves..

Its lyk medicine after death.

Hmmm...

Complicated

Love after marriage, for were story for the gods

Love actualy reduces afta marriage dat is y couple have to find something to stay on for. Some spice it up wit children, some money n even sometime wit extramarital affair but to stay cus of one another for years is kind of rare.

I won't support such.

mumu dey smell


the person i no love for at least 6months of courtship,i go con love when we do marriage
and this makes front page

I wish my ex can see this quote below:

marieolae: This is actually what happened to my uncle. He met this girl which he had no interest in marrying. Just a fling. They were having sexx regularly and eventually she got pregnant. He insisted that she should abort the pregnancy but she refused. So in this situation, he was " forced" to marry. Her. And now I believe he is madly in love with her, not only because she is the mother of his child, but its something from within. I guess love after marriage is possible, but its not advisable to rush into things. The story doesn't always end in a glorious way. "And they lived happily ever after" may not be the case.

I will say smtin soon.

That should be in movies, Yes!! It works 100%
It should start right during the courtship, what would last wouldn't hide....

Meaning? Certainly not with me... How would we sleep @ nyte?

This is why it is not good to marry for love.
Marry for the benefits attached.

It depends ..

Not yet married. Ask me after marriage.

It's so freaking possible,if u doubt me . .

In the days of our fore-fathers it's d parents that'll choose spouses for their children and after marriage between the two,the love tends to develop,if it happened then it can happen now.


Another example is the numerous couples we have today,who's reason for marriage is "Honey,i'm pregnant",after marriage caused or accelerated by the pregnancy the love tends to develop only in 3 out of 10 cases do we have couples that maltreat their partner after marriage caused by pregnancy.

You are stealing that space, by submitting only "meaning"

phransix147: Meaning?

My mom and dad have been married for over 25 years. In fact their love grows incessantly.

sometimes I pray I find a wife as good as my mom.

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true love grows ...... believe

our parents did love after marriage and they're still waxing strong unlike our generation that do a whole lot of lovey dovey yet u see marriages fall like pack of cards

It does notwork o o, don't be deceived. It is best you marry the person you love because most couples that claim to love each other even wonder why on earth they married their respective spouses.

Y not,love is something that grows if u give room for it to....someone's behaviour can really make u fall in love.so for me I believe there is love after marriage bt I wouldn't want to be in dat shoe shaa!

Yes

Love after marriage is just like Medicine after death