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Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by babymine(f): 11:09am On Aug 02, 2006 |
My aunt says its very wrong. She says the man ought to love the woman more than she loves him. She says the woman should not try it if not the man would start misbehaving. She sais the bible says the woman should submit while the man should love. What do y'all think? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by janetgurl: 12:35pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
yea it's wrong to me man show love the woman mo not the woman but i think they should love thirelives 50/50 |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by iice(f): 1:11pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
Thats y i say communication is important, u jst dont depend on emotions 2 make everything right. Yeah love him deeply but at the same time be reasonable. Dont just think that your love will automatically solve everything. Yes some men take advantage of the love and so u have 2 control yourselves. Like a friend said, u control him, he controls you. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by michy(f): 1:14pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
nobody is meant to love each other more its is supposed to be balanced |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by DAMMYGLOW(f): 2:17pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
no its not wrong but it is not proper everyone has that special person made for him/her but most of the time we rush thing just for the fear of ending up alone 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Busta(f): 4:07pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
think its wrong too. when a woman shows a man that she loves him a lot more than he loves her, he'll start seeing her as a desperate person and would not treat her right since she prolly can't do a thing without him and can't leave him, more like her life evolves around his. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Hotstepper(f): 4:09pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
itz a socially constructed notion the society gat, itz feelings and itz feeling, but maself though, guys should show da feelings more than the gurls and I personally don't tell whoeva am dating dat hez cute and all those things so itz very dangerous to do so |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by dondele(m): 7:07pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
dont see nothing wrong with that. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by viena(f): 7:21pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
very very very very very very veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy WRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Busta(f): 8:14pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
dondele:of course u won't, U'RE A GUY! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by babymine(f): 11:26am On Aug 09, 2006 |
Well, personally I think its wrong. The man should show more love and care. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Feminine(f): 9:52pm On Aug 10, 2006 |
My mother always told me that i should find someone who loves me more than i love him. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by ginola(m): 8:48pm On Aug 11, 2006 |
women should love more submitting means you are giving your all to your master(ur husband) so noo mistaking it.This is an objective view no bias |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by iice(f): 5:59am On Aug 12, 2006 |
You mean subjective view!!! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by kiki(f): 6:59am On Aug 12, 2006 |
it wrong its just wrong a guy is suppose to love more because if a girl loves more she gon be taken for granted she gon be treated like a dirt bag |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by dominobaby(f): 7:09am On Aug 12, 2006 |
It is. It is safer he he loves you more. If not, you're going to be taken for granted, just like busta rightly said. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by MerC2(f): 1:31pm On Feb 21, 2007 |
how u gunno kno who loves who more? ABEG, sometimes I can swear I love ma boyfriend more than he loves me. cos he's not has mushy mushy as I am, u kno, he's so serious sometimes, ugh!! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Radiant(f): 2:25pm On Feb 21, 2007 |
Abeeeeg! The men will say the women should love more. The women will say the men should love more. We should all wish the best for each other, support each other, help, give, understand one another. All this emphasis on who should love more is just too gross in this present age, unfortunately. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by queen2(f): 2:29pm On Feb 21, 2007 |
How will u not love ur m,an, wat ur saying is that the woman should pretend to love the man so the man would love her more. It may not work that way so it better to love each other same way |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by mystikal(m): 8:24pm On Feb 21, 2007 |
i dont think a relationship can truly be 50/50, wts important is that the person doing all the caring and loving is taken 4 granted. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by FactorChic(f): 9:31pm On Mar 06, 2007 |
I agree with ur aunt, once a guy finds out his girl loves him more than he does to her, he will play her with the feeling ohh she loves me, I can always apologise to her and she'll forgive me because she loves me more, she cant do without me, bla bla bla |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by kissangel1: 10:19am On Jul 08, 2008 |
no matter what we all feel is right of wrong, the truth still remains that love is something no one really has control over. this is why some times you find your self falling in love with the someone you have no business being in love with or someone who obviouisly doesnt love you bac. for me, love is the most wonderful emotion man feels, u just cant comprehend its intensity and the way it controls us. and if you have ever felt love, youl find out that staying with a man that u really dont love wil be like punishment. you either love someone or u dont , the person either makes your heart beat faster or doesnt, this is someone u can forgive every offense all so easily or not, this is someone u are ready to bend your self to the lowest for or not. what i feel the poster should be referring to is the level of affection and commitment and respect. it becomes love when there is passion and readiness to forgive and compromise. that is what makes love unconditional and every day is like a new day/. yes it feels more comfortable when the guy in the initial stage is more commited and affectionate, but what if it wears of later which it usually does, it is the love the woman has that keeps the relationship going, and her strenght does not fail cos it is fueled by love which is why even when the guy has really erred, its so easy to forgive and move on with the relationship even when everyother chief adviser does not see any reason to not breaking up. for me both parties have to be in real love to make it work, so that no one is cheated(yes the one with more love is usually cheated), or fustrtrated ( doesnt really love is usually fustrated and whould be unnessesarily difficult with the other with the party that is more in love, and given any opportunity might be tempted to even go as far as cheating or falling in love with someonbe else). so for me, the guy should be really commited and affectionante with the ladyd really resp, while the lady should love the guy, it is this love that will later translate into respect while the man will grow to love her more because she has shown him unconditional love. this is why the bible even emplores us that husbands love your wifes and wifes respect your husband. respect in marriage is an advanced form of love. it implies willingful submission. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Belface: 4:41pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
Its only a man's love for me that can make me love him that much. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Pataki: 6:55pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
I cannot stand a woman with too much mushy mushy love. . . . It freaks me out personally. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by jekkad: 7:38pm On Jul 12, 2008 |
@poster its not wrong as long as u love wt ur head and not ur weak emotions |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by GoldFinch(m): 7:51pm On Jul 12, 2008 |
No |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by amyg(f): 8:04pm On Jul 12, 2008 |
my bible says,husbands love ur wives,wives,be submissive 2 ur husbands.its in black and white. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by ladybam(f): 8:32pm On Jul 12, 2008 |
@ post Yes!!!!!!!!!!! It is wrong, wronger, wrongest !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Love Her Man More Than He Loves Her? by Lexaccord(m): 12:45pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
kiss_angel: no matter what we all feel is right of wrong, the truth still remains that love is something no one really has control over. this is why some times you find your self falling in love with the someone you have no business being in love with or someone who obviouisly doesnt love you bac. Wao! This is awesome. Nice post. Am going to use this for counselling to my younger married friends! |
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