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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:19am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Stillfire: I love this comment. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:28am On Oct 25, 2014 |
donodion: God bless u sir. Don't mind other pple who talking out of point, as if they av a certain fixed way of how a polygamous family shud turn out 2 be. So tay, some certain unscrupulous pple here av turned my post into their own personal vendetta. D problems they face @ home, they will come online 2 come and unleash their misguided venom unto innocent nlders , who has no clue of the problems they are facing @ home, Even though their family is Monogamous in nature.. Keep on deluding yurselves some certain women on nld that feel they know how I N my family lived.. If yur family lineage is filled with sorrows n warfare, ko kan aye, mehn! pls don't imgine other polygamous homes are like dat..May God help us all Derailers pls don't derail d thread. Am not d. Cause of your numerous problems in yur homes..Pls Let's stick to d topic and share yur views on it. Thanks 5 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by donodion(m): 11:39am On Oct 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Not from where Im seeing it.Worked very well. Enough to have her mom secured and established,single handedly have properties in her name,self sustaining investment and still profitable enough to raise a cultured lady such as Amelian. What else could any career oriented woman ask for? *Financial power-Her mom had it *A man for herself as at when she needed-Her mom had it *At least a child to grow old enough to be successful and worth reckoning with- her daughter is a testimony... Undeniably it worked very well. 5 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by babygirlfl: 11:45am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Stillfire: soulglo: You have both said it all. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by donodion(m): 11:45am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Amelian: Sweerie,dont worry...dont even let opinions get you worked up.So far your mom raised you successfuly and wherever she is,shes at peace cos you are no brush over. Momma knew how to handle her man and got the best out of it.Tips many these 20-30 something young women would still come around to seek for. With age and exposure comes experience. Carry go Ada nma.Nothing do you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:59am On Oct 25, 2014 |
donodion: I have it all without having to compete against co-wives in a house full of envy and having to wait for my husband until it is my turn while he is bleeping other women officially. As for the poster, it worked so well that she does not even know how to write properly. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:09pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
So carefreewannabe, to type properly is yur New problem nw... Charcoal calling pot black, am I typing or writing? Mehn! Your IQ amazes me @ times. 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:11pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Amelian: See logic 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:14pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
donodion: U r so point ! If I start mentioning my assets n achievements, some peeps will nearly go crazy and wan swallow me up. But its well.. That's for another day on another topic. GodBless! 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:21pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:23pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Nonso23: And the poster did what in her initial post? 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:28pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
@ nonso, u r right. But I nid 2 let d derailers club know, am not moi moi.. Theyv bn ranting till 5pages , haba! Ontop my matter o, no be topic again o.. They are wise, bah? Making mouth , as if they can control natural situations around one. The only thing anybody can control is Yourself. Anybody person, Zero.. Possibly for a short while but on d long run only Yourself u can control as a wife n mother . Simple. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:30pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:30pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Nonso23: So she didn't discuss people and events? 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by babygirlfl: 12:31pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Nonso23: Do you not think that she is the one making herself to be discussed? She kept talking about herself, her mum, how she runs her home and her achievements. If you ask me, I honestly think she opened this thread to make herself look good (in the eyes of some people though). You are accusing carefreewannabe of basically what the poster did right from the very beginning of this thread. She even brought in the mother of the girl into the discussion. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:32pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
babygirlfl: The "great minds" on NL are objective. 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:34pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:36pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Ok lemme coach you. Pls sit down and listen attentively What I mentioned in my initial post? Is not that I av a problem wit d girl I mentioned or wit d way she chose 2 live in her sister's house. I was amazed wit her defiant attitude, cos she was actually thrown back into d streets by her sister's husband n and she has no where 2 go. With dat reality on yur shoulders or on anybody, wud one still feel she's right? Cmon! Think! U fucvkin av no where 2 stay, than 2 head back 2 d village. Hello? Are u understanding d scenario nw? Her bf cud NOt take her in, cos he has his own issues. So she's stuck! Wit no where 2 sleep. After advising her 2 go back and beg her husband sis, I got home still amazed @ wat happend 2 her and d foolish steps she took, by carrying her bags.. To where? My house?.. So u get my drift carefreewannabe. That's d lesson for 2day. I honestly hope u understand orelse I give up on yur case.* rolls eyes* 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by babygirlfl: 12:39pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Amelian: Amelian dear, just as you have your mum as your role model, we have ours too. Some of us have parents who have been married for decades without your formular. If your posts in nairaland are true, I can comfortably tell you that I have been married longer than you and happily too. Please learn to respect other people views just as we respect yours. If your style works for you, fine but please stop telling people to mark your words. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:40pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by donodion(m): 12:41pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Ha cfw,you like taunting eh.Were you a tomboy? Ok o,you are from monogamous setup,good.We respect that. Shes equally from a successful polygamous background,extend same regard please. Factor the obvious possibility while you "had it all " in your monogamous unit,theres at least an extended family member who equally "envies " your union.MIL,SIL,nephew,cousin (maternal/paternal). What worked for her may not necessarily suit your stance in marriage and relating with in-laws,but today,someone looked up to her for counsel. You cant give what you dont have. Its weekend abeg. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:43pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Nonso23: It was not about any idea right from the beginning. It was about how she is a great woman and how other parents fail to raise their daughters properly. She made herself the centre of attention in the entire thread to get the pads on the back she so desperately needs. Go and re-read her initial post. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:44pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Amelian: Someone who cannot write good English is not in the position to teach me. 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:49pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
donodion: I have no problem with polygamy as long as people choose it for themselves so this is not even the point. The OP came online to share a story of someone who asked for her advice and she insulted her parents. At the same time, she started to brag about her family and wasn't even smart enough to consider that envy between family members is nothing to be proud of. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:52pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Nonso23: The tales about the jealous wives of her father were absolutely unnecessary. She could have made her point EASILY without showing us that her family was not as perfect as she wants us to believe. She was the one to FIRST remind everyone of the problems polygamous families suffer from, not me. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by ELLYsian: 12:53pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:55pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:56pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Nonso23: You are twisting it as it suits you. Never mind. Have a nice weekend. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by babygirlfl: 1:01pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Nonso23: Honestly I totally understand what you are trying to say. However I do not agree. If you read her posts and replies with an open mind you will see what I am trying to say. Ok lets say she used the story as an instance, why bring the mum into the discussion? I think almost everybody agreed that what the wife's sister did was wrong as regards getting into her sisters business. However bringing the mother into it was a step too far. We all have mothers and would not like them to be disrespected. 2 Likes |
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