Once a thief is always a thief, Whether right or wrong.For me,I don't think I'll ever stick to one BITCH.I don't know about him.

StephenP:

Those are girls. Women know not to settle for the BS that playas bring. . . at least not for long. Also, it is possible to be attracted to the Nice Guy for example, look at the number of e-girlfriends I get on the daily.

Really??
Care to know how many NL's "bad boys" get on an hourly basis??

Women still settle for the BS that playas bring. Lets even assume they move on(for argument's sake), they are more likely to date yet anutha playa.
Remember they have a certain requirement/standard a guy must attain. . .

After their break-up with Playa A, they still have this standard imprinted on their minds and will only settle for guys who can meet it.
Unfortunately, only playas have these requirements so she would still end up with Playa B.

badboym:

Once a thief is always a thief, Whether right or wrong.For me,I don't think I'll ever stick to one BITCH.I don't know about him.

And why can't you stick with one woman?

~Sauron~:

Really??
Care to know how many NL's "bad boys" get on an hourly basis??

Women still settle for the BS that playas bring. Lets even assume they move on(for argument's sake), they are more likely to date yet anutha playa.
Remember they have a certain requirement/standard a guy must attain. . .

After their break-up with Playa A, they still have this standard imprinted on their minds and will only settle for guys who can meet it.
Unfortunately, only playas have these requirements so she would still end up with Playa B.

Assumptions, assumptions. I wish women would come speak for themselves.

~Sauron~:

Really??
Care to know how many NL's "bad boys" get on an hourly basis??

Women still settle for the BS that playas bring. Lets even assume they move on(for argument's sake), they are more likely to date yet anutha playa.
Remember they have a certain requirement/standard a guy must attain. . .

After their break-up with Playa A, they still have this standard imprinted on their minds and will only settle for guys who can meet it.
Unfortunately, only playas have these requirements so she would still end up with Playa B.

I also think that many atimes, they get with these "Playas" because they believe they can straighten him out. BIG MISTAKE

StephenP:

And why can't you stick with one woman?

Why cant you eat the same meal everyday of yor life??
ANSWER; Its not healthy.

Okija_juju:

I also think that many atimes, they get with these "Playas" because they believe they can straighten him out. BIG MISTAKE

Exactly but there will be a time when they'll see that those playas are not worth it and they move on to Mr. Nice Guy, have an awesome relationship filled with trust with him, marry and have kids while Mr. Playa finds himself lonely because all his girls have become smarter.

Okija_juju:

Why can't you eat the same meal everyday of yor life??
ANSWER; Its not healthy.   

Daaaammn that was cold.

boys here sef ma dey claim bad boy.

wonders no go ever end.

DavidDylan:

boys here sef ma dey claim bad boy.

LOL we can be whoever we want to be online.

StephenP:

Exactly but there will be a time when they'll see that those playas are not worth it and they move on to Mr. Nice Guy, have an awesome relationship filled with trust with him, marry and have kids while Mr. Playa finds himself lonely because all his girls have become smarter.

Mr. Playa finds himself lonely?? What happened??
Shortage of gullible women in the world or what??
StephenP. . . . . . U can do better than this.
When Playas lose all the set of girls in their kitty to marriage, they breed other ones.

~Sauron~:

Mr. Playa finds himself lonely?? What happened??
Shortage of gullible women in the world or what??
StephenP. . . . . . U can do better than this.
When Playas lose all the set of girls in their kitty to marriage, they breed other ones.

Ok I admit that was pretty far fetched but look at Hugh Hefner still unmarried even with all those girls, who by the way are there just for the money. Plus, one of the girls is now dating someone else. I think many men at that age want to be happy with their wives and kids living in a house where family can come visit and not find a girl young enough to be their daughter running around naked and acting crazy.

StephenP:

Ok I admit that was pretty far fetched but look at Hugh Hefner still unmarried even with all those girls, who by the way are there just for the money. Plus, one of the girls is now dating someone else. I think many men at that age want to be happy with their wives and kids living in a house where family can come visit and not find a girl young enough to be their daughter running around naked and acting crazy.

Some men can't just be bovvered about marriage. Hugh Hefner is unmarried because he does NOT want to marry.
Would u say Simon Cowell(American Idol) is a player too?? He is set to break up with his girlfriend of 5 years because he doesn't believe in marriage.
He went on to say "Marriage is a losing game. The truth is that you get married and in a year or two they clean you out!
It's just not going to work. I know a lot of people going through divorces now and once the lawyers get involved it starts to get nasty".

~Sauron~:

Some men can't just be bovvered about marriage. Hugh Hefner is unmarried because he does NOT want to marry.
Would u say Simon Cowell(American Idol) is a player too?? He is set to break up with his girlfriend of 5 years because he doesn't believe in marriage.
He went on to say "Marriage is a losing game. The truth is that you get married and in a year or two they clean you out!
It's just not going to work. I know a lot of people going through divorces now and once the lawyers get involved it starts to get nasty".

Actually his gf broke up with him not the other way round.

I dont also agree he doesnt believe in marriage as such . . . its a good cop-out for those who played the field and left things too late.

StephenP:

Ok I admit that was pretty far fetched but look at Hugh Hefner still unmarried even with all those girls, who by the way are there just for the money. Plus, one of the girls is now dating someone else. I think many men at that age want to be happy with their wives and kids living in a house where family can come visit and not find a girl young enough to be their daughter running around naked and acting crazy.

Dude no disrespect, but you are just too african to see the beauty of the phenomenon I like to call "Papa Bunny" a.k.a Heff.
Who cares if they are there for the money, they are his money. Thats a win, win situation.
Pimipin at its finest.
Heffs life should be taught to the younger generation.
Would you call Heff a badboy/man?? Hells no. They know he is a playa, and they love him for it.
If heff were to be a wall street broker, or a realtor, he wouldnt be getting the same kinda play he s gettin now.

Atimes being bad aint all that bad at all.

@ poster

He has disrespected you enough and you should not stay with a guy who has no respect for you. I really don't care if he's Mr bad boy /player, he has breached that line. It is time to decide what you want for yourself as a lady. If you want to be treated like a rag still cling on to him and don't complain. But I tell you, you deserve better than the male LovePeddler he has reduced himself to. Never settle for less.

~Sauron~:

Some men can't just be bovvered about marriage. Hugh Hefner is unmarried because he does NOT want to marry.
Would u say Simon Cowell(American Idol) is a player too?? He is set to break up with his girlfriend of 5 years because he doesn't believe in marriage.
He went on to say "Marriage is a losing game. The truth is that you get married and in a year or two they clean you out!
It's just not going to work. I know a lot of people going through divorces now and once the lawyers get involved it starts to get nasty".

Actually Hugh is still technically married. He's separated from his wife because she cheated on him. Even men like that believe in the sanity of marriage.

@post: Bad boys are fun when one is still a teenager. A grown ass woman doesn't want a bad boy.

@mimi4eva

Simple answer, become a NAUGHTY GIRL

chika98:

Actually Hugh is still technically married. He's separated from his wife because she cheated on him. Even men like that believe in the sanity of marriage.

Are u sure??

@post: Bad boys are fun when one is still a teenager. A grown ass woman doesn't want a bad boy.

How do u seperate the game from the TRUTH??

~Sauron~:

Are u sure??

100%. Quote me anywhere!

chika98:

100%. Quote me anywhere!

And u think what Hugh Hefner has got is an ideal marriage??
Dating 7 girls while "married" is CHEATING.

~Sauron~:

And u think what Hugh Hefner has got is an ideal marriage??
Dating 7 girls while "married" is CHEATING.

Well i guess payback is a bitch! She cheated so . . .

chika98:

Well i guess payback is a bitch! She cheated so . . .

Nice one there. . . . . . .
Payback is a bitch indeed.

Why can't you eat the same meal everyday of yor life??
ANSWER; Its not healthy.

, jus came back to see if there where any replies and im luvin it guys, thanks a lot but meanwhile that was quite cold by okija-juju, damn! its not fair oh!, lol but really thats an interesting analogy but i prefere a scenario where a sum1 you love is not compared to a meal, rather something like oxygen or air as in the chris brown song, that way you cant do with out it and nothing else will do, but that mentality that a girl is a meal to be devoured on, then you move on to the next on the menu out of oju kokoro, its rather greedy, mmm , all i can say is ouch!

hugh hefs girls are very aware that they are sharing one man and they DNT CARE!,, but guess what i do! one has to remember that there are other variables involved, mostly money and endorsements, !hugh has made an empire with women and they are employed by him. they get paid! that is their job!, im not workin for anyone and the only variable here is my heart! i think its very insensitive when some guys feel empowered by this so called pimpin and messin around, if guys wanna mess around thats cool, good for you, but be SINGLE FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!, i was lied to for three years and fine i fell for it and the annoying thing about it is that there are guys that FEEL SO GUD with themselves AT PREYING ON THESE KIND OF WEaknesses, sum1 here is even suggested that hef shud start an academy, lol.