ayusco85:


Well if u close ur legs wen u were a spinster u won't ve problem getting pregnant wen ur married. U can't eat ur cake and ve it....

oh you are so ignorant! It's people like you that mock and ridicule women trying to conceive. Trust me many of such women facing such challenges even got married as virgins.
I pray you never experience infertility to learn.

godshandmaiden:

oh you are so ignorant! It's people like you that mock and ridicule women trying to conceive. Trust me many of such women facing such challenges even got married as virgins.
I pray you never experience infertility to learn.

Amen to dat

ayusco85:


Well if u close ur legs wen u were a spinster u won't ve problem getting pregnant wen ur married. U can't eat ur cake and ve it....

Well it does not work dat way

ayusco85:


i was born today. ewu hausa

you are a big fool! You should be hiding your head in shame yet you are here on nairaland displaying your ignorance and stupidity! Its obvious you an educated illiterate! Idiot, you are the problem with nigeria.

Fake bisss Ain't even proud of d husband and u want his spermmmm. Na politicians go impregnate u

1 kobo make up bisss.

Ur insta don't even v a pic of ur boo. Not my biz tho. Arrange life.

That's Africa for you! Guess you understand the pressure married ladies with no kidz yet faced. its more depressing than been single.

tuffgongjo:
Party "Goer"

englishmart:
She just needs to get pregnant and shut up.

Is she the only one getting such pressures?

It is written that "when a woman is married for 8 to 9 months, and no sign of pregnancy, then their is a tendency of fruitlessness in the marriage.

No be talk am o..

That's because we emphasis d important of kidz in marriage more than the marriage itself. Africans put pressure on wat ought not to be. That's why we have dozen of unemployed in the nation 2day and more to come

ayusco85:


Well if u close ur legs wen u were a spinster u won't ve problem getting pregnant wen ur married. U can't eat ur cake and ve it....

U are very wrong. I have seen a lady that married as a virgin and she is still trusting God for the fruit of the womb. The race is not for the strongest it is God that shows mercy.

stunning4real:
U are very wrong. I have seen a lady that married as a virgin and she is still trusting God for the fruit of the womb. The race is not for the strongest it is God that shows mercy.

It happens

Not the first nor the last, so wetin concern us ...

PreciousGem:


That's because we emphasis d important of kidz in marriage more than the marriage itself. Africans put pressure on wat ought not to be. That's why we have dozen of unemployed in the nation 2day and more to come

So kids are not important?
The marriage is empty without fruits.period there is no such thing as the marriage itself

CAMNEWTON4PRES:


So kids are not important?
The marriage is empty without fruits.period there is no such thing as the marriage itself

harsh bro....
harsh

pickabeau1:


harsh bro....
harsh

Maybe but children in Africa are 95% the reason people get married. As family oriented people you can talk to me with the b contended with the marriage children or not .btw don't get me if my wife cant procreate I won't divorce her nor get a second wife

CAMNEWTON4PRES:


Maybe but children in Africa are 95% the reason people get married. As family oriented people you can talk to me with the b contended with the marriage children or not .btw don't get me if my wife cant procreate I won't divorce her nor get a second wife

Yes I agree with you
Thats a noble decision

cool

pickabeau1:



Yes I agree with you
Thats a noble decision

cool

I'm noble

fortdaniels:
1. She is not obligated to have kids.
2. If she wishes to, it is her right to decide when she wants to do so.

Nigerians are such retards, forcing people into decisions they do not wish to have. Personally, I do not want kids and fukk anybody (Family, Friend or Foe) that decides to meddle in my affairs.

I am waiting to see a couple who discussed while courting and decided not to have children in their marriage. Then I believe you.

When people expect you are pregnant few months after wedding, they are only being normal because, all things being equal, with all the emotions, joy, overwelhm, loving, honey-moon and the 'night shots' that comes naturally, something must happen 'ovary-wise' in that period whether you plan it or not, the 'mis-take in' must happen. Its just natural, else you must be 'supernatural' or 'anti-natural' to miss the 'aura fetch'.

So don't blame them, blame yourself, for the pressure if it was your decision or for unknown reasons you didn't get pregnant. I should always expect 1+1 to be equal to 2, except in abstract algebra (or Merger and acquisition) where may be 1+1=1 or 1+1=3. Like I said that is ABSTRACT, not normal waec. We judge you by WAEC before BACHELORS, even the Prof of abstract must explain why 1+1 <>2. So you owe them an explanation, unless they are not your friends because whoever asked you is only concerned about YOU.

However let them know if its your decision, otherwise give a simple word of faith 'God gives children' as answer and I bet it, nobody will ask you again. That was my method and what I advised friends. Amazingly, it worked.

Marriage is between the man and woman. I believe also that marriage is complete with or without the child. A child is not the marriage itself but it is a fruit of marriage, one of the numerous purposes for marriage.

The important thing is what the couple agreed and even if they planned for children but did not come, the man must stand by his woman. He should defend his woman and take the blame for the childlessness, it will help the woman to stabilize and the bond stronger. This is one thing you will never regret no matter how tough the situation look.

lastchild:
I should be the one telling you to leave your comfort zone so you can see what this life is all about,those things are what our parents told us that if you live a good boy/good girl life your life will be better,if you obey your parents you'll have a longer life,any adult who still believe that is simply primitive

There are so many things about this life that is beyond our explanation,I have 3 sisters,the most wayward was the first to get married,she has the best husband,rich,handsome and nice, treats her like a queen even their family treats her good and forgive her rubbish once she smiles,if I don't know my father well I would've Called it jazz

The best one we had,whom never lived a wayward life,always at home helping mom in the kitchen,goes to church,respect her elders and so on, she kept being played by men who claim to marry her,at the end she had an accident and died

I wanted to like your post,I didn't want it to look like I'm liking the dying part.

Sorry abt your sis.

soulglo:


Sorry about your sis. She was too good for this world.


I have a theory about this. I think women who generally have more experience with men can smell the bullshit a mile away. That's why they choose better partners. Also they will excuse more from a man because they understand the game. They can play too if they want to or they have had their full of playing. On the hand, the girls with no real experience or who are naive about men will easily fall for a devil. Devils also tend to want the naive ones too. Her expectations will be high because she also holds herself to a high standard. Chances are she'll either end up being used and dumped or marry a man who does not deserve her

A plate of pepper soup for you.

ayusco85:


Well if u close ur legs wen u were a spinster u won't ve problem getting pregnant wen ur married. U can't eat ur cake and ve it....

Chai. E go dey pain God o. Na His creature no gree use him brain so

englishmart:
She just needs to get pregnant and shut up.

Is she the only one getting such pressures?

It is written that "when a woman is married for 8 to 9 months, and no sign of pregnancy, then their is a tendency of fruitlessness in the marriage.

No be talk am o..

Boy u are just not smart at all
Comot that smart for ur name biko.

DollyParton1:


Boy u are just not smart at all
Comot that smart for ur name biko.

you are just too blind. Did you see anything like smart there?

Mtscheew. Myopic little girl

ayusco85:


Well if u close ur legs wen u were a spinster u won't ve problem getting pregnant wen ur married. U can't eat ur cake and ve it....

This is not always true.I conceived a year after my wedding. And I was NEVER promiscuous. We have different bodies...

Sunavico:
This is not always true.I conceived a year after my wedding. And I was NEVER promiscuous. We have different bodies...

It was just a comment, my opinion actually, I didn't say its 100% true. that was just a general believe.... there are lots of exceptions.

tumababa:
is she an actress?

No. a TV presenter.

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