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What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by teddy7(m): 1:47pm On Oct 23, 2014
Ok.. this has gone too far.. there's this girl that's a friend to my elder sis... I've known her since I was a kid... as a family friend we have each others no and we chat on whatsapp/bbm. Until lately she started acting weird towards me.. she tells me lot of things while we chat... she will stare me half to death when she pays my sis a visit... she even say the four letters word to me... It gave me the creeps of my life when she sent me some crazy pix.. ..this girl is like 5/6 years older than me and claims she loves me... I don't even know how to face her after seeing those pictures which I deleted ASAP. She's supper pretty and sexy but I don't know if its right to date someone a lot older than I am and also a friend to a sis... Im just seeking advices if u care to help
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 1:54pm On Oct 23, 2014
*sighs*
Four words Do you like her?

Romantically I mean. Answer that and your problem is solved. Stop with the age thingy.
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Tycike: 2:03pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mumu
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by firstEVA(f): 2:26pm On Oct 23, 2014
like someone already asked, do you like her? if u do try and find our her intentions, so so many ladies like to sleep with their friend's younger brothers, i really dont know why? two of my male friends were disvirgined by their elder sisters' friends, so again, ask her what she wants from you.
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by dmcdad: 5:31pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mynd44:
*sighs*
Four words Do you like her?

Romantically I mean. Answer that and your problem is solved. Stop with the age thingy.
cheesy
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Joshuadon: 5:33pm On Oct 23, 2014
abeg i be omo pastor, my bit z stay away from all unrighteousness
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by drmikeadams(m): 5:45pm On Oct 23, 2014
teddy7:
Ok.. this has gone too far.. there's this girl that's a friend to my elder sis... I've known her since I was a kid... as a family friend we have each others no and we chat on whatsapp/bbm. Until lately she started acting weird towards me.. she tells me lot of things while we chat... she will stare me half to death when she pays my sis a visit... she even say the four letters word to me... It gave me the creeps of my life when she sent me some crazy pix.. ..this girl is like 5/6 years older than me and claims she loves me... I don't even know how to face her after seeing those pictures which I deleted ASAP. She's supper pretty and sexy but I don't know if its right to date someone a lot older than I am and also a friend to a sis... Im just seeking advices if u care to help
..where her number?or it never happened
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 23, 2014
My dear if u respect ur elder sister, pls dnt even dare go behind her to do such...unless u want ur sister to hate u for the rest of ur life.... Blood is thicker dan water... Now be a man, confront that lady and tell her ur so not interested in her and dat if she likes herself she should stop unless u will show her naked pics to ur sister and tell her everythin..or threaten dat u wil upload her nude pics if she doesnt leave u alone..
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by corisande: 5:56pm On Oct 23, 2014
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by austine4real(m): 6:01pm On Oct 23, 2014
Omo she free pvcy oo..i knw u'r stll kid or inxperienced...fvck her or u giv her my nom 08105143161
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Nobody: 6:05pm On Oct 23, 2014
Cutehector4u:
My dear if u respect ur elder sister, pls dnt even dare go behind her to do such...unless u want ur sister to hate u for the rest of ur life.... Blood is thicker dan water... Now be a man, confront that lady and tell her ur so not interested in her and dat if she likes herself she should stop unless u will show her naked pics to ur sister and tell her everythin..or threaten dat u wil upload her nude pics if she doesnt leave u alone..

What is this one saying?

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Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 23, 2014
assfreak:


What is this one saying?
so wats ur opinion? Wise man
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Nobody: 6:15pm On Oct 23, 2014
Bros if na me I go run oooo just like the way I still dey run from one babe like that for my dept but truth be told,if a lady is desperate to have a guy its a matter of life and death to her meaning she could go an extra mile,so just don't joke with her.
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 6:33pm On Oct 23, 2014
dmcdad:

cheesy
Life is not difficult. We humans just make it so
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by dmcdad: 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mynd44:

Life is not difficult. We humans just make it so
Of course... And it's weird why and how we make things intricate for ourselves.
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by bugzyberry(m): 7:46pm On Oct 23, 2014
Tycike:
Mumu
Do u really need to trash talk? Give ur opinion and if u don't have any just look away. Its that simple

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Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by teddy7(m): 7:56pm On Oct 23, 2014
drmikeadams:
..where her number?or it never happened
Dude u can't be serious. Are u?. Well I'm not so spoilt if that's what u mean by inexperience. And bdw i'm no kid
Mynd44:
*sighs*
Four words Do you like her?
Romantically I mean. Answer that and your problem is solved. Stop with the age thingy.
Yeah bro. I do but dating her would be a disrespect to my sis
Cutehector4u:
My dear if u respect ur elder sister, pls dnt even dare go behind her to do such...unless u want ur sister to hate u for the rest of ur life..
As though u were exactly in my shoes. That's what I fear
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 9:20pm On Oct 23, 2014
teddy7:
Yeah bro. I do but dating her would be a disrespect to my sis
So you like her, you are just bothered about your sis. Cute.

Now let me give you an assignment. Ask your sister if she is okay with you dating her friend. Dont give her a name or even a hint as to which friend. Just say it passively and hear her response.

BTW, there is no disrespect to your sister if you date her friend, stop being overly shy

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Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Tymax(m): 9:26pm On Oct 23, 2014
5 years older and a friend of you elder sister. Heeey. Don't try it. It will not end well. angry
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 9:31pm On Oct 23, 2014
Tymax:
5 years older and a friend of you elder sister. Heeey. Don't try it. It will not end well. angry
I am guessing your crystal ball told you so right?
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by kskpoundz(m): 9:34pm On Oct 23, 2014
Its not a big deal tho,its just dat it cnt leads to marriage.I got disV by som1 much more older dan me many yrs bak so no big deal broo. Grab ur copy while stock last!!!
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Tymax(m): 9:41pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mynd44:

I am guessing your crystal ball told you so right?
It's his ELDER sister's friend for Pete's sake. The age gap is 5 solid years. She has already sent inappropriate pictures to him- pictures he had to delete.

How can this end well?
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 9:43pm On Oct 23, 2014
Tymax:

It's his ELDER sister's friend for Pete's sake. The age gap is 5 solid years. She has already sent inappropriate pictures to him- pictures he had to delete.

How can this end well?
Ending well or not is dependent on if they are both reasonable.
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by farano(f): 9:44pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mynd44:

I am guessing your crystal ball told you so right?
grin
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by teddy7(m): 9:45pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mynd44:

So you like her, you are just bothered about your sis. Cute.

Now let me give you an assignment. Ask your sister if she is okay with you dating her friend. Dont give her a name or even a hint as to which friend. Just say it passively and hear her response.

BTW, there is no disrespect to your sister if you date her friend, stop being overly shy
U're really one of a kind cool I'm really not that shy o. I already did ask her that same question out of curiosity and d response was very bad... its seems its somewhat forbidden to her....
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Tymax(m): 9:51pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mynd44:

Ending well or not is dependent on if they are both reasonable.
Is it reasonable to send such pictures to her friend's little brother? The guy now sees her as a booty call.

Bro stop trying to rationalize this situation. The foundation of the relationship is terrible. She wouldn't dare tell her friend that she's interested in the little brother.

The guy is clearly uncomfortable with the idea. If he considers her at all, it would be for casual sex. Nothing more. She will not be welcome in his home. Is that a meaningful relationship?

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Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 9:51pm On Oct 23, 2014
teddy7:
U're really one of a kind cool I'm really not that shy o. I already did ask her that same question out of curiosity and d response was very bad... its seems its somewhat forbidden to her....
I am gonna tell you this not cos I think you need to get the girl laid or whatever but cos you said you like her and I hate to see a good like go to waste (unless I am involved)

Talk to this girl, you two sit down and talk. Tell her you like her too. Tell her you ain't comfy with the picture and tell her you don't mind being with her but you respect your sis too much. If she can get her friend to look away, then fine.

This option is simply cos you seem to fear your sis not respect her. Respect should go both ways and your sis should respect your feelings

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Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by teddy7(m): 9:52pm On Oct 23, 2014
kskpoundz:
Its not a big deal tho,its just dat it cnt leads to marriage.I got disV by som1 much more older dan me many yrs bak so no big deal broo. Grab ur copy while stock last!!!
hahaha grin grin grin grin lol dude you're a mess
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 9:54pm On Oct 23, 2014
Tymax:

Is it reasonable to send such pictures to her friend's little brother? The guy now sees her as a booty call.

Bro stop trying to rationalize this situation. The foundation of the relationship is terrible. She wouldn't dare tell her friend that she's interested in the little brother.

The guy is clearly uncomfortable with the idea. If he considers her at all, it would be for casual sex. Nothing more. She will not be welcome in his home. Is that a meaningful relationship?
The dude already says he likes her. Would be here typing all this BS if he did not? He has not said he wants her to stop chasing him, the only reason he is staying away is cos of his sister.

Somewhere in the world two people might like one another and want to be with one another irrespective of age and what others think. You can wish it away but NEWSFLASH: it freaking happens!!
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Nobody: 10:01pm On Oct 23, 2014
Cutehector4u:
My dear if u respect ur elder sister, pls dnt even dare go behind her to do such...unless u want ur sister to hate u for the rest of ur life.... Blood is thicker dan water... Now be a man, confront that lady and tell her ur so not interested in her and dat if she likes herself she should stop unless u will show her naked pics to ur sister and tell her everythin..or threaten dat u wil upload her nude pics if she doesnt leave u alone..
Bros make I no talk say I mumu
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Tymax(m): 10:17pm On Oct 23, 2014
Mynd44:

The dude already says he likes her. Would be here typing all this BS if he did not? He has not said he wants her to stop chasing him, the only reason he is staying away is cos of his sister.

Somewhere in the world two people might like one another and want to be with one another irrespective of age and what others think. You can wish it away but NEWSFLASH: it freaking happens!!
To be with whomever we want irrespective of the views of others might appear politically correct but the premise is shaky because humans are essentially communual. Our lives are shared. This is the basis of culture. You cannot do just about anything you like without considering those around you; especially if someone (a parent) still assumes responsibility for you.

Dating his elder sister's friend will strain the relationship between his sister and her friend. Will he knowingly dismiss the views of his sister and deliberately bring her discomfort every time she sees them together?

You said situations like this happen. Yes they do. However that does not endorse the act as acceptable. Will an action be deemed justifiable just because someone has done it before?
Re: What Would U Do When A Girl/lady Older Than You Start Hitting On You Hard by Mynd44: 10:23pm On Oct 23, 2014
Tymax:

To be with whomever we want irrespective of the views of others might appear politically correct but the premise is shaky because humans are essentially communual. Our lives are shared. This is the basis of culture. You cannot do just about anything you like without considering those around you; especially if someone (a parent) still assumes responsibility for you.

Dating his elder sister's friend will strain the relationship between his sister and her friend. Will he knowingly dismiss the views of his sister and deliberately bring her discomfort every time she sees them together?

You said situations like this happen. Yes they do. However that does not endorse the act as acceptable. Will an action be deemed justifiable just because someone has done it before?
And what have I been doing? Finding a way for them to be together and also for the sister to be cool with it.

Would you stop being so darned negative?

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