CHoccolaTE:
I think this topic begs the question of where to draw the line between what you are entitled to and what you shouldn't demand in a relationship. If both the boyfriend and girlfriend are not entitled to each other's possesions just because they are not married then what about loyalty and fidelity in relationships? Why do people feel they are entitled to faithfulness from their partners before marriage? You are not entitled to take each other's property but you fully expect them to remain faithful and loyal to you alone and not date/have sex with others as if you two are already married......ironic isn't it.

Khalessi:
How much did you contribute to buying any of the cars?

This comment has the highest likes I've seen on this site

bluelover:
OH SHUT THE FREAKING HELL UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



POT CALLING KETTLE BLACK SMH!

was it only women who commented on this post?
The post was goddamn silly for petes sakes even a toddler will not think in the way she thought.

don't even exclude your name from those list of ladies
who are their worst enemies. this post alone will make guys who read this to think that ladies are materialistic


you really need to work on yourself first before coming here to give advise to others. cause you are not any better

CHoccolaTE:
No mind am. I just saw the post and laughed. No need to type reply. Women hate each other unfortunately and unless you don't interact with them you would know this. What makes him think there is any logic behind their attacking the OP? Infact let him go through the thread again and see the bitterness and vileness in their posts then compare it to the men's post before coming here to talk about how they are doing it for noble reasons.

freecocoa:
You all are just a bunch of shameless hypocrites, she's materialistic because she wants to use her boyfriend's car, swear with your worthless life that you've never collected anything from a boyfriend and die by thunder, you people are disgusting to say the least, even people who have no cent to their names dey follow talk, NL don suffer sha.

CHoccolaTE:
I think this topic begs the question of where to draw the line between what you are entitled to and what you shouldn't demand in a relationship. If both the boyfriend and girlfriend are not entitled to each other's possesions just because they are not married then what about loyalty and fidelity in relationships? Why do people feel they are entitled to faithfulness from their partners before marriage? You are not entitled to take each other's property but you fully expect them to remain faithful and loyal to you alone and not date/have sex with others as if you two are already married......ironic isn't it.

freecocoa:
You all are just a bunch of shameless hypocrites, she's materialistic because she wants to use her boyfriend's car, swear with your worthless life that you've never collected anything from a boyfriend and die by thunder, you people are disgusting to say the least, even people who have no cent to their names dey follow talk, NL don suffer sha.

ocelot2006:


Uh mm....i grew up with some, and I'm married to one, so I think I at least know a thing or two about women. Then again, you may be right, you gals are complicated.

That said, a MAJORITY of girls I know have never made such ridiculous demands from their respective boyfriends or fiancée.. For the men same. Using myself as an example, I owned a car before I met my wife, and got a 2nd from my folks when we were courting. In our FIVE years of courtship, my wife NEVER EVER made such demands that I hand over one of the vehicles to her cos we were dating. Did I take her out for a ride or pick her up from a place or two with either cars? Definitely! But did she make same demands as the OP? ABSOLUTELY NOT, cos of self respect. Same goes for every lovely and self respecting girl I've known.



Btw, What happens if the relationship goes south? I've heard, read, and even seen the consequences (horror stories) of this. Still can't forget one here in Uyo. Dude buys a neat Kia Cerato, loans it to his "lovely" gf. The relationship later turns sour and the girl runs away with the vehicle. Now guys are smart.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure there're some guys and sugar daddies out there who have no qualms giving out cars, but note this: unless you are MARRIED to the man, you are NOT entitled to his cars. IT IS NOT A RIGHT.

adepiero:
This comment has the highest likes I've seen on this site

868

Some people never reach that amount since them join NL

CHoccolaTE:
But is it ok for a woman to let her boyfriend drive one of her cars because he doesn't have any and maybe his place of work is far? Is it ok for women to do this? Or is it forbidden?

bluelover:


i will swear by fire and sun!!!



I dont have a boyfriend and i have never had one. and even if i do i wont be like you or the op who feels they are entitled to something because of one boyfriend somewhere.


i have better things and goals i want to accomplish in my life than thinking of one boyfriend to give me his car or start begging. there is more to a relationship than that.

there is more to life than relationships also.

like i advised earlier go and work on yourself first before coming here to throw tantrums over this issue.

#goodday

naijaboiy:

868

Some people never reach that amount since them join NL

You wan yab me?

freecocoa:
You shouldn't be commenting on this thread if you've never had a boyfriend since you obviously don't understand what's being discussed here, goodnight.

freecocoa:
My God, just where did I say she's entitled to the car? I've said it a zillion and one times that her crime was presentation but that there's nothing wrong in wanting to share stuffs with your partner for feck's sakes, she further went on to say she's only asking to use the car for a while, not like he's giving it to her to keep yet people won't back down, you can share your most intimate parts with someone but can't share a car? A car fa for jesus's sakes, I must really not be from this planet.u

I wasn't even saying girls make such demands everyday but I know a few people in relationships who have given car gifts to each other so what's so special here if her man can afford it? I'd be saying the same thing if the tables were to be turned for crying out loud.

My annoyance is that most people here are acting like they've never had to ask their partners for anything, just like giving someone a few bucks is no big deal so for some people, so is a car,na just wa abeg, make una continue but we know what's up.

ocelot2006:


No, it is NOT okay. As a matter of fact, I view such men as shameless gold diggers with zero iota of self respect. Most men with our pride won't do that.

freecocoa:
You shouldn't be commenting on this thread if you've never had a boyfriend since you obviously don't understand what's being discussed here, goodnight.

adepiero:
You wan yab me?

I nor know say you dey among o

naijaboiy:


I nor know say you dey among o

Na wash ooo

Truckpusher:
See battle field

Who get this black pant and bra wey una carry fight leave am for here?

Freecocoa
Tashamania
ChineloSA
and all the female warriors una welldone o
Oya make una come carry una black pant and bra before we go burn am.

Tashamania:


Who dey fight who

Truckpusher:
Mechi onu gi

Dem tear your pant too?

Tashamania:


yes, I need new one

bluelover:


very typical!!


just a way to avoid what i said.

i don't have to be in a relationship or be in one to understand the context of what is being said here.

i personally learn from people's experiences and i ask questions where necessary to understand the concepts behind the term 'relationship'.

so you mean all i said made no meaning to you?

how unfortunate

mezebel:
I knw the gal weller,she can't even pedal bicycle let alone voswagen she is expecting her fuckmate to give him...dreamer

freecocoa:
The issue's already over flogged, thing is you didn't wait to understand the reason for my comment, you felt you have sharp fingers therefore can quote just about anyone hurling invectives, I know alot about REAL relationships and how they work so you don't have to lecture me, people older than me seek my opinion on the subject matter so don't ask me if you made no sense, cos whatever sense you could have made, got lost in your bid to sound all smart and independent.

freecocoa:
You all are just a bunch of shameless hypocrites, she's materialistic because she wants to use her boyfriend's car, swear with your worthless life that you've never collected anything from a boyfriend and die by thunder, you people are disgusting to say the least, even people who have no cent to their names dey follow talk, NL don suffer sha.

Truckpusher:
This issue that has kept you guys going for each other's jugular was a radio program aired on 94.1 FM yesterday.

bluelover:

my comments was based on the girls post but then your post seem very contrary like you were supporting her idea of some sort. Hence my reaction, i simply said the truth based on my own view

instead of you trying to convince me to understand what you were trying to say, you were asking me to swear on my life that is worthless and disgusting to you when we haven't even meet before, about demanding from a guy. pls how reasonable is that? how would that even allow me to listen to what you have to say?

now you are saying whatever i was saying got lost in the bid? what dirty bid? i was just expressing my opinions. Anyways that's really nice of you to say,it tells a lot. i will repeat what i said earlier pls go and work on yourself.

thanks alot for all that. i apologize to any one i offended.

#goodday