₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
Have you thought that maybe the 'successful black woman' doesn't want a man?

BS. Most women want a man unless she's homosexual.

Jeon:
Pls educate them about what made him angry...

I can see some ppl with stone heart are making rubbish post about him..

Because he didn't slap August alsina for sleeping with his wife but he had all the smoke.for Chris Rock.

odinson1:
Apart from the fact that This Photo proves nothing,no Sane man would grab another man's dick.

This is some feminist/simp propaganda bullshit

Gay men exist you know?

shantti:
E be like say food plenty for America and it's cheap too

It's rubbish food. Don't you see how big they are?

He still makes that face.

truthsayer009:
She was not properly guided, people don't just wake up and leave their homes out of nothing. A family showing love and paying attention to a child will not have type of issues. I retain my opinion on this based on the evidences of number of people It has worked for. Percentage of occurrence and success is what I base my decision on.

During the ages of 10 to 18 when I have kids who got attained their passports, I will make sure they get the Nigerian training bi-yearly.

I know this because it works & this is exactly what I would do.

Bi yearly ke? As for me I'm thinking of sending my kids to school there and they can return when they're 16 like I did.

They need to learn their culture.

Private school was my aim but what happened with that boy is off-putting

KanwuliaBaby:
You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME!

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them!

I told them YES! In self defense.
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅

Is this what the police do in the US?

In the UK, they'll accuse you of wasting police time

KanwuliaBaby:
Na your own you dey talk o!
See what I find in her room almost EVERY DAY!

One day we ended up in the ER!
Severe constipation. They had to go in and dig out a lot of POO! To drink water nko?

If you cook, they will just wrap the food in plastic bag and straight to the NEIGHBORS’ trash! :

Na you go taya ke!

Rotten food everywhere. So I wait till 3:00AM wake them alll up to start cleaning. Shikena!

Ha! You mean they aren't eating fruit either?

Did she learn from having to go to the ER?

Growing up I was never given more than 2 snacks a day.

Even as an adult I feel guilty when I overindulge.

KanwuliaBaby:
This one is an over-bloomer! She is bigger than most 17 year olds. With make up, she looks 18!

Her shoes are already SIZE 10!

Ha.

On a real note sis, limit what she eats.

If she looks like this now, it's only gonna get worse as she gets older.

Beremx:
good evening Auntie Kanwulia. Longest time and how are you doing? Trust you are good.

@topic, when we were growing up as teenagers during our time, who born you to wear skimpy clothes? Who even will buy for you?
There was a lot of discipline by our parents.
Children of these days no dey hear word both home and abroad. The social media has worsened everything by interfering in their upbringing. Abeg hold your daughter wella. No mind the yeye police people

The kids get it from their friends or buy it with money they've saved up.

KanwuliaBaby:
@1Sharon

Back to that 11 y/o boy.
The mother complained that while she was at work, the little boy was SELLING IGBO- marijuana from her mail box!
She called the police and had him ARRESTED!✅
They took him straight to a psych ward.
She was gonna kill him ke. So she just called the police instead.


Some people got a hold of him via TIk Tok and made him their “drug mule”!

I started receiving all kinds of packages from FedEx, Amazon, EBay and God knows where else. I warned all the children that if they order ANYTHING without my permission, I will confiscate it.✅

Yes! You call the police on your kids before they call the police on JHUOOO!
Let them start having a JUVVY RECORD WITH THE STATE- push it back to them.

Now, juvvy records are sealed till you as a parent decide to seal it PERMANENTLY!

If you DO NOT UNSEAL the juvvy record, there are grave consequences for that unfortunate child.

1. You can’t join the army, navy or military.
2. No government scholarships
3. The background check will have red flags for job applications.

Mogbeee. I thought you were going to say he started having sex.

Selling drugs, much worse

Child criminal.


As for me personally no 11 year old will have a phone.

KanwuliaBaby:
Let me let you know how fast these little boys and girls can be IF YOU FO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO EVERY DETAIL.

1. Girls can suck **** to make money!✅
There are reports of 10 year olds having ****-sucking competitions in school bathrooms and behind school buses FOR MONEY!✅

2. I did not assault anyone. The police were infringing on my parental rights and thought they could intimidate me.

3. Yes! That little lady is 13!✅
We went to a kid’s party one day, before I knew what was happening, she had mascara and lipstick on. One DUDE called me and ask why I let her out of the house like that. I said I didn’t. She just went to the bathroom and did it. I totally ignored her. She wanted me to make a scene in public. I did not fall for it.

When we got home, we suspended her phone and electronic privileges for SIX MONTHS!✅

This is a STRAIGHT As student. We are talking TWO GRADE CLASSES above her age. But she wanno hang with the big girls! Some spoiled, rich white kids in their school are teaching them about “independence”!


I was a teenager in Nigeria, not in the US. We did not have such latitude.

This is the age of Snapchat and Tik Tok. You can’t compare.

Example:

I worked at a psych facility last year.
One 11 y/o boy was sent there by his mother or aunt/guardian. Guess what he was doing?

Right. Looking at her picture, not surprised seeing her. She does look alot older for her age.

Girls who matured much earlier were the ones who wanted to look grow beyond their years with revealing clothing and make-up. If your daughter was a tomboy or a late bloomer. She'll have wanted to look like a child for much longer.

Karleb:
Nice perspective.

But I was expecting that you buttress how redpill is like a religion.

I know two atheist here who rejects religious dogma but I still don't know how they fail to see that redpillism is full of dogma.

It's just like dumping N1000 notes for N200 and claiming the later isn't money.

The redpill doesn't threaten you with fire and brimstone if you don't believe, calm down.

HardMirror:
Guess why I opened this thread. It is not because of "he vs she"... i don't like it too. I have a gf I care very much about.

I just had a very funny experience involving 3 women one is my client and I am a client to 2 of of them. 2 of them employed aggressive emotional blackmail just because of small balance they are to pay. Lol. It was funny how much effort they put into the blackmail trying to make me fight my client and my client also trying to make me fight the other 2. It was just funny and guys almost never do this. I have seen my female clients doing this over and over again. One even tried to seduce me so she wont pay for goods delivered to her and when I was not having it, she wanted to turn it to fight. Lol

KanwuliaBaby:
I don’t think you understand the mindset of teenagers. You can only talk. They will do what they want to do. If you react, you are giving them the greatest satisfaction.

You don’t know in this day and age children can get money from friends or sell some of their stuff?

You can talk till your voice is gone, I choose ACTION only.

First, I change their schools or call the cops on them. Simple.✅

You and I have both been teenagers, so we both know the mindset. I already stated that I get it. The reason why they're doing what they they want is because they don't get it.

I know that
I agree with action aswell. I personally will get rid of any provocative clothing

KanwuliaBaby:
Explain further please.
Highlight of whose parenting?
Na only me dey parent am? Im papa nor dey house?
Did you ever see me dress like an ashi on or off NL?

We don’t live in places like Ajegunle or “Banana Island” here. This is a private residential area. We don’t have Alaye-Slayers here in COBB COUNRRRRY!
Thank you!

Na for this kain neighborhood you wanno comit crime? Where every one if FREE to own a GUN? Kam try ya best luck!

Both of you in a way since you're supposed to be a team. Where did she get the clothes or money to buy them from?
You said she loved to dress provocatively, so it's something you let slide for a while.


I understand it's not easy, as a 13 year old, she doesn't get it. As an adult, she probably gets it now, I do aswell. Think back to when you were 13, she thought she was grown because her curves were coming in. Young girls who were allowed to dress however and act however were the type to have boyfriends too early and get pregnant while still a teen.

Well the police seems to agree with you so they left, you're lucky it could have gone left, they could have kicked down the door accuse you of sexual assault.

Is the pic your daughter at 13?

KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

I'm sorry I'm your daughter is dressing provocatively at 13, isn't that a highlight of your parenting?

And what if she got raped while she was outside in just her underwear?

Ilamina:
I am rivers and bayelsa hybrid

My father is from rivers, my mother is from bayelsa

What's yours

Interesting to finally know where you're from

Gerrard59:
According to?

Stats.

Kobojunkie:
What are in the world are you trying to do?

You want them imbe-cile to then declare that in order to "fulfill all righteousness" there daughters should also not be educated as their wives/sex slaves aren't?

The point is they don't want for their own daughters what they want in the women SOME of those kinds of men prefer.

"Successful women are bla bla bla"

When they have daughters, they'd encourage her to be just like them.

CAPSLOCKED:
MAYBE THEY'RE SINGLE BECAUSE MOST SUCCESSFUL WOMEN WOULD RATHER GO FOR MORE SUCCESSFUL MEN, AND WE KNOW THE NUMBER OF MEN UP IN THAT ZONE IS LIMITED COMPARED TO AVERAGE AND POOR MEN.

A RICH MAN CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH A STRUGGLING GRADUATE OR FRUIT HAWKER. A RICH WOMAN WILL ONLY SETTLE FOR RICH DUDES. THE SMARTER SHE IS THE SMARTER A PARTNER SHE'LL SEEK FOR. THE MORE EXPOSED SHE IS THE MORE SHE'LL BE LOOKING TO SETTLE FOR A MORE EXPOSED MAN. LET'S NOT PRETEND TODAY THAT HYPERGAMY DOESN'T EXIST.

I know about hypergamy bro and it sort of proves the point.

Men are okay and some might even prefer marrying women less than they are. But women wouldn't want a man less than she is.

SIRTee15:
What's wrong with doctors from India?
Black man sef they feel fly...

Alot of them have faced disciplinary action.

Some of them can be musty aawell

Maybe they're just to busy to take care of themselves

But she was okay to sleep with and date a tailor?

LagosInter:
A man has no issue with his woman being educated. He only has issues with the behaviour usually found in such women- arrogance, pride, disloyalty, disrespect etc.

If a man is sure of your loyalty and support, he would be happy and would marry you even if you are the president of Nigeria.

I understand that men see those kind of women as a turn off.

But when they have daughters, they encourage them to be highly educated and successful as those women!

ImaIma1:
Less educated or illiterate, most educated men prefer equally educated ladies; someone that can match them intellectually.

The types that go out of their way to marry less educated or illiterate women are a different topic altogether

That's exactly what this topic is about.

ImaIma1:
Exactly! When I look around my environment and beyond, i don't see educated men married to illiterate women. I don't think that is a thing at all.

An educated man wants to marry an equally educated woman. Maybe the op is talking of the category of men who prefer to go to the village to find a wife they can tame.

Less educated and illiteracy are not interchangable.

socialmediaman:
I think you're imagining too much or maybe referring to a much older generation of men. I don't think most PhD or Master's or Bachelor's level educated men would think that way. They may prefer younger women but not lowly (poorly) educated.

Don't gaslight me abeg. On this very forum, men have repeatedly stated women who are highly educated and thus very successful are a turn off because they won't submit and allow them to dominate.

Nigerian men have an issue with a woman that even owns a car for Christ sake!

Favfables1:
Sweetheart...

I don't know where you heard this from, but I WILL NEVER MARRY AN UNEDUCATED WOMAN

likeeee....
How we won communicate?
How will she raise my kids?

Abeg o...
The future of my seeds is at stake here ....
Make she carry her wahala comot Biko....

The OP said nothing about UNEDUCATED women. I said women with LESS education. Meaning a secondary education at most.

ednut1:
This is called hasty generalization. Men are marrying successful and highly educated women. The ones being avoided are the disrespectful ones who talk to men anyhow. The men are raising their daughters to compete and be successful but not rude and arrogant like we have for some successful women

That's funny because alot of successful BLACK women are single.
Look at the Nigerian women in entertainment, in music and film.

Compete with who? A man?

Well a degre in microbiology and biochemistry can lead to a career in the lab.

Kobojunkie:
So long as you live under him, learn to die to your ego and abide by his rules. Take along a favorite book to those meetings to read, or use the time to catch up on homework without posing a nuisance.
That you are an atheist no mean say you go die if you enter church so what exactly is the big deal here?

You already have religious freedom, meaning you already don't believe as he does, so when you eventually move out of his place, you can then gain all the other freedoms you seek.

How does he have religious freedom?