Family › Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by 1Sharon(f): 10:21am On Aug 13, 2024 |
idahme: Use ur head for once, didn't you read there was complications in the relationship between the mother and father? [b]Did you read the mum prevented him from pair bonding with the child? [/b]Women will never accept accountability for once in their lifetime, you have not accepted accountability for feeding yourself is it this you will accept?  Typical excuse of deadbeat fathers. It's like you all read from the same script. How comes the same mother wasn't able to stop the child from finding her father? Why was the daughter successful at connecting, but he wasn't? The man never wanted to be found, now who truly lacks accountability? |
Family › Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by 1Sharon(f): 11:19pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
Another mixed race offspring with an absent black father... what else is new? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How I Got NHS Job After Over 1k Applications And 15 Interviews by 1Sharon(f): 6:49pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
How easy was it for you to get HCPC registered? |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Difficult To Date Female Medics by 1Sharon(f): 6:26pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
You are not equally yoked. Most female medics want other medics. |
Fashion › Re: Fraud, Identity Theft Committed By Chidimma Vanessa's Mother - SA Home Affairs by 1Sharon(f): 6:13pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
Sepukku: If he did appropriate a Yoruba name how does that change the fact that he is of Nigerian origin be it Itshekiri, Idoma, Yoruba or Igbo.
It was clear from day one that he was of igbo extract and likely used a different name to enter South Africa owing to a myriad of explanations which could be from being denied entry with original passport to declaring a different age to change his eligibility to not having a birth certificate issued in Nigeria.
Smells of ethnic bigotry if you ask me.
How many of the Nigerian super eagles of yester years use their real ages to become eligible to play overseas? Wait. Are you realy justifying what he did? What's your point? |
Fashion › Re: Fraud, Identity Theft Committed By Chidimma Vanessa's Mother - SA Home Affairs by 1Sharon(f): 4:08pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
Konquest: How's it going @1Sharon? 
As someone who pays attention to little details with the skills of a private investigator, I took off a few minutes of my precious time to get more details through advanced data mining and found the information below that "succinctly" suggests that her father is of Ibo ethnicity. I've added a Web link for you and attached the picture of the girl and her father right BELOW.
There's another Nigerian-South African 27-year-old by the name of Felicia Modúpẹ́ Lutendo Bajọmọ who was bred under the sunny skies of Shayandima in Limpopo to a South African mother and a Nigerian father, Dr. Abiodun Sunday Bajọmọ. She represented Limpopo in the screening in that South African beauty contest but made it into the top 30 after screening. She didn't make the final list of contestants.
It’s been a series of tough weeks for a gifted kid with Nigerian roots to prove her South Africanness. Chidimma Adetshina was born and raised in Soweto by a naturalised South African mum and a Nigerian father, Chief Michael Adetshina, aka Okey Wawa (Anu ka Enyi) — a first-generation Nigerian in South Africa, who has served in different capacities in the Nigerian community in Western Cape, South Africa."
Source: https://lagostojozi.com/jollof-x-amapiano-diary/the-nigerian-miss-south-africa/
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"Chidimma Vanessa Onwe Adetshina alongside her dad, Michael Adetshina, known as Okey Wawa. Image provided: Owelle Ndigbo SA Good work! This man appropriated a yoruba name for what reason? Does Chidinma's father also need to be investigated for identity theft? 🧐 I feel like these finding deserve a separate thread tbh |
Fashion › Re: Fraud, Identity Theft Committed By Chidimma Vanessa's Mother - SA Home Affairs by 1Sharon(f): 12:45am On Aug 08, 2024 |
Konquest: I can't make a sense out of that spelling combination with a letter T as well. Her "opaque" father who is alleged to be a Nigerian is not known yet. Only he can add more clarity to his ancestry because NO family in Nigeria or in the Diaspora Yoruba population centers in the UK, United States, Canada, France, Cote d'Ivoire, etc, uses the spelling combination Adetsina. The ONLY other spelling I see is "Adeshina" with an "H" but "Adesina" is the STANDARD Yoruba spelling. Heck, even the iconic British-Nigerian singer and 1986 Grammy Award winner Sade Adu (who was born in Ibadan with a London School of Economics and Political Science graduate father and an English mother who trained as a registered nurse) uses the correct spelling of Sade and NOT "Shade" with the letter H used by a few.
One other thing is that if her mother is really a South African citizen, the beauty contestant should have used a South African name given by her mother's lineage in combination with her supposedly Nigerian-derived surname to blend with her potential South African fans.
Well see how things pan out down the road for them all. I saw Seppuku's response to you and he may be right. It could be a typo on the end of the south african government. Even at that, I still have some questions on her father's origin Her mother is from Mozambique allegedly |
Romance › Re: What Is The Highest Age Gap You Can Take Between You And Your Partner? by 1Sharon(f): 12:11am On Aug 08, 2024 |
She might feel insulted. Most women want older men. |
Fashion › Re: Fraud, Identity Theft Committed By Chidimma Vanessa's Mother - SA Home Affairs by 1Sharon(f): 11:24pm On Aug 07, 2024*. Modified: 11:48pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
YungG: But how does it concern chidimma...even if the mother is not a south African.. for the fact chidimma was born within the four walls of South Africa..makes her to be a south African.. Interesting. She's no longer Nigerian because you see a benefit. If rebels wanted to Kill SAns, will you say this? |
Fashion › Re: Fraud, Identity Theft Committed By Chidimma Vanessa's Mother - SA Home Affairs by 1Sharon(f): 11:16pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
swiych: Everybody is forming saint, I love the fact that she's bearing full names from each tribe that loves fooling themselves the most on social media, now, none of them wants to abuse eachother LOL. Thank you Chidimma Adetshina for confusing those tribes, first time I see them having sense on nl. Is her father yoruba or Igbo? I'm trying to make sense of the name 'Adetshina' |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Angry Response To A Job Invite by 1Sharon(f): 9:52pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
GloriousGbola: an important part of an interview is seeing the candidate in person and gauging him/her. especially for client facing roles
you cant see these things over an internet connection, especially when you are dealing with strangers you have never met before and who are not recommended by anyone
the other day i called a candidate and the guy was saying yeah yeah yeah. i was thoroughly irritated and i cut off the call immediately.
the role would be in a client head office. that is how the guy would be saying yeah yeah yeah to the ceo and ogas at the top They do virtual interviews for "non serious jobs" like waitressing or retail in the UK. But for serious jobs like a Doctor or nurse, they need to see you in person. I kind of see where OP is coming from but he could have been less crass. Virtual interviews save time. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Soldiers Touching Muslim Women In Hijab by 1Sharon(f): 9:11pm On Aug 06, 2024 |
BloodyDoe: LoL, so what makes a woman wearing hijab special? That makes her untouchable?. Bloody notherner wants to turn the whole paid drama called protest into a religion war. Good try!
WTF is " Tinubu Soldiers"? With that nasty head covering she could be a suicide bomber, who knows? Don't mind them o. I even thought the soldier was touching her inappropriately |
Christianity Etc › Re: Are You In Inside Mami Water River? by 1Sharon(f): 5:51am On Aug 06, 2024 |
Mercisharelove: In the thickness of darkness by THE GRACE GRACE OF OUR CHRIST JESUS, you should command light to shine. Let there be a way out hallelujah hallelujah! Way out for what? We mami water just want to make friends |
Family › Re: . by 1Sharon(f): 5:32am On Aug 06, 2024 |
2Radii: Lol... I am from Ekiti, ask about us very well ma, we take care of our women .
None of my Ex will ever regret dating me cus even while they are all married, they are still striking a communication with me every now and then, wishing circumstances didn't separate us. While one was even planning to move away from her husband house and move in with me with three kids (tho the man has not paid her price sha), one want me to sha be visiting her, I don't know what she wants from me.
Inasmuch as I won't allow u sitting down idle in my house without doing ur own trade, I would never ask you how much u made today talk more of bringing a certain percentage put of it for this or dat.
I know my role as a man, I provide that even my woman confess to me that a be man. I make a decent amount in a month averaging 1.5m, I don't womanise or drink, I mumu small as well, and I easily overlook things.
Tho I never said I am thoroughly innocent as I have my own dark side which is I hate disrespect from a woman I am taking care of, I can't stand it when u disrespect me unprovoked eehn, madam I can rap.
I am not saying all these to sugarcoat but for a woman to call u a sweet guy hmmm know that u must have bn a mumu, and I ready to be a mumu so far my woman respect me for that.
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Family › Re: Who Do Women Love Money by 1Sharon(f): 10:53pm On Aug 05, 2024 |
StPete: Everyone loves money but interestingly most men don’t beg for it, rather they work hard to make it. A vast number of ladies love to beg!
From the rich to the average to the poor, they beg at the slightest opportunity. It is repulsive. And when u refuse to give, they gaslight you with the silliest of things You need to see men around their rich friends, stop the cap. |
Family › Re: . by 1Sharon(f): 10:41pm On Aug 05, 2024*. Modified: 10:58pm On Aug 05, 2024 |
2Radii: Normal normal a no dey support women..
But with ur last lines eehn, abeg even if u want to go back to him, let him sort all those out first
Let him learn to provide Let him pay for the rent And some other unmentionables...
But wait, where una dey see all these Oloriburuku men self?? Where??
Make una date us una no go gree, una go talk say we no tall reach 8ft plus, but na we dey take care of our women pass. Another good guy that is not "like the rest". Men like you are usually the worst. Rest |
Politics › Re: Chris Uba Attacks Artisan Who Demanded Payment For Completed Work In London Home by 1Sharon(f): 10:24pm On Aug 05, 2024 |
Pathetic  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Their Parents’s Poverty But Can’t Stand Their Husband? by 1Sharon(f): 9:29am On Aug 04, 2024 |
Because you can't change your parents but you can leave your husband. |
Crime › Re: Househelp Confesses To Killing Justice Ajumogobia’s Daughter In Lagos by 1Sharon(f): 2:14pm On Aug 03, 2024 |
slimfit1: Maybe Karma taking charge the most dangerous people in Nigeria are judges. Isn't she a Doctor?  |
Health › Re: Can A Man Become Impotent After Giving Birth To One Or Two Childrens? by 1Sharon(f): 3:31am On Aug 03, 2024 |
Afonjatijati: Take the kids for DNA test. They were never his. You rush jump gun. You didn't even ask what kind of lifestyle OP is living . |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Accuses Her Nigerian Husband Of Beating Her (Video) by 1Sharon(f): 7:45pm On Aug 01, 2024 |
zagorakis: Bleep off, you are bloody liar, I refuse to be manipulated by your crocodile tears. You are shedding crocodile tears because you think you have lost, he has now gotten his papers, I can imagine what you did to him while waiting for his papers. Shame on you woman, crocodile tears can not save you. Bunch of manipulators. You're only saying this because a Nigerian man is the accused  If the accused was SA or even indian, you won't make this comment. |
Romance › Re: Six-figure Doctor Settles For Trash Collector Who Killed Her After 3yr Marriage by 1Sharon(f): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2024 |
A woman out earning them is never a problem they say. Lies. |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Accuses Her Nigerian Husband Of Beating Her (Video) by 1Sharon(f): 6:11pm On Aug 01, 2024*. Modified: 7:44pm On Aug 01, 2024 |
Tightpussy2024: Any woman that doesn't bill is virtuous and better than naija women. The criteria for "betterness" is non-billing. Once the women in a country are independent and don't bill men,you will see naija men sing their praises Yeah. They sing their praises then years down the line, they give them domestic sunglasses.
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Romance › Re: South African Lady Accuses Her Nigerian Husband Of Beating Her (Video) by 1Sharon(f): 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2024 |
Lionessza6: When things were good she was insulting South African men ....and I can bet you her Nigerian in-laws had no problem with that ..... Yeah. I'm certain she also insulted Nigerian women and felt she was better because the Nigerian man told her she was special. Same thing these Nigerian men are doing to white women, they're telling them they're special, only to receive the same outcome years down the line. If you want to date outside your culture, deal with your consequences by yourself |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Accuses Her Nigerian Husband Of Beating Her (Video) by 1Sharon(f): 5:46pm On Aug 01, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Aribemchukwu: Justice Ajumogobia’s Daughter Killed In Lagos by 1Sharon(f): 10:20pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
franchasng: Don't let anybody deceive you, there is nothing as valuable as having your own family (wife/husband and kids). If she was living with them, this wouldn't have befell her.
As a lady, no matter the success, you need a man. It is better to be once married with kids and divorced than to die single and never married with kids. Because spouses don't kill each other?  gtf |
Romance › Re: If You're On A First Date,what Behaviour From A Man/woman Turns You Off? by 1Sharon(f): 6:27pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
Reggaero: u said u hate table manners and the last time i checked the meaning of table manners it means:dont talk while eating ,abi shey i lie That's one meaning. You can talk while your mouth isn't full |
Romance › Re: Help: I'm Not Attached To Anyone by 1Sharon(f): 3:51pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
pansophist: You are normal. You are asexual. Asexual people are not sexually attracted to others in most case. *Attached, not attracted. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Jailed 15 Years For Rape In UK Flees To Nigeria by 1Sharon(f): 1:58pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
humberjade: I am not justifying the evil perpetrated by the man, I am just pointing out how the lady is using the opportunity presented by the ugly incident to get her Resi Permit. Saying even "her own family disowned her" is most likely false. Now, whether the rape actually happened or not, I don't know, but what I know is that, this case is between a man who couldn't control his urge and a woman who took advantage of the result to further her course. Anybody that is a victim of human trafficking is automatically given asylum status. They were brought into the country under a false pretext, they would not be sent back. That's the law in the UK. |
Romance › Re: Dear Men, Don't Corrupt Your Bloodline. by 1Sharon(f): 1:34pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN: You've been very active lately. Did your boyfriend break your heart? Yes he did. He told me I was too old and didn't want to marry an evening newspaper. He said I would die alone. I am bitter, I am lashing out. Oniyeye! |
Romance › Re: Dear Men, Don't Corrupt Your Bloodline. by 1Sharon(f): 1:29pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN: Is that how you do it in your family? We apply a little bit of sense in my own family. Sure  Only you. |
Family › Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by 1Sharon(f): 1:25pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
He loves you and thats why he beats you, that's a good man right there. Husbands are scarce.
Or do you want to become a single mother? |