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spiritedtete:
Wrong again...

They are forced to conform to church doctrines... society rules and thereby can't come out free to Express what or who they really are. Reason they sneak to cheat.

Only the ones who understand that society has no influence on them goes out to marry however they like.

Does church doctrine support extra-marital relations?

spiritedtete:
The society forced them to marry 1.. then they grow and realise they are trapped..that they are not really a 1 woman's man.


Don't get mo wrong... "there for better for worse men"

These are the people that know the meaning of Sacrifice.. and they stand by a woman.. by a vow and by a promise....

Also note that when it comes to love... a man can love multiple... but! Can't Sacrifice for multiple.

Society forced them to marry one? What are you talking about??

You can legally marry more than one wife in Nigeria, so come up with a better excuse. Abegiii

Hope777:
How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though

Why we never seen an amputee get cured?

spiritedtete:
Call it whatever you want it... nobody is killing anyone... it's their life and it is their choice... don't force a donkey to be a horse...

If my son want to marry 13 women... it is his choice his consequence...

If my daughter want to be the 55th wife ... it is also her choice.

However i will not fail as a father to make sure they are strong enough to know what is choice and what is independence... you can't force people to live the life you want. No way!

Force a donkey to be a horse? What do you mean by that?

So why can't these men marry 1 woman from the start? You can marry more than 1 wife you know?

Who forced them to marry 1 woman?

DenreleDave:
Back to ur question...
If someone opens ur padlock with any key, will you be happy with that? No

But how do u feel when your own personal key can open any padlock you wana open? Happy abi

That's how it is

Women are padlock and should be open with just a particular key

While men are master key that should open any padlock he wants to open


Final answer

If women can be opened with just a particular key, how would you be a master key?

imitateMe:
Asking a male friend for airtime is worse.

Oh really? Ok

spiritedtete:
It is not your business if i cheat or not... it is mine... my life also with my spouse .. i can decide to marry 39 women at once "traditionally"... I have not broken any law.


It is okay to keep a VOW... but if you can't keep keep one woman dont keep any Vow.


Do as many women as you want... it is your life and it is their choice.

Enough of this Self impose doctrines.

It's funny how you " men are polygamous" crew are all married to ONE woman.

If you truly believed in that statement, you men would multiple women right from the start.

But instead what you do is to marry one woman and sneak around while shouting "men are polygamous"

Hypocrisy

MNDY:
Abi o, who are the men cheating with?

Women reserve the right to accept or decline sexual advances made at them. Why then is society making it seem like the man is at fault when the woman also likes and gives in?

If the resistance increases, the demand will reduce. How? The answer is in raising and becoming an independent woman.

You as a married man is supposed to know better.

Your wife made the marriage vows with you not the other lady.

imitateMe:
The same tradition that makes it seem okay for a young girl to demand airtime and money from an innocent young boy.

You're comparing cheating to asking for airtime?

UnknownQueen:
Our useless culture made it so, sometimes I wish I could change some certain things about our useless culture, but unfortunately for me there's nothing I can do....

If we can't beat them, we just join them...
BTW, I guess I'm one of the lucky married women, cos when people complain about domestic, sexual abuse amongst others, I can't help but thank God for giving me a man Dat suits my sweet self....

Lol but how do you know he doesn't cheat?

I used to play chess with my bro, but can't remember how to play it anymore

Tensor:
It's like na you they sell the CCTV camera

Just read your bible and pray unceasingly

FKseun:
NONSENSE!!!
THIS HAPPENS WHEN YOU SET YOU CCTV DVR TO RECORD "MOTION" ONLY!!! ANY CONTINOUS FORWARD MOVEMENT APPEARS TO DISAPPEAR WHEN IT IS OUT OF RANGE!!!

What do you mean?
Something that I witnessed with my very eyes.

If you don't know that there are things in this world, go and ask.

wamide042:
If you have older people around you please try and ask them...
If they are not people like you, am sure they will enlighten you more on what is called.. ‘Ofa’... or better say ‘Ota’ (spiritual bullet)..

Your response is expected. You don't have an answer.

wamide042:
They will simply tell you it’s just a mere coincidence...
I have a bro you always believe that there is nothing like ‘Aye’ (evilworld)...if you know what i mean....
Am sure he must have said it somewhere and they decided to show him ‘Aye’..
He was attacked with spiritual arrow the one yourba’s call ‘Ofa’..... he was still forming ‘educated modern world’ he was told not to treat himself in the hospital but the refused and that took a drastic turn.. he almost died if not for the timely intervention of our grandpa who treated him in the orthodox way....
After he was fully recovered no one told him there is ‘Aye’......he was like ‘’ Ah!!! Aye get mi...

How did you know he was attacked with ofa ? Do you have proof?

What did the doctors say was wrong with him?

Hope you know the healthcare in Nigeria is poor. Ppl die needlessly.

Nigeria. Why is an actors mum presenting a show for? Is she a star?

What has she done to become famous? So annoying

Ilamina:
I miss him

The arrogant londoner

Lool he's a smart man

Ilamina:
According to him, he said I am still proper Nigerian until I graduate

I.stopped my third year

Oh I just read the title again

Shymex lol where is he?

Emescot:
Which Bible do you think is the correct one?

The Coptic bible

Lol someone is seeking attention

Ilamina:
Yes, it hurts

Just because I took a break from school does not mean, all.of.a sudden, just irrelevant to him

But you have western experience tho?

Emescot:
I like the fact they don't believe in hell, their explanation on that makes sense, but I hate the fact they don't pray before anything, I hate the fact they don't see Jesus as God, I hate the fact that they think their Bible is the only correct one, I hate that they teach that every other religion is a tool of the devil, they teach that Christ will found a temporary kingdom here on earth, but forgot I that Jesus said in John's Gospel "My kingdom is not of this World...".

What do I know self...

Don't you believe your own bible is the correct one?

I have said it many times on this forum that Jehovah witnesses are my favourite brand of Christians.

Unlike the other loud mouths,

they walk the talk.

You wanted to beat children for breaking a plate??

An accident?

Why are Nigerians such sadists?


I've also been accused of being told not to greet an elder as a child.

Come with your facts before making such big claims

psychologygh:
Yea I totally understand your points and hoping when you get your house in order,you welcome your diasporans back home.Most of them are suffering frim racism,discrimination, persecutions, etc in these white people's lands and most want to at least visit once the motherland as they call Africa.Ghana couldn't invite them home in the 70s and 80s due to our then crisis. Now we have launched the Year of Return. There's a DNA ancestor testing that identify the particular tribe the African American slave ancestors and where they come from.Some come to visit these countries. For Jamaica and Ghana,the bond is very present that's why we don't joke with Jamaican dancehall music and culture in Ghana. Jamaicans are very common to see here.Below is the flag of both Jamaican and Ashanti Kingdom flags and they recognize the Ashanti King and respect him as their King.He visited Jamaica this year.
1.Jamaica flag
2.Ashanti Kingdom flag which is far older than even the Jamaican flag

Interesting. Its nice to know the returnee situation didn't turn to a Liberia 2.0.

psychologygh:
Am a Ghanaian and the reason why majority of Jamaicans claim to be Ghanaians is the strong connection and history between Jamaica and Ghana. Firstly there are thousands of Jamaicans who base in Ghana and naturalize as Ghanaians and have a strong association called the Carribians Ghana Association.It's not only Jamicans who see themselves as Ghanaians buh majority of the Carribians including Guyana,Trinidad and Tobago, Suriname,and others.About Jamaicans there's a strong ethnic group or tribe in Jamaica called the Maroons who were break away and escaped slaves who ran into the mountains and deep forests in Jamaica during the slave trade.These Maroons were originally Ashanti warriors who were captured during a defeat in battle with the British and sold into slavery.Due to their high training and endurance,they mostly broke off and rebelled against the slave masters.They still kept most of their Akan languages and culture till date buh they were later mixed with other ethnic groups from other countries as they expanded.Then there was the greatest female Jamaican warrior Queen Nanny who was a break away slave and a queen of the Ashantis before she was captured and sold.She was very powerful and commanded armies of break away slaves to help create independence in Jamaica and some parts of the Carribians. In Guyana,an Akan break away slave is also a huge warrior and legend in their freedom as a nation.Then later after the slave trade the most popular Pan African and Jamaican hero Marcus Garvey who wanted to transport former freed slaves back to Africa their root bought a huge ship and named it The Black Star Line. That's where Kwame Nkrumah whose mentor was Marcus Garvey took the star and name The Black Star of Africa and inserted it into the Ghanaian flag.And this year of return that Ghana organized, the president traveled to Jamaica and the whole of Carribians to secure visa free entry into all countries by both citizens and invited them to return home.Bob Marley 's wife Rita Marley was given a Ghanaian citizenship and up till date Jamaican culture is very rich in Ghana and the Ghanaian culture is very rich in Jamaica too.Their flags are common in Ghana. What has Nigeria done to connect with the millions of Blacks in Brazil because they also see themselves as Nigerians from Igbos and Yorubas.Don't wait for them to be wealthy before you accept and connect with them.

Oh wow! Never knew the relationship between ghanaians and jamaicans are this deep !

But I'm sorry, its insensitive of you to compare the set-up in Nigeria to ghana and ask why we didn't invite the diasporas home?

Ghana and Nigeria have completely different political scenarios going on. Nigerians disunity is a product of this. Does Ghana experience the threat of islamic extremists? Is ghana a large diverse nation with tribes with completely different views and mindsets?? Nope.

So its saddening that carribeans love ghanaians but hate nigerians. You as an African should know better.

Its completely ignorance on their part that they hate Nigerians without knowing our history.

They're so ignorant sorry. How can most of the slave descendants be from one place?

What about the other west African nations?

You ghanaians need to realise that you're being used. The carribeans are just attaching themselves to a peaceful country with a wealthy history.

Contrary to your first paragraph, I disagree ghanaians and jamaicans aren't similar at all.

Jamaicans and Nigerians are more similar to each other and I'm not just saying that cos I'm Nigerian.

midnighter:
Hm. But of course we fought it now but I think ghana was the first independent country in Africa or something like that

Yeah of course we are not together but the way we were formed and the ethnic makeup of Nigeria is

a. Very complicated and not really conducive to successful cohesion
b. Not our fault! how can you be together with people you dont like?

I dont even know. Does Ghana have a problem with oil militancy and Islamist terrorism? Because thats whats even disturbing us right now

Its not a fair comparison abeg

By the way are Jamaicans "together" themselves? They dont seem too together to me.

The caribbean countries that look "together" are those quiet ones like Barbados, Bahamas, st. Kitts and Nevis etc. The stories coming out of Jamaica and Trinidad and tobago no follow at all

Chop am. The exact same points I would say.

They really think we sat down and drank juice while being colonised?
What chance did they think we stand with ppl with weapons ?
That comment upsets me so much I can't even.. it's just so ignorant.
If jamaicans knew the history of Nigeria, they would be more sensitive.

A country were the age of consent is 11 and some ppl believe in marrying 14 yr olds.

And they say we aren't together?

Let jamaicans have multiple ethnicities and let's see how together they would be

midnighter:
Well, without sounding too negative I think that should be good for them. They will have so many crazy experiences if they come here unprepared

Imagine, from Jamaica to Nigeria lol

Lol yh I do agree.

Do you know that they hate Nigerians?

They accuse us of not fighting colonization like the ghanaians did.

They also accuse us of not being together like ghanaians are.



Ilamina what do you think?

midnighter:
Exactly lol. I never understood it

they are a mixture of West african groups. they even have some igbo in their Patois but still they insist they must be ghanaians

Bwahha

Lol dont mind the stark illiterates.

How exactly does it make sense for the same group of tribesmen to be taken from one country only and dumped on the same island.

The slaves were mixed up

nairalandposter:
If their ancestry is Ghanaian why cant they acknowledge that?

They do LOVE to acknowledge it. Lots of them go to ghana instead of Nigeria

orisa37:
That's from your yansh.

Yours is from ur mouth which is abnormal

The cowardly black race.

Maybe its God's will for you all to die?