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Failing 1st year

ikwedim:
The truth is this country is gone. A man killed and admit he killed. What the hell is he doing in cell? Does he even needs to get to cell? That is why the killing won't stop because once you kill someone, automatically you are a celebrity. Nonsense. Try this in asia Country. Dead direct

I agree. But I feel like he's still useful to the police via the revenue he's generating for the media

TheBeat:
Those names like Ojukwu, Onwuariri, aririegbu etc. Names given before the coming of missionaries. No Christian parent would name their kids onwuegbu. Not because they are meaningless or evil but do not have 'Christian coloration'

Ok what do those names mean? Do any of them refer to traditional gods Igbos used to worship?

Any Nigerians studying in Ukraine?

They all sound like something Patrick Obahiagbon would say.

Why call a baby an outcast?

TheBeat:
Christianity has taken over most of our culture. It has nothing to do with the name Ojukwu. All the ancient names are gradually dying. Parents do not name their kids names like Okeke, okorie any longer. Again Ojukwu was his last name or simply his surname. His first name is Chukwuemeka. People are trying to balance culture and Christianity. That's why names with Chi or Chukwu is mostly used these days instead of the old tribal names. Uche is actually Uchechi or Uchechukwu.
Moreover, this is happening all over Nigeria and the world in general. I have never seen a Yoruba man having Awolowo as his first name. Can you explain why?
I have a Chinese friend called Frank and an Indian called John. English and Christianity are doing wonders.

Pls what are old igbo tribal names?

sonnie10:
Is it only me or it’s just like that. Why is that when I think 30 years ago I think of the 70s instead of 1990.

Sameee here. Time goes so quick

Jewessgratitude:
It is you who just made no sense here, aunty wey mumu like you.

Why is igbo culture just so unfair to women?

Most intelligent tribe indeed

Jewessgratitude:
Which of them! Is Imade a Yoruba name? For your info, Imade is an Edo name. Dont know what the other one bears. So your point exactly?

If we are to go by the Igbo culture, Davido will not claim this child. The child belongs to chiomas father because he was born out of wedlock.

Chiomas dowry has not been paid as at when the child was birthed hence it belongs to her father especially as it's a male child. But now, due to Tue fact that tradition has been watered down, and everything westernized, they'll just pardon him and allow him claim the.boy after marriage.

They would have told him, reason he quickly went to do the engagement when the pregnancy was almost due as he would have also known that its a baby boy through scan and doesn't want to lose him to chiomas family.

Sidon there dey drag name.

I can see why baby factory is popular in the east.

Nonsense.

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Thanks.

What are y'all doing about fake news

9jaBloke:
I've said this before and I'll say it again. Southern Nigeria and Nothern Nigeria have very little in common. That amalgamation was a monumental error.

Blame the politicians at that time who wanted a big nation.

Guys any update?

Berlyn1:
she wasn't like that she was actually chubby and looking healthy tho but just few mins they dropped her she took of her clothes, her body started tearing and shirking, if she was this way when they brought her im sure people would raised alarm and they couldn't hv dropped her this way on a broad day light in a market area i'd probably not believe too if i didn't see it live, i was at the scene and it happened!

Wait how did Solomon confirmed her health status?? They are yet to be attended to at the hospital

The lady can't even talk she can't move so well so how did he get the info about her health status??

Hiv patient can't shirk up like this only if it has gotten to Aids stage and beside she stood for long hiv patients wont have that strength to

No body threw pure water at her people were shocked and scared they didn't throw stones at her i was at the scene i didn't see anything like that

Solomon is just a clout chaser with this now his followers base will increase

Wow sis. Tell me more.

Parliament360:
Its high time I start believing this African Magic. My first time seeing a full freshed girl shrinking drastically. God have mercy on our ppl. Didn't know how she got herself into that mess.

You saw her shrink with your eyes yh?

Bloody liar.

franchasng:
Audio Visual is different from real life practical.....if it is that efficient, people wouldn't need to be traveling abroad to go and study medicine when they can watch Doctor Who and co's videos and automatically become professional surgeons


Oya, whisper to my hearing alone, who taught you how to screw those guys like a pro

Are you comparing studying medicine to porn?

franchasng:
So can you tell me who taught you how to sex Be honest

Porn

We are in an internet age, knowledge is at our fingertips

franchasng:
Nigerian ladies and pretense; none of them will ever say the truth about how good they are in screwing guys on bed even though they weren't taught by anybody, continue lying and living in denials, everybody knows the truth anyway

But really how can somebody be good in bed without being taught?

Femich18:
Naxo them dey think. Education is not stupidity. Mermaid is never a fiction

Vampire and werewolf too is not fiction

anochuko01:
I stayed in a fellowship secretariat in all my 4yrs in school. My eyes saw things....no be everybody we see be humans. My 2 cents

Evidence??

donbachi:
Praising GOD

Wrong

kestolove95:
How much is dis hair?

More Nigerian women need to wear hair like that

Thoughts can be stopped, they are automatic.

The beliefs behind them can

teesquad007:
Bro, you really need to be & act domineering in your home. Your wife is using your weakness as a man to overide you. Don't take a nasty decision that will affect your children but you need to handle your wife properly.

It is her home too.

BiggyB242:
You saw these traits (get angry easily and couldn't cook) but you turned a blind eye.

Most ladies who hate cooking or can't cook are lazy when it comes house chores.

Advice: I think you should call both families to sit her down, if she refuses to change, I will just free style, my only concern is making sure my kids are well taking care of but the day she cheats then I will divorce her.

Brothers leave beauty ooo, character is more important. A lady who will give you peace of mind; look at how our brother is being frustrated. Don't pet your spouse too much because she "go see you finish", once she does that, it can never be undone.

This is the only comment that isn't screaming
"mental illness"!

OPs wife is simply a lazy woman that got bitter cos she had to pull up her socks after having 3 kids.

As for the child abuse, nothing new there.

Most Nigerians are abusive to kids that aren't theirs.

crackhaus:
Okay so, since no one will, how about I draw attention to the 'Elephant in the Room'.
Three pages almost gone and not one of these women have called out this man for laying hands on his wife As in, you mean a man can beat his wife and NL women are not all in arms?

So inconsistent, these chics.

Because it's not a regular occurrence. OP snapped.

AdedoyinO:
I think your wife has some kind of mental issues, you should have her evaluated. Keeping dirty environment, violence, not been remorseful are pointers to that fact.

So sorry for all you are going through. At this stage, involve her family, let them know what has been happening.

Abeg jo. Stop jumping on the bandwagon


Mental health is being used as a weapon these days

Pearl05:
Close down the shop, drive her to her parents house and leave her there. Send someone over with her personal belongings.


Change your locks .


Let her be there for at least six months, her senses will format to factory settings.

What if the house belongs to her also?

MNDY:
My point is, whether in marriage or not, the society always accuses the man while making the woman the victim, even in cases where the woman is meant to be accused. Not only husbands cheat.

I hope you are not trying to say women respect marriage vows than men.....because most married women still want that spark they had before the marriage and want to be desired by others (as it was) which leads to other things (especially as beauty fades too).

Playing the victim has always been with women even now that they boldly go for a man without any move made by the man first. You may want to blame men for their higher libido for sex but surveys have shown that women enjoy sex more.

Yes not only married men cheat but this topic isn't about that

ursullalinda:
The beating is just for factory reset ....wonder what a small gal like her is looking for in married men. Smh

And the cheating husband?

spiritedtete:
Absolutely no.. one of the things that trapped them in the first place. "Church"

But the church doesn't trap them to stay faithful ?