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Comanche:
Haha...As in ehn... Boys outfits and the lack of choice. Well I didn’t buy any for my baby as I am sewing his coming home outfit (a foxy coverall with boots and hat made from Ankara) and naming outfit (an Arab-like outfit of white robe and gingham scarf) myself.

Your baby issa big boy o!!

For all those claiming big aunties and mamas on this our lovely thread.. Plz, rest!! We address ourselves better with love and don't claim superior.

We are fond of ranting and we love it like that.... You can as well come and rant tomorrow we would joyfully read your rant.... Abeg, no come spoil our moods here with una oversabi and dictatorship attitude....

No man is an island of Knowledge that's the essence of coming together to rub minds but if you people continue with your monitoring spirit eyes, una go spoil the purpose for which this thread was created..... Abeg, make una let us enjoy our peaceful and serene environment as e dey before una keep showing face.. At least, una don enjoy the spotlight one of us gave you..... Keep reading, commenting and ask your questions if possible..... No stress us with your wahala again.... Daalu

baby124:
You mean your husband and his nurse side chick have been murdering your unborn children and you are here laughing? Do you really believe this is love? Don’t worry, when he’s done with you. It will finally dawn on you just what he has done to you and how much he has damaged your life. At this point, you are an active participant in the murder of your children. You don’t have family? Or you came from space? Na wa o. Anyway, this could be a pitiful story to make money from gullible mamas here because, no human being is this gullible. Especially a mother when it comes to her babies.

In as much as you have aired your opinion, you shouldn't have created a thread on her post....No one here is happy with the husband and the lady in question never demanded for money. She only asked questions on how to go about online buz.. If you really read through as you have claimed, you would see that most people vented there anger..

Now, you have successfully disorganized the group cos people willing to share their stories will think twice before doing that or refrain totally cos of a situation like this..

You have also created fears among us... To even think that you can refer to this page as mad people resident is totally absurd.. I also know you're trying to save people from been scammed but there's a better way to go about it...

The only advantage here is that you have publicize this page cos we have more people coming in to view but for a negative reason..

If this is not too much to ask, pls remove the thread you lifted from this space and let sanity return to all.... Thank you.

kokaiye:
so u r scorpio too... Wow!! E- hugs ooo... U r just like me, i do wat favours me ooo, dnt stress my life abeg... Hubby too is scorpio n him too stubborn lik me... But my own stubbkrn pass him own cs e don dey bow down 4 me small small... Cs swears if him advice dont favour me, i dnt listen... Him sef don tire but u c... I dnt freaking care.

Abajoooooooooo..... Scorpio vs Scorpio... I understand now my sis.....It is well... Regards to our boy..

FlowerGirl040:
I never knew him beforehand. Besides he is the one living here, I was with my family in another far away state. It was after marriage I was hearing some news about him from his family,advicing me cos he is a core difficult person. But then,90% of his character were beginning to come to light after some years.

I am sorry sis.. pls, try voicing out once in a while when there's an issue... So that he can know you've endured his character and it's now getting overboard... And keep praying for the family as well. You will have good testimony soon.

kokaiye:
same ooo... N hubby is havin issue wit me cs i didnt give in... I b scorpio woman, mo stubborn gan ( i am very stubborn n u cant dictate 4 me). I do exactly wat u r doing too... I dnt disturb him 4 money n buy my own n children things wit my own moni but guy man is stil hvin issues wit me not doing d 50/50 style.

We Scorpio know ourselves o... People do tell me that I am stubborn but I do disagree.... I will rather tell them that I do what I feel is right for me... You cannot comman kobalize my life... We all are humans and have principles... If your principle is not good for me, I will never bend to it and it is favours me, I willingly do it.. That why we have varieties of all things even human beings..

FlowerGirl040:
It's really impossible,I know what I am saying. If I want to go out to work then as I leave ,I leave my marriage and kids behind. That's him. That can't happen for now,bec I don't have shishi. I should have had something doing by now though but I never knew he was deceiving me with empty promise. Even when his uncle spoke to him about it. Every single person in his family knows he does whatever he wants to do without caring whatever anyone said.

It is only God that can intervene in your matter and He will definitely see you through....But my sister are there not signs I mean red flags before marrying Him or were you given to Him by tradition or forcefully married to him?

How will he not have just one person he listens to? Your families are supposed to intervene now or were you sold to him?He is so lucky to have you as his wife... I don't think I can bear any of it...I would have taken relay race back to my father's house... The more I try to comprehend your story, the more confused I get....You alone knows the solution to your problem...

My advice to you is to face your fear cos it seems you are too afraid of him.... He is not God o my sister....If you separate from him without one Kobo today...See, nothing will happen to you and you will freely pave way for yourself financially...

FlowerGirl040:
Apologize ke! Till date he said nothing wrong with the drugs and it's a pharmacist that gave him and he told him it's for his pregnant wife,so he knows it won't harm me. I just dey look am. I later sent the name of those drugs to my doctor and she said I shouldn't have used it. Wetin I go do? When I was forced to take it in his presence. Forget that apologize,you see that apologize stuff,he doesn't apologize to his wife,that's just him,no matter what. He will NEVER. Na those type of people that has the mindset of I am always right o.

Hmmmmm.... I feel for you... You're really calm... God will touch his heart for good.

FlowerGirl040:
Lol that time when you shower with hot water,then drink hot water join,the kind sweat ehn, especially during heat.

Thanks. I am not fully over it yet though,not after another terrible miscarriage @14weeks. But we move Who are we to question God

I love your faith ma'am... Keep the fire burning.....God has done it

Ayemco:
Good morning Mamas, August Cappo, it is with great pain in my heart I write to tell you that this is where my pregnant journey ends. Lost my angel this morning around 20weeks plus after a cerclage was placed at 14 weeks, I am down I feel everything just goes against me anytime I am pregnant. FYI, this will be my fourth miscarriage...I don't know what to do, I feel for my husband because he has been of great help all through

E-Hug to you Sis... I know it's not easy but pls take heart and take care of yourself and hubby... God will strengthen you both and give you Victory soonest.. Laugh at the problem and try again.... I will remember you in my prayers...

Omakraid:
Sorry about that, please complete the dose ooo... My EDD is May and my last dose is July. I only pray I don't forget

I will since you've given me reason not to miss it cos I can't bear starting all over again... I'll save the date on my phone.

StarryV:
Really? izit really painful? I've heard that from several other mamas o. I took my first dose of TT last month but surprisingly it was on my bumbum o. Thought it was supposed to be on the hand and it wasn't really painful. Hope say na the correct injection they give me so

Although, my first dose was bearable but today's injection got me.. Maybe it's cos of the nurse that administered it... I would have preferred the bumbum sef..

Omakraid:
It won't affect anything. The third dose is usually 6 months after the second and you'll have birthed your baby by then. Just make sure you don't miss it so that you won't start again in your next pregnancy (so I heard)

Thank you ma'am. I never knew it's compulsory to complete the dose even after birthing... I was happy it won't be necessary again cos the injection itself is painful...I haven't been able to do anything with that hand like this.

Please ohhhhhhh beautiful mamas... I collected my second TT injection today and the next one would be on the 13/10..but my LO would be delivered before then... Hope it won't affect anything?


Safe delivery to all waddling Mamas.
Congratulations to all who have their LOnes already and baby dust to all looking up to God... And to our Vigilante Mamas... God is your muscle... He'll continue to strengthen you all.. It is well!!

StarryV:
Snatch gini? Iffah catch you eh. I no dey joke with my young bobo o. Our marriage will be one year tomorrow 10th April. Na em you wan come snatch. I go naked swear for you o

Happy Wedding Anniversary Sis.... You'll continue to grow old together in good health, wealth and longlife. Abeg, send my cake o

ladyrachy:
Hahahahaha Since I found out I was preggy I stopped wearing pant, only wen going to church and market I wear small knicker under cloth oo. I wasn't comfortable with it again,now sef I Sidon n*ked inside room

We gather dey... I thought I was abnormal o.... I don't do panties anymore... I won't feel comfortable... I force myself whenever I am going out and remove immediately I get back.. Thank God I am not alone.

I feel jealous of mamas wey don go shopping o... As I dey likdis, I don't even know where to start from... It's been a while I visited the market cos hubby gets most things for me while coming from work and at times we go together.. That alone has made me lazy... But I guess it's because I still have few months left sha..


Who is Sept cappo sef? Cos I haven't seen any Sept except one papa... I am hanging between August and Sept.. Don't know if I should join Sept or August.

Mummytoo:
When I had it, I just kept vit C inside my mouth, I slept off with the vit. C in the morning it was better

Thanks Sis... It's better now

StarryV:
You can change your toothpaste. I don't know the one you're making use of but I recommend Sensodyne toothpaste (rapid action). Be disciplined enough to brush every night with it before you go to bed. Do it for a week and thank me later

Thank you Ma.... Hubby uses sensodyne while I make use of Pepsodent... That means I'll switch and brush every night as you have suggested.. I appreciate you!

Layormiii:
not bad, doctor said it's okay.
The pcv is your blood level. It must not be too low, say lower than 30 or 29.
You can Google it.
You can go run the test at a laboratory, it's just 500, just to know your blood level is good

Then eat lots of ugwu to boost it

Thank you Sis.

cinderellashoes:
Rubbing fresh tomatoes juice on my swolllen gum helps me get some relief

God bless you ma'am... I'll try it right away... I am grateful!!

Pls house.... I have toothache and my gum is swollen... What can I use to cure it cos I have not been able to eat properly.... And I can't take drug anyhow cos of my LO.... Although, I have gaggled warm water and salt but it is still troubling me...

Layormiii:
Pcv 31

It is not bad na.... Is it?? Cos I am yet to go check mine sef....I eat Vegetables to some extent but fruit is a no go area cos the taste it leaves in my mouth after eating irritates me..

Please, enlighten me more on this PCV... Maybe I should start forcing myself... Abeg

nancyij:
Good afternoon mummys in the house, i want to appreciate all of you for the kind of love i received here, i ran here for help and you mummys showed me i am not alone, i received the hospital items a mummy paid for me through mummy zaynie, thank you mummys, una pocket will not run dry, safe delivery for all of us, now i will have peace of mind my husband got a new job today, i dont know how to thank This God, i always tell my baby to open doors for us as she is coming out any moment from now, i will put to bed anyday please put me in your prayers

Glory to God!! Your blessing shall be permanent and God will continue to usher in more open doors for the family... Safe delivery to you and everyone one of us by God's grace. Amen!!

@GenEbere.... God will comfort you and give you reason to smile again soonest... It is well with your soul...

Sending Love and Lights!!

Mummytoo:
Lemme share my testimony

Prrrraaaaiiissseeeeee the Lord

My testimony goes like this, I started stooling from monday 5:00am when I say stooling, I visit the toilet every hour, I took ORS, no way!

On Wednesday morning I took thalazole tablet, no way!

On Thursday morning I took raw akamu, no way!

It got worse and worse

Changed my water, no way!

I also want to appreciate all the mamas helping me and encouraging me

It wasn't easy making the toilet ur office

Friday early morning I chewed one seed of arigo (that brown seed we use to cook) swallowed the water and poured out d chaff

My fellow mamas for more than 14hrs now, no more stooling, it has stopped o

Thank u all, I felt loved and supported

I'm finally free

Thank you God

Halleluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuujahhhh!!

Anyways babyA and I were in perfect health despite his birth weight he was and still doing excellently well, inshort his birth assessment was very goof, we got discharged 3 days later and I tell you vigilante is very very real and nepa is annoyingly/ irritatingly mean, but we are taking one day at a time.

I use babyA as a point of contact to my TTC mamas that in no distant time you all will get to carry your bundle of joy in your womb and arms very very soon by God's grace

I wish the rest of my teamies yet to drop swift, safe and painless delivery and to those that have birthed their Lo's congratulations[/quote]This is a wonder filled BS.... What God has done shall be permanent... A ba yin kale... He will open ways for others and be a source of joy to the family and his generations...

Mummytoo:
The thalazole didn't work for me yesterday, it reduced for like 6hrs and got worse, so I've taken the Akamu. I will update u if the akamu works

Just take it easy... It will work by God's grace!! Take care jare.

Layormiii:
lol unfortunately constipation is part of pregnancy package oo.
Just take more orange and eat vegetables too.. vegetable soup, ugwu etc that might help

Thanks Sis....

Omakraid:
Though constipation is a common thing in pregnancy but roughages helps. Take oranges and make sure you eat everything in it before disposing it, continue to eat vegetables (you can prepare only ugu) and continue to drink water.. It is well with you ma

Amen and you too Sister mi...

Good afternoon my Big Sisters..... I yaff
come again to disturb una oooo... E ma binu simi.... Make una no vex.


I don't know how I can aid my going to the toilet more often.... It's after 4days I do use the toilet even before pregnancy which I don't really like.... I drink a lot of water now as in ALOT although there was a time during pregnancy I detest water but I have passed that stage now. I eat fruits and vegetables but this thing won't come except it is ready..... What other options can I try......

AdedoyinO:
You actually need more milk this time around. You are to drink milk every day but skimmed or filled milk preferably.

Alright ma'am.. Thank you.