naijaboiy:

LoL

brownlord:


No, 10 miles relationship

pinkycute:
Am presently on distance relationship now, and my is going smoothly as I plan, and we've been together for 3years now....





Well, the secret of it, is trust and honest....

kennygee:
Its not so promising o.

I was in a relationship where i met the guy during Service, i asked him if he was in a relationship when he asked me out, the dude denied it and said they had just broken up due to distance.

After i had fallen in love hook, line and sinker, i discovered he was in a very serious relationship with someone back at home in the south west for years now, his family is even aware, we were in Abuja and he never broke up with her.

He was just looking for an Abuja Gf.

You be the judge.

I learned my lesson sharply, if a guy asks me out now and tells me "he just broke up", na run i dey run for my life o.

Phrint:
poor grammer sweedy

enkay4love:
Long distance/social media relatnships sometimes work, if both parties are truly serious, but the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.Case in point;a young lady travelled to Aba to physically meet a guy she met & had bn chatting with, on Facebook,on meeting with him at the park waiting to welcome her,he quickly told her she looked different from the person he saw on Facebook..lol ,and he ended up dumping her at d park & quickly disappeared.The babe sef no come carry extra cash,just incase.She found herself stranded without cash to go back to her state,it was the mercy of the park manager of the vehicle she earlier used, that saved her ass.We were actually in the same vehicle,it was after she dropped,the conductor now narrated all this to us.So much for social media relatnshps...SMH.

benromeo39:
it is perfectly normal and healthy for kids between age 14 and 17. I did it years ago on 2go and I was like Solomon surrounded by hundreds of concubines.

But you are between 23-35, you are still saying "I love you, boo" "I wish I could just hold you, boo" "I'm longing for you, boo" through the Internet or via calls to someone u aren't even sure u'll see, then let's make preparations to beg the old woman that has tied ur destiny to a wheelchair in the village.

For those ones that started the relationship physically, hold on if he's serious about settling down, if not, find your way or "why always me?" will be your new anthem.

edelweiss:
In my early 20's I would not have done it because I was too needy and clingy. I believed then that a boyfriend must be seen everyday or at least 5 times a week! Now in my early thirties I appreciate the distance relationship the more because I have time to myself, more time for work and family and funny enough am having the best time ever! But first of all be sure you and the man are on the same page and reading the same book. For example my man and I, we have had an agreement that we must see every 10 weeks no be me you go keep for naija dey do your thing. Another thing is openness and trust for the first time in my ENTIRE life am not thinking that a man might be cheating on me! We always talk, video calls and texting. He is in America but we cook together Skype, we have dinner you know keep each other company despite the distance but everything boils down to your own self esteem, an insecure person can't deal with it.

marieolae:
c'mon now, that's really heartless. Wow

kennygee:
Its not so promising o.

I was in a relationship where i met the guy during Service, i asked him if he was in a relationship when he asked me out, the dude denied it and said they had just broken up due to distance.

After i had fallen in love hook, line and sinker, i discovered he was in a very serious relationship with someone back at home in the south west for years now, his family is even aware, we were in Abuja and he never broke up with her.

He was just looking for an Abuja Gf.

You be the judge.

I learned my lesson sharply, if a guy asks me out now and tells me "he just broke up", na run i dey run for my life o.

donifez:

wow..so happy for you..i for even like to attend,since am in nigeria now.

jeremiah505:
I just need to clear my head on this and understand what there is to understand...

I'll appreciate talks from experience... cause i strongly believe few, some or most of us has engaged in this stuff (Distance and Social Media Relationship)... so from experience, study and observation.... How promising can it be?...

jeremiah505:
Guys... here's the thing...

we are facebook friends for quite a while... she has been following me like seriously... (My every post, comment and update and so on)... and i never noticed her...

it was early this year around April/May she opened up to me... telling me how much love she had for me... and how long she's had a crush on me... i den asked why she waited so long to tell me... she said she was in a relationship and couldn't handle double dating... and now she's broke up with her guy.. dat why shes making her intentions known to me...

She told me she would undastand if am not interested... i thought about it... and reasoned... for an African lady to open up to a guy... guess she's really serious about the stuff... (She's in Uganda though and am in Nigeria)...

tpiadotcom:




Is she the white lady you're advertising on another thread or are you a scammer.

tpiadotcom:




Is she the white lady you're advertising on another thread or are you a scammer.

switkera:
Well it depends o, I just got out of one which seemed so promising, was in it for three years but the guy decided to dump me for some "unreasonable reasons". But just as I said the promising aspect depends.